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From Sacrament to Contract: Marriage, Religion, and Law in the Western Tradition (Family, Religion, and Culture)
John Witte Jr. Manufacturer: Westminster John Knox Press ProductGroup: Book Binding: Paperback Similar Items:
ASIN: 0664255434 |
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Outstanding Legal and Theological History of Marriage.......1999-05-08
The account begins with the development of the medieval Catholic canon law of marriage in an effort to combat the phenomenon of "secret marriage." Indeed, Witte reveals that prior to the systematization of the canon law and the sacraments, couples could proclaim themselves to be married with none of the public ceremonies, present witnesses, and festive celebrations that would become the classic wedding accoutrements in subsequent centuries. Given the disarray of the canon law and the sacramental system before this medieval synthesis, any couple who thought they were married probably were married.
The social and covenantal dimensions of marriage replaced the sacramental dimension as the hallmarks of the theology of the family in the Protestant Reformation, which Witte examines in its Lutheran and Calvinistic expressions. It was in this era that many of the trappings of the modern wedding, such as witnesses and church ceremonies, came into existence. The Anglican tradition encompassed the sacramental, social, and covenantal models in a commonwealth model that linked the common good of the couple, their children, the church, and the state in a model that became increasingly egalitarian and democratized, tracking political progress within the British commonwealth.
The ironic result of the development of marriage law and theology in the Christian West is that the move toward greater regulation and publicity in the Catholic, Reformation, and Anglican traditions was eventually largely overturned by the Enlightenment notions of contract and rights. Marriage came to be conceived largely as a private and completely voluntary contract--a bargain struck seemingly at arm's length by parties seeking the most intimate of associations. The Enlightenment model is, in essence, the model that is our legacy in the present day. It is this journey from sacrament to contract that characterizes marriage in the West and has led us to where we are today in the law and lore of marriage and family. Witte's work is a remarkable chronicle of the social practices, legal doctrines, and theological foundations encountered along the way.
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Prenuptial Agreements: How to Write a Fair and Lasting Contract. Book with CD-Rom (Second Edition)
Katherine E. Stoner , and Shae Irving Manufacturer: NOLO ProductGroup: Book Binding: Paperback Similar Items:
ASIN: 141330396X |
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Everything you need to enter your marriage with eyes wide open.Marriage is one of the few personal contracts in which your state dictates the terms -- unless you create your own customized premarital agreement.
Combining Nolo's legal expertise and plain-English writing, Prenuptial Agreements makes a potentially touchy subject easy to deal with while explaining how to create a valid contract. The book covers:
Prenuptial Agreements provides worksheets as tear-outs and on CD-ROM, as well as clauses for preparing an agreement that suits your needs. The 2nd edition is updated with the latest laws of your state.
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great introduction and hands-on guide.......2007-04-07
limited usefulness.......2007-03-16
Prenuptial Agreements Are A Necessity And So Is This Book.......2007-01-26
Excellent review of prenups.......2006-12-22
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The Marriage Contract
Cathy Maxwell Manufacturer: Avon ProductGroup: Book Binding: Mass Market Paperback Similar Items:
ASIN: 0380808331 |
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Setting: London and Scotland, 1815Sensuality Rating: 7
Married by proxy to a man she's never laid eyes on, one who's rumored to be insane, at that, sensible Anne Burnett wonders what she's gotten herself into. When Anne arrives at her new home in the Scottish Highlands, she is greeted by a half-naked, blue-faced man wielding a knife. This, of course, is Anne's new husband, Aidan Black, the Earl of Thiebauld. Thiebauld is furious with his older sister's unwelcome meddling and is determined not to accept the bride so summarily dumped on him, no matter how appealing her direct manner, fine gray eyes, and womanly curves. But her husband didn't count on Anne's determination to finally have her own home, her own people, and her own place in the world. And he certainly didn't count on the gut-wrenching passion that flames out of control every time Anne comes near him. Maxwell's trademark humor, realistic dramatic scenes, and fast-paced storytelling is greatly in evidence in The Marriage Contract. Cathy Maxwell is definitely a rising star among romance authors. Keep an eye on her and enjoy! --Alison Trinkle
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He was a man exiled from society – handsome, unpredictable, and proud. Dark rumours surrounded his name. But Anne Burnett had signed a marriage contract binding her to Aiden Black, the Earl of Tiebauld. And although she'd never met him, she's determined to keep her word and make theirs a marriage in truth. Because a well–bred lady with little fortune to recommend her has no choice.
From the moment she arrived, Anne fell in love with Kelwin Castle and its roguishly handsome laird. By day, he instils a fierce loyalty in his people with his masterful ways...and by night, he tempts Anne to surrender her innocence to him. But while he is willing to offer his body, Aiden refuses to give Anne his heart...making her wonder what prevents him from truly claiming her as his wife.
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A "Hallmark" Historical Novel.......2006-10-09
Very Good Romance , but drags a bit.......2006-07-21
Cartoonish.......2005-11-17
Maxwell's Best.......2005-09-29
Suprisingly good........2005-08-21
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Prenups for Lovers: A Romantic Guide to Prenuptial Agreements
Arlene Dubin Manufacturer: Villard ProductGroup: Book Binding: Paperback Similar Items:
ASIN: 0375755357 Release Date: 2001-02-06 |
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This ring-to-altar guide is a valentine to anyone who's dating, contemplating marriage, living with someone, or engaged.Download Description
A family law expert describes how prenuptial agreements stimulate communication and compromise, and offers a wise and witty handbook for creating these agreements. Includes checklists to make sure there will be no court after the courtship, real-life profiles, specialized information for women, business partners, parents, and cohabitants, and more.Customer Reviews:
great book.......2007-03-16
A Gem More Valuable Than Your Engagement Ring.......2002-06-06
I have practised as a Certified Financial Planner for 18 years, and send this book to clients and allied professionals. It is eminently readable, but does not dumb-down a subject that is important to anyone contemplating marriage.
Must reading for any man about to get married........2002-04-10
I hesistate to write this because every woman that reads this will react emotionally and not logically to what I have to write. Ladies please think about what is important here. Do you want your marriage to last, or do you want to take all your husbands money? Be fair and think long-term.
Prenuptials provide stability, ensure longevity and communication, define expectations in marriage and contigency plans in the event of divorce with respect to finanical,and child custody issues.
Statistics show that nearly 60% of US marraiges end in divorce. Sensible laws created in the 1930's to protect non-working housewives have, in modern times, become out of date today, giving women an overwhelming advantage in divorce, without the stigma divorce created in the past. Marriage has become a win-win situation where the woman wins in a successful marraige and also wins in a divorce. This is the root cause of the high divorce rate. Pre-nuptials are contracts signed before marriage to ensure fairness for both parties in the event of divorce. They also enhance communication on critical issues that provide stability in marriage.
Fair: I personally think marraiges should last a lifetime. However, marriage is one thing that requires two people to make it last. Given that divorce is something that does happen, the most that can be done is to see that it is fair to both parties. A prenuptial, signed prior to marriage, ensures the agreement is fair to both people.
Longevity and Communication: What is the solution to make marraiges last? The answer is communication. Pre-nuptial agreements ensure communication on important topics takes place before marriage by forcing disclosure and discussion of financial and other matters, and defines how assets will be distributed in a divorce. Some women don't like pre-nuptials because it takes away the overwhelming financial advantage women have in marraiges without pre-nuptial agreements. Other women wisely see this sort of communication strengthens a marriage. If a relationship can't stand the scrutiny of a pre-nuptial, then it is bound the fail eventually.
Expectations: One cause of conflict in a marriage is violated expectations. Pre-nuptials define each person's expectations in advance. Most people, when they know what the other expects, can either meet that expectation, or else discuss it in advance if it can't be met, which makes it is easier to digest. Expectation can be the number of children or other issues.
Stability: It is common practice for husbands, good or bad, to be robbed financially by their wives in divorce. Many women fail to satisfy their husbands. For whatever reason the marriage fails, there is a huge finanical incentive for a woman to get divorced from a man with assets gained prior to the marraige. Pre-nuptials prevent women from gaining an unfair financial advantage over men. No woman deserves half a man's assets after a few months of marriage. This does happen today to men, and women too, without prenuptial agreements. Pre-nuptials also define clearly a man's responsibilites in the event of a divorce in advance of marraige.
Child Custody: Prenuptials are used to present child custody issues in advance of any divorce. This is an area where some women spitefully use their children to strike back at their former husbands. Children should not be chess pawns to manipulate and be hurtfull to a former spouse. Husbands are entitled to share child custody.
If you plan to get married, take the time to get to know your partner, discuss in detail you plans for the future, and prepare a pre-nuptial in advance to define your financial situation, goals, and expectations. Once written down, it is not something that can be argued about later. Things said years ago can be denied. There is no denying a signature and written documentation.
Once again, I feel that marraige should be entered into with an objective of making it last a lifetime. It is easy to bail out of a marriage. It happens often, you have to plan for the worst case. But if you communicate prior to marraige, and find disagreement, you can either choose to accept the agreement, or find someone else. Those who communicate their goals and expectations early have a higher chance of a successful marraige.
Great and Helpful Look at Misunderstood Topic.......2001-11-02
Take the Pain out of your Prenup.......2001-04-27
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Hindu Women and Marriage Law: From Sacrament to Contract (Law in India)
Monmayee Basu Manufacturer: Oxford University Press, USA ProductGroup: Book Binding: Hardcover ASIN: 0195645383 |
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This is an in-depth study of the problems faced by Hindu women in marriage from 1856 to 1956. Remedial legislative measures to solve these problems and their likely effects on the status of women in Hindu society are also discussed at length.
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From Bondage to Contract: Wage Labor, Marriage, and the Market in the Age of Slave Emancipation
Amy Dru Stanley Manufacturer: Cambridge University Press ProductGroup: Book Binding: Paperback Similar Items:
ASIN: 0521635268 |
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This book explores the centrality of contract to debates over freedom and slavery in nineteenth-century America. It focuses on the contracts of wage labor and marriage, investigating the connections between abolition in the South and industrial capitalism in the North and linking labor relations to home life. Integrating the fields of gender and legal, intellectual and social history, it reveals how abolitionists, former slaves, feminists, laborers, lawmakers and others drew on contract to condemn chattel slavery and to measure the virtues of free society.Customer Reviews:
Whose Work is Never Done.......2000-12-28
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Complete Prenuptial Agreement Kit (Book & CD-ROM) (Write Your Own Prenuptial Agreement)
Edward Haman Manufacturer: Sphinx Publishing ProductGroup: Book Binding: Paperback Similar Items:
ASIN: 1572485345 |
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"Whether this is your first marriage or you've been married before, a prenuptial agreement (also referred to as a premarital agreement) can help you build a stronger relationship. Through communication and documentation of each other's needs, your marriage can begin with a greater appreciation of the other's concerns and prevent future financial stresses. In fact, a premarital agreement can go hand-in-hand with a will and other estate planning measures to enable you and your spouse--not the government--to control your property. Write Your Own Prenuptial Agreement helps you understand this need and create your own premarital agreement to legally and financially protect you, your spouse and your children.
Understanding the good that a prenuptial agreement can do is the only the first step. This title takes the reader further by providing a CD-ROM, which contains a variety of forms to help you draft your own premarital agreement. Sample forms and step-by-step instructions ensure that you are completing the form that is right for you.
The Complete Prenuptial Agreement Kit makes writing your own premarital agreement inexpensive and hassle-free.
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The Sexual Contract
Carole Pateman Manufacturer: Stanford University Press ProductGroup: Book Binding: Paperback Similar Items:
ASIN: 0804714770 |
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Not much else like it.......2002-10-08
Implicit is a critique not just of the conservative and liberal tradition, but of the patriarchy contained within the Left as well. As usual, feminism provides some of the most sophisticated critique of Left organizational practice, not just in relation to women, but as a whole.
Obviously, one reviewer was looking for something a bit more right-wing. But her work her follows alongside her defense of ideas like a minimum income, which are not intended to 'make people work' (in a society where 'work' equals 'exploitation' and alienation, the struggle against the imposition of work is the struggle against inhuman conditions.)
Especially in relation to women, however, her position makes sense, since 'housework' is work, and work for capital at that, which goes unwaged. The struggle for a social wage is the struggle for recognition and against the imposition of the endless work which is capital's goal for women.
Some people may not like this book because they think that we have now found the best of all worlds, but the continued gendering of inequality, oppression and labor indicates that maybe its time for more fundamental transformations.
Sorry, Pateman's prose is horrible.......2002-08-29
Pateman is going after Loche, Hobbs, & the founding fathers!.......2002-05-13
A must-read, non-political and sensible exploration..........1999-07-09
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Ketubbot: Marriage Contracts from the Jewish Museum
Jewish Museum (New York City) Manufacturer: Pomegranate Communications ProductGroup: Book Binding: Hardcover Similar Items: ASIN: 0764906186 |
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Marriage is one of the most important mitzvot (commandments) in Judaism, and the Scriptures are replete with verses encouraging the union of man and woman. One of the essential elements of a Jewish wedding ceremony is the writing and transfer of a contract, or ketubbah (plural ketubbot).Originally formulated to protect a woman's rights in marriage, the ketubbah established the financial obligations of the groom toward his bride in cases of divorce or death.
This hardcover book presents forty ketubbot dating from 1614 to 1989. Originating in Italy, Persia, the Ottoman Empire, the Sephardi communities of Germany and Holland, and the United States, and drawing upon the collection of The Jewish Museum in New York City, these intricately illuminated marriage contracts are unique historical documents as well as beautiful works of art.
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Marital Love and Hate: The Need for a Revised Marriage Contract and a More Honest Offer by the Marriage Counselor to Teach Couples to Love and Hate,
Israel W. Charny Manufacturer: Macmillan Pub Co ProductGroup: Book Binding: Hardcover ASIN: 0025239902 |
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