Book Description
The book that changed the consciousness of a country—and the world. Landmark, groundbreaking, classic—these adjectives barely describe the earthshaking and long-lasting effects of Betty Friedan's The Feminine Mystique. This is the book that defined "the problem that has no name," that launched the Second Wave of the feminist movement, and has been awakening women and men with its insights into social relations, which still remain fresh, ever since. A national bestseller, with over 1 million copies sold.
Customer Reviews:
I'm glad that I can't relate to this book.......2007-07-17
Let me start off by saying that this book got an additional star from me because I completely agree with the point of this book: That if woman doesn't stand up and provide themselves with an identity and use themselves to their whole potential, they will become incomplete and nothing. This is mainly summed up in the chapter: A New Life Plan for Women. I recommend this book simply on this chapter. It is inspiring, positive, and relevant for women to read, even to this day. However, the rest of this book was hard for me to get through. In reference to the title of my review, I am young and perhaps I can't relate to some of the issues Ms. Friedan has brought up because of the women's movement of the '60's and '70's which has provided me with more opportunity, as a woman, to make life and career choices for myself without pressure or guilt. I am glad that I don't have the restrictions that women had back then and I am so grateful that there were women out there that knew our potential and were not willing to compromise it. But asides from possibly not liking the material because I found it hard to relate to, I did find that Ms.Friedan used alot of subject matter that is at best, subjective (for instance, the chapter Mistaken Choice was absurdly biased-- she makes references that the men in the military that were rejected for service due to mental issues usually came from homes that had doting overly loving mothers, that juvenile deliquency was non-existent in the homes of mothers who worked, that Russian children were more stable and adjusted than American children because their mothers worked or had interests outside the home etc, and that she even goes to imply that over loving a child is more traumatic for the child than raising them in a household where whippings and beatings are frequent possibilties.) There are other scattered observations that she made that I found hard to swallow as well, such as part of the chapter The Sexual Sell which implies that business caters to the homemakers because they do all the buying, and that mothers with careers or serious interests outside the home do not have the time to take to buy from business. I find it hard to believe that big business couldn't capitalize on the working mom. I can't believe that a working mom wouldn't be interested in an appliance that could cut her time to get chores done back then as well as today. That part of the chapter made no sense to me. Basically, I felt that Ms. Friedan used a lot of subjective facts, scare tactics (mother and housewife bashing), and propaganda that was unnecessary, at best, to get to her more inspiring point. I felt that all that "material" detracted from the point of the book, but I am glad I made it all the way through to get to the "New Plan." That's where the "heart of the artichoke" lies. But to those of you who feel that the point of the book is, "women who are unhappy with their lives are this way because they don't have a job" are missing the point. While although it is evident that she found her calling through her career and those around her (upper middle class women with privilege) did the same, her point is for women to challenge themselves and demand more than what is offered. Don't settle for less.
The Feminine Mystique-GREAT service!.......2007-01-11
This book required no wait-time. Great condition, just as I expected. No problems whatsoever!
Friedan and Freud.......2006-10-17
All right.
There seems to be some confusion as to what Ms. Friedan's opinion on Freud was.
To clarify, she WAS NOT A FREUD SUPPORTER!!!
In fact, Freudian thought is entirely contrary to feminist thought.
If you don't believe me, either buy the book or check it out from your local library and see Chapter 5: The Sexual Solipsism of Sigmund Freud.
The following is taken from the first paragraph from that chapter:
"The old prejudices--women are animals, less than human, unable to think like men, born merely to breed and serve men--were not so easily dispelled by the crusading feminists, by science and education, and by the democratic spirit after all. They merely reappeared in the forties, in Freudian disguise. The feminine mystique derived its power from Freudian thought; for it was an idea born of Freud, which led women, and those who studied them, to misinterpret their mothers' frustrations, and their fathers' and brothers' and husbands' resentments and inadequacies, and their own emotions and possible choices in life. It is a Freudian idea, hardened into apparent fact, that has trapped so many American women today."
(Including this paragraph is in no way intended to substitute for reading the entire book. Please buy the book and read it to benefit the most fully from it.)
And for your own edification, Betty Friedan defined the "feminine mystique" as "the problem that has no name"--i.e. what women think when they realize that being a housewife (or what we call today a stay-at-home mom) is not enough for them. That they want more--that they need more. That they need to be given all the same opportunities to develop their personhoods as men have to develop theirs.
In short, the book The Feminine Mystique is about when we, women, realize that we are people too.
The book is about this and nothing more.
And people who say otherwise either haven't read the book or just don't believe that we are people. Maybe they believe that we're just half-people--wombs with brains that are dumber than men's attached to them. Although how they could believe such a thing and actually sleep at night, I do not know.
You'll never quit your job after reading this book.......2006-10-07
I read this book in high school, and was very happy to read it again in my 40s. In each instance, the urgency, and the modern-day applications of this work hit me in the face: the American woman exists in a world with extraordinary pressures. The pressure to get married; the pressure to let a man support you; the pressure to fully believe that unless you live your life through your family and solely through your family that you are somehow a failure.
Some parts of this book feel dated--and certainly the author is concentrating on but a section society: white, college educated, and at the least middle class.
However, look at how our teenager daughters and nieces are being sexualized today--this is only slightly different from the 1950s, where a young girl's sexuality was her primary trading commodity. Look at how the consumer culture continues to influence us. And look at how intelligent women (college educated or not, because there are plenty of smart women who didn't go to college) are still pressured to stay at home. The current cult of the "perfect parent" and "helicopter mother" still stems from the insidious understanding that women must give all to creating a perfect family.
THE FEMININE MYSTIQUE is thought-provoking and still more than a bit scarey. Can anyone imagine a time where your college major was, pretty much, a course in ironing?
If you want to learn more read PINK THINK--more lighthearted but as thought provoking.
Gives insight into feminism's history.......2006-09-16
First of all, I recommend everyone to read the book in order to have an idea where a lot of modern day values come from.
The book recognizes a problem women (as well as all other humans) have to deal with: how to find fulfillment in life. The problem is that Friedan seems to think this problem only concerns housewives and stay at home moms, and that the problem could be solved by those women getting jobs outside the home. An interesting hypothesis, but judging by today's women, clearly wrong. There are plenty of career women that feel rather unfulfilled.
She describes the problem as women slaving away to keep the house perfectly clean and the kids perfectly taken care of, and then getting depressed as a result. They do this out of a perceived societal pressure. To me, the solution seems to be to check whether this is really what their kids and husband want. In reality, probably no-one cares whether you wash the windows once per week or once per month, so you could spend that time thinking about your values in order to raise your kids as moral individuals, or learning about current events, so that you can actually have a real conversation with your husband, or reading a book for fun.
Getting a job because you're feeling unfulfilled trying to outperform Martha Stewart is as much of an escape tactic as becoming an alcoholic. Being a teacher is as much "living through others" as being a mother is. Shuffling papers around like people with average office jobs doesn't intrinsically give any more fulfillment than making a healthy meal for your spouse and kids does.
The book did some good in promoting equal rights for men and women, but also caused a harmful movement that indoctrinates modern girls and women that the *only* path to fulfillment is through employment, which is clearly nonsense. Housewives and mothers can be really valuable to society, which can give them a strong sense of fulfillment.
Aside from the above, the research Friedan did to back up her point was rather bad and biased, with frequent misuse of statistics. A list of factual errors and omissions in her book is listed on this website:
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In conclusion, the book is important as a historical document, but has to be approached with extreme caution. One could call it propaganda.
- 22yo housewife and part-time science/engineering major
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Arguably, Ben Hogan was the most technically precise striker ever to hit a golf ball. Revered and feared throughout a marvelous career, he was his sport's most complexly dark personality, as well. This opulent coffee-table homage to the "Wee Ice Mon" combines the Spartan imagery of Alexander's photographs with a trio of perceptive essays by Dave Anderson, Ben Crenshaw, and Dan Jenkins to capture Hogan's rare, imperial essence and the powerful authority of his game with majesty, but without fawning.
Book Description
An album of collector quality photographs of an intensively private athlete playing at his prime.
Customer Reviews:
Be sure to understand what you are getting.......2000-04-26
Whether you find this book worth the money will depend on whether you think Ben Hogan was the God of Golf (or at least one member of the Trinity). It is a large-format book, and the quality of the photographs (all black-and white) is excellent. I believe they were all taken on the same day, when Hogan allowed Jules Alexander to accompany him. They pretty much just show Hogan at work on the course, and they do capture who he was. The accompanying comments and essays are interesting, but the photographs are the stars of the book. Just make sure you realize that you are getting a series of photographs taken on one day -- this isn't a retrospective of Hogan's career, and there are no swing sequences or anything like that. If you are a Hogan worshipper, however, this book is a must.
A must-have work for the Hogan fan.......1998-08-03
This book is appropriately titled. The photos are truly classic and do a wonderful job of portraying the on-course Hogan, particularly his steely focus and gorgeous swing. The accompanying text is solid. I most enjoyed Ken Venturi's comments which accompanied the photos, as well as Dan Jenkin's recounting of the man behind the mystique. I was somewhat disappointed that the photos are all from the late 50s, mostly from the same tournament. Yet, this is only a minor issue. Every true Hogan fan should add this work to his or her collection.
Average customer rating:
- Boring and Hoaky
- Another wonderful story
- Love Those Hard-Headed Heroines
- Different but really quite good
- fabulous read
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Mystique
Amanda Quick
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Dark and forbidding, the legendary knight Sir Hugh the Relentless is aptly named. Yet he has met his match in Lady Alice, the quick-witted, red-haired beauty who can help him find the mysterious green crystal he seeks. Soon she replaces the crystal as the prize of his dreams--but whether she returns his secret passion is another matter!
Book Description
Hailed as an exceptional storyteller, New York Times bestselling author Amanda Quick unveils another spectacular romance, a tantalizing tale of a legendary knight, a headstrong lady, and a daring quest for a dazzling crystal...
Mystique
Lady Alice approached the fearsome Warrior who had swept into Lingwood Manor like a storm. Dark and forbidding, with hair as black as midnight and eyes of molten amber, Hugh the Relentless seemed aptly named. Yet to Alice, adept at driving off suitors and handling her insufferable relatives, Sir Hugh was not someone to dread, but the answer to her dreams.
He had come for the mysterious green crystal, and would be greatly displeased to learn that it was no longer in her possession. But Alice was certain Sir Hugh could be coaxed into a deal that would benefit them both. In return for a dowry large enough to free Alice and her brother from the grasp of their conniving uncle, she would lend her powers of detection to Sir Hugh's knightly skills and together they would recover his treasured stone.
With a tongue as sharp as a dagger, the flame-haired Alice filled Hugh with fury...and a growing fascination. He accepted her terms, with one alteration: Alice must agree to a temporary betrothal and spend the winter in Hugh's great stone fortress, Scarcliffe Keep.
The bargain is struck and the adventure begins. But Sir Hugh's lifelong enemy is plotting against them, stirring up a whirlwind of treachery that threatens their fragile alliance.
Customer Reviews:
Boring and Hoaky.......2007-06-13
I cannot believe all of the 5 and 4 star ratings for this book! I couldn't wait for it to end. Very formula and hoaky dialogue. If this is any indication of how Amanda Quick writes her best-selling novels, I think I'll pass up the next opportunity to read another. The purple prose was forced and ridiculous. If this was supposed to be a satire or comedy, it missed the mark and just came across as incredibly stupid.
"He found the valley that divided the luscious hillocks and followed its course to the hot spring that awaited him." (The words of Hugh the Relentless.)--Even though this is a medievil romance--way too hoaky.
"A cold, ghostly wind wafted from the dark corridor. It carried before it the promise of doom." (this is describing Hugh entering a dark cave and Alice, the heroine senses his presence by mental telepathy or something. OH PLEASE!
"Hugh was vengeance incarnate, a dark wind that would sweep all before it."
And these ridiculous passages were easy to find--they're everywhere in this book.
I say don't bother with this one.
Another wonderful story.......2006-12-01
This was my second Amanda Quick book, and it was also a fantastic story! I loved that the heroine was so spunky and not afraid to do what she knew was right, and even when he disagreed with her, the hero still supported her actions. Wish all men were like that! This was just an all around GREAT book! I laughed so hard at the end! (But I won't spoil the surprise!)
Love Those Hard-Headed Heroines.......2006-08-06
Legendary knight Hugh the Relentless has recently been rewarded a keep and the surrounding lands. To gain his peoples trust, he must recover the mysterious green crystal and bring it back home. Lady Alice, a collector of stones, used to have the green crystal before it was stolen from her. Sir Hugh comes to collect. Lady Alice strikes a bargain to help him find the green stone in exchange for payment for funding her brothers studies and placing her in a respectable convent. When Hugh lays eyes on Lady Alice and her sharp wit, he has other ideas - a fake betrothment to pacify his people. Little does Alice know that Hugh has no intention of giving her up.
Hugh is one of the best hero's I've read about in a long time. He puts up with all the stubborness Alice can muster and never demeans her. He defends her, even when she comes to the rescue of his enemies wife and son. Alice is so hard-headed and insists on doing things her own way and Hugh is extremely forgiving. I love how the love story develops.
If you liked this one get Quick's Ravished too.
Different but really quite good.......2006-01-23
Hugh the relentless is not only a fearsome and formidable knight he is also very intelligent and uses his wits to aid him not just his physical strength.I liked that about him.When he meets the heroine Alice who is also quite intelligent he uses an unusual strategy to convince her to become engaged to him,they are both seeking the green stone,he offers her the use of his castle for her to continue her study of natural philosophy in exchange for her help in finding the green stone which was quite important to him in winning the loyalty of the people of his home.Alice had wanted to enter a convent after her younger brother became settled in a profession.Hugh offers her a bethrothal to him instead then sets about convincing her to marry him in a businesslike fashion.He convinced her that as his wife she would have unlimitted resources to continue her studies of Natural Philosophy.I was so relieved that he did not try to use passion-good old fashioned sex as a means of convincing her to marry him or trying to get her with child as so many of these so called heroes have done in other novels.When Hugh brings Alice to his home she is confronted by a fanatical monk who tries to intimidate her but in true Alice fashion she sets him on his ear winning their battle of wills quite easily until Hugh rescues the monk from her agile tongue.This confrontation with the monk and one later was a great source of laughter for me.The reason I like this book so much is that there was trust throughout the novel between the hero and heroine.He admired her integrity and she admired his honor and his strength.There was no bickering in this novel.The only little tiff was when they had made love and Alice still refused to marry him and this was quite humorous as Alice tells him he is overwrought and tries to quote church law to him about bethrothed couples engaging in premarital sex.I also enjoyed Hugh's attempt to be romantic as he commissions his messenger to write "pretty verses" that he uses to woo Alice.The villain in this novel wasn't trying to kidnap Alice to rape her he just wanted the green stone which was a relief to me,the evil villain becoming over come by the beautiful heroine routine does get tired after a while.Great book-spunky,likeable heroine and caring gentle hero.I have found that liking the hero and heroine of a romance novel greatly enhances my enjoyment of it.
fabulous read.......2003-11-17
Mystique was my first Amanda Quick book and it has certainly encouraged me to read more. I would give it 4 and a half stars, but I decided to round up.
Alice is a strongheaded strongwilled young woman bent on escaping her uncle's guardianship and helping her brother establish a future. Hugh the Relentless provides a means to that, so regardless of his reputation, Alice makes a bargain with him. Hugh wants the green crystal to make his people see that he is the true lord of his lands and Alice can find the crystal for him. In return, he has to make sure Alice gets away from her uncle and her brother can study abroad.
This all sounds very nice until Hugh decides that he needs a real betrothal for he has to find someone to oversee the household (he's very picky about food and cleaning) during the winter and to prove to his people that he is ready to settle down. Alice, thinking that it's temporary agrees. But then the unexpected happens...they fall in love.
Hugh is an amazing hero. He cherishes Alice deeply and never loses his temper with her. Even when she helps his lifelong nemesis, he doesn't embarrass her in public and declares that her word is his word and that he will always support her.
The only complaint that I have about this book is how easily and quickly the green crystal was found. However, the mystery at the end makes up for it...partially.
Overall, this book is a joy to read and you'll laugh reading about how she "controls" her husband and "brings him to heel". Amazing woman. =)
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Part history of a species, part personal memoir, and featuring a healthy dose of wry humor, Clea Simon's The Feline Mystique shares the tale of her particular cat (Cyrus) set against a backdrop of interviews and statistics on cats throughout the world. Smoothly blending mythology with modern stories of dedicated feral cat rescuers, feline fanciers might bond with this book as tightly as they've bonded with their own wee beastie.
The focus is relentlessly female and a happy counterpoint to urban myths and ancient folk tales about lonely women and their up-to-no-good pets. Simon walks us through her initial bond with a young kitten, through the warm years of record-clawing, arm-kneading, keyboard-walking, veterinarian-terrorizing cat companionship, and leads us gently through the sadness of parting with a beloved animal. You won't find practical tips on health care or soapboxes about the problem of strays in the city--just page after page of individualized love and fascination. From Norse goddess Freya and her flying cats to references of a study done on the annual kill of an outdoors-living housecat to an interview with Barnum and Bailey's female tiger tamer, each detail helps construct a solid picture of the multifaceted relationship possible between a woman and her cat. --Jill Lightner
Book Description
This sophisticated exploration of the bond between women and their cats examines everything from the history of cats (Cleopatra) to the stereotypes of women who choose to live with cats (the 'cat lady') to the power of female images relating to cats (Catwoman). It is also a moving memoir of this award-winning author's relationship with her own cats, and will deepen any reader's understanding of the feline in her life.
Customer Reviews:
Women and Cats - a wonderful and mysterious bond.......2007-03-01
This is a great book, especially for those that would like to know WHY so many wonmen are adopted by cats! We never really own a cat, nor should we and I think women understand this, as explained in the book. Cats are part of the family and because of that, the bond it strong. This book helped me to understand why.
A Kitty Connection.......2006-04-21
This book has been very insightful for me and some of my friends (this was a great gift item!). What I found most intriguing was the reconstruction of the make-up of "The Old Cat Lady" myth. It makes sense that it was built out of confusion, disdain, and the urge to make women feel repressed.
The stories presented here are very enjoyable, and I found myself retelling them to several friends. It's nice to realize a bit of a community here.
I thought this book was going to be totally unrelated to most of the other books I've been reading lately that are about Wicca. I was pleasantly surprised to find a little blurb about Wicca in chapter 3. I am definitely glad for the positive coverage, the more informed people are about various ways of life, the less bigoted the world will be.
a fantastic book.......2005-04-23
A great book for any women who loves cats. It tells about the very apprent female and feline love affair that's gone on for thousounds of years. It's really informative and interesting. It will make you feel closer to the special feline in your life. Remarkable book.
why we connect with our kitties.......2004-07-04
This book is a valuable addition to any cat lover's shelf. Author Simon interviews women of all ages, backgrounds and professions to find out just what holds this bond with our cats in place. Much of the pleasure of reading it comes from comparing your own relationship with your cats, both past and present, with the women interviewed and the author herself.
Among the topics explored are: why are women/cats stereotyped so harshly and often similarly; why cat hoarders are so often female and why they do what they do; the mythical and historical connections between women and cats; how cats treat our significant others and what that says about how we feel about them (and how we let them treat us); letting go of our cats when it's time for them to pass on; and how our cats choose to communicate with their owners.
Great book for those who know cats.......2004-02-06
If you know your cat's looks, meows, and feelings, this book makes sure you know you aren't crazy! We can understand cats as well as they understand us. I really enjoyed The Feline Mystique. It has wonderful cat stories, as well as great information that all cat lovers need!
Book Description
The donkey (Equus asinus) is both ancient and mysterious and is called by many names: donkey, burro, wild jack, hinny, and ass. Donkeys and their relative, the mule (a donkey/horse cross), have lived with humans for thousands of years. References to mules date back at least 3,000 years. In the Bible, Genesis 36:24 refers to the mules in the wilderness. In Homer's Odyssey a mule cart transports Princess Nausicaa to the seashore. Mohammed rode upon a mule into battle. Jesus' family on a donkey during the flight into Egypt was a favorite subject of Renaissance painters. By the time of Don Quixote, the donkey was one of the most beloved animals in all of European literature. In Cervantes, the donkey is stubborn and faithful, loving and intelligent. Today, the humble and elegant donkey is becoming a popular companion animal. In the Western states, one can see donkeys grazing peacefully alongside horses on private land. Miniature donkeys are especially popular pets. There is also a growing awareness of donkey abuse and neglect, and donkey rescue societies have sprung up to offer aid. Along with wild horses, wild burros are part of America's heritage. Complete with history, lore, science, ecology, and inspirational stories celebrating the spiritual bond between humans and donkeys, Donkey: The Mystique of Equus Asinus expresses the joy that these saintly creatures with big, furry ears bring to our lives.
Customer Reviews:
Don't Miss This Book!.......2007-03-17
There are many great things about the book. The images - photos and artwork are outstanding. There are lots of surprising facts about donkeys, mules, and the history of civilization. There is beautiful writing - weaving between the personal and the universal. There is rigorous, careful scholarship, a treasure trove of careful citations to explore. The book has a majestic sweep and keen attention to detail and accuracy. Any one of these aspects of the book would make it worth the modest price. But The truly wonderful thing about this book and the beast it describes, is that it makes you think. The book nudges the reader into unanticipated realms of philosophical reflection. It is deep and rich and wise, but like the burro, humble, sensually centered and honest. You are, for example, reading along - facts about donkeys - and then, all of a sudden, you get something like this: "What do we really know about animals? What can we say with accuracy about ourselves?" Chew on that a while! The book has dozens of such moments, opportunities to step out of the crazy, violent, acquisitive struggles of our historical moment to consider some fundamentals of the mammalian and human condition. It's a great book about a great animal and our connection to the animal world. I own two burros and have long looked to them for council. This book is utterly accurate in its portrayal of the species. It's affectionate and respectful, happliy missing the kitsch and anthropomorphism that most writers bring to books about their favorite animals. Don't miss it.
ASSinine.......2006-12-21
When I was young and fragile, I lived in the foothills of central California. Across the street from my trailer lived a donkey. His name was Mr. Sissy and he was pissed all of the time, except for Christmas Eve. Why? I never knew but I have my suspicions. I once tried to feed him a carrot, and a sweet carrot mind you, orange and crisp. He would not accept...I tired again...nope, he backed up...I climbed through the fence...he brayed and ATTACKED. I threw the carrot and it did nothing to phaze him! Why me? Now? Years later I read this book and it did nothing to help me understand Mr. Sissy. He is still out there. Some where.
Donkey: the surprise book of 2006.......2006-12-19
I was skeptical when I was handed this book by one of my fellow lawyers in the office. Why on earth would I be interested in a book about, of all subjects, Donkeys, unless it happened to be about the Democratic party? But the images throughout the book were so enticing I decided to invest my time and read this book. Well, what a surprise! I had no idea of the rich history, elogence, complexity, culture and travails of what I had always perceived of as the simple, stupid donkey. And perhaps the most interesting fact of all: if you are referred to as a donkey, (or its more popular pseudonym), is that it is actually a compliment, not an insult! Turns out that donkeys are really smart. Who knew? I would highly recommend this book if you want a fun, interesting, and eye-opening read. How Michael Tobias got on to this subject is baffling; what he did with his "tail" will enchant you.
What a fun and charming book .......2006-12-16
I had a great time reading it. Everyone who loves equines or animals in general should have it in their library.
I loved it!.......2006-12-16
This is new and amazing information about donkeys! Everyone should be exposed to this wonderful book that teaches the value of such a sensible and martyr animal! I highly recommend it! It will touch your heart!
Book Description
In this fresh and plainspoken book, admissions professional Bill Mayher demystifies the college application process, guiding students and parents through this too often anxiety-filled ritual. He covers practical issues, including discovering colleges, narrowing down the search, finding financial aid, and using college counselors to the best advantage. And he deals with the emotional issues, since this is a time of transition and growth for the whole family. Finally, he makes it clear that the best college choice is not simply the school that is the most difficult to get into.
Customer Reviews:
For those looking for balance from an elite private school expertise.......2006-07-29
This is a book designed to offer positive realism to the college process. Mayher writes with eloquence and the experience of working as a college counselor at some elite private schools. This book, similar to Jay Matthews' Harvard Schmarvard, intends to add perspective for those beginning the college process who need to begin looking beyond the Ivy League while managing family expectations. It reflects the author's experience; he works with private school paying families who frequently need some cold water tossed on the high expectations that come with high tuition payments. As an educator, this offered perspective but didn't meet my specific needs, getting new perspectives on off the beaten path schools or finding a work that appeals to a very wide audience.
This book is helpful, but I'd recommend checking out a chapter or two in the local bookstore before committing to purchasing it. Perhaps it's better to read this as a family book while driving on the way to your first college vists.
3 stars
--SD
Amazon offers this with Pope's 40 Colleges -- Perfect Pair.......2006-03-01
If you are enthralled with college admissions, there are only two books that you need to read to understand the insanity of one of the most important decisions of your child's life (who thinks the decision is not necessarily his or her own). They are this book and Looking Beyond the Ivy League: Finding the College That's Right for You.
Read those two books and ignore the rest. If you need a list of colleges, go to Pope's alter ego book Colleges That Change Lives : 40 Schools You Should Know About Even If You're Not a Straight-A Student.
If you need more lists, go to Fiske or Barron's or US News or Cool Colleges or Yale's Insiders Guide. Any one of these will suffice.
But, Pope and Mayher are the kings of insight. They deliver what you need to hear, not the same old cliched items.
And, if you ever get a chance, see Mayher when he comes to a school. He is a stand up comic whose oration before the parents is better than his book.
Buy this book! You will not regret one penny spent.
Very original book on the subject.......2005-12-01
This is a very original book. It does not give specific college recommendations. The author makes the case that there are tens of colleges that offer exactly what you need in terms of academic and life experience. The colleges are as individual as the college bound students themselves. Therefore, the author feels it is futile for him to come up with generic college lists. He wants instead all the students and their families to conduct their own research to come up with their own selection of attractive colleges.
The author does a very good job of teaching us how to conduct such research. Beyond the obvious tips (websites, school counselors, college guides, college visits) he mentions several other ways to research colleges. One is to scrutinize in detail the course catalogues of colleges. These are available online. This may be one of the quickest and most insightful ways of contrasting differences between colleges. This seems evident. However, after reading nearly 15 college guides this is the first time I read about it.
Bill Mayher also includes interesting material regarding the limit of the SAT in estimating either intelligence or future college success. He mentions that an increasing number of colleges, including several selective Northeastern liberal colleges, are doing away with testing requirements. He shares interesting findings on the theory of multiple intelligences and emotional intelligence referring to the work of Howard Gardner and Daniel Coleman. According to Gardner and Coleman, there are many other dimensions to intelligence that ultimately determine success in life that are not captured by the SAT.
Mayher has an insightful understanding of Early Decision and Wait List. He is very pragmatic in his recommendation on when and how to use Early Decision and how to deal with Wait List.
Mayher also makes original suggestions such as taking a year off between high school and college. This is to allow oneself to mature and render the upcoming college experience more meaningful instead of a potential grinding continuation of high school. He also suggests that if you want the prestige of a BA from a top college such as Harvard, there is a really easy way. Do it through Harvard's evening extension program. You will avoid any foreboding testing and GPA requirements. Yet, you will have identical classes with the same textbook, teachers, etc... He argues that you will earn a degree that is indistinguishable from the one you would earn by attending the regular day classes. Even if the above tips are not for everyone, they are worthwhile to consider.
Let me recommend other excellent books on the subject. Hernandez "A is for Admission" and "Acing the College Application" are both excellent. "The Early Admission Game" by Avery and Fairbanks is a must for any one aiming at the most selective schools. Also, many of the Greenes' Guides written by the Greene brothers are very good. These include "Inside the Top Colleges", "Making it into a Top College," "The Public Ivies", "The Hidden Ivies."
Best Book on the Subject.......2005-10-05
I've been reading almost everything I can get my hands on regarding college admissions, and I must say that BY FAR this is the best book on the subject. Mayher's experience in the field, mature and common-sense perspective on the admissions process, clear and accessible writing style, and healthy sense of humor combine to make this book a pleasure to read. Admidst all of the pressure, hysteria, and hullabaloo surrounding the college admissions process, it is extremely refreshing to read something that offers great reassurance and hope to parents and kids alike. Before reading his book I had a lurking feeling that something was very amiss about modern college admissions, but feared that I was being too judgemental, and perhaps wrongly influencing my daughter by telling her (and myself) to relax. Now I realize that my hunches were right, and I feel much better informed about how to approach the college search process. Mayher's contribution is enormous, and I would HIGHLY RECOMMEND his book to any parent and adolescent facing the challenge of finding the "right" college.
Absolutely the Best!.......2003-07-30
As an educator, former college counselor, and parent, I urge those gearing up for the college process to put this book at the top of the pile. In short, the author understands what parents and their children truly need to know in order to get through this often mind-numbing process. Well-written, smart, and spiced with enough anecdotes to make it a truly enjoyable read, this book succeeds where others fall short. Do your family a favor and read this book---you'll be glad you did.
Book Description
The Mystique of Conspiracy delves into the mystery surrounding the JFK assassination. It focuses mainly on anti-Castro Cuban exiles and their relationship with the CIA, but it also offers an excellent framework to gauge the "plausibility" of any conspiracy theory. Unique to this work is the offer included at the back of the book to involve the reader in an online exchange with the author. The author, an online Professor of criminal justice at the University of Phoenix, will guide the reader/student into formulating his or her own credible approach to solving the nagging mystery behind the JFK assassination (or any conspiracy theory they are interested in). Also compelling is the Foreword and personal letters included in the Appendix written to the author in 1978 by David Atlee Phillips, former CIA Western Hemisphere Division Chief. Mr. Phillips passed away in 1988, but many have tried to link him directly to a CIA plot to assassinate JFK utilizing anti-Castro Cuban exiles. A new name in the annals of the JFK assassination is CIA covert operative George Joannides. Mr. Joannides passed away in 1999, but his role in directing a group of anti-Castro Cuban exiles who had contact with the assassin in New Orleans several months before the assassination has never been made public up until now. As recent as 2005 the CIA went to court and blocked the release of any documents on George Joannides. David Atlee Phillips was Mr. Joannides' supervisor in the CIA. This book will be of interest to anyone interested in the "mystique" surrounding conspiracy theories, whether it is JFK, RFK, MLK, Princess Diana, 9/11 or Russian defector Alexander Litvinenko, killed in London by radioactive polonium 210. There is a common thread that runs through them all. The author will reveal what that is.
Customer Reviews:
Worth reading.......2007-08-02
Actually this essentially "no conspiracy" book is rather good in that the author especially given his background, shares useful insights into the minds of the intelligence agencies and indicates how unlikely it would have been that Oswald was part of a plot. The author is open minded enough to accept possible conspiracy. A rare level headed book on a subject that invariable gets clouded by myth, blurred fact and fiction and heated passionate but frequently ill informed debate.
interesting.......2007-02-21
As the leading civilian authority on the U.S. Secret Service (and President Kennedy's interaction with the agency), I was much interested in this book by Brian Bugge; his pedigree speaks for itself. If you are at all interested in the anti-Castro Cuban connection to the case, as well as the CIA's responsibilities in this area, you will not go wrong in purchasing this work. Vince Palamara
Book Description
Practical guide to becoming a more effective leader! Learn how to function more effectively under pressure, and cope more effectively with change. Hands-on leadership building exercises are included.
Customer Reviews:
Highly Recommended !.......2005-03-17
Business schools and shareholders focus so relentlessly on hard numbers and cold facts that it's no surprise that data reigns supreme in the corporate world. But executives who downplay the importance of emotion and intuition do so at their own peril, management expert Manfred Kets de Vries convincingly argues. He offers a wealth of useful tips for leaders who are ready to reintroduce the human side, the soft side, to their organizations and their own lives. The author occasionally drops in stories and quotes from his clients, but his argument would have been bolstered by even more examples. We recommend this easy-to-digest volume to leaders who want to improve their interpersonal skills.
Strange Bosses Unmasked.......2003-01-06
Know any managers who act quite strangely? Or even downright dysfunctionally? Do you ever find yourself doing something you wished you had not, and then wondering, "What came over me?"
Humans behave oddly at times, even in the workplace; even at the top of the hierarchy. And no one, it seems, is quite who they seem to be. Did you know that family entertainment mogul Walt Disney made a habit of eating donuts drowned in whiskey-for breakfast!
A veritable smorgasbord of engaging tales and insights are chronicled in this book. Manfred F.R. Kes de Vries knows much about executives' strange behaviors because he's a psychologist who interacts with senior managers the world over. A clinical professor of leadership development, he is program director of a top management program at INSEAD in France. De Vries also taught at McGill University in Canada, the Harvard Business School in the U.S., as well as lecturing and consulting around the world.
De Vries chronicles and explains a wide variety of counter-productive executive maladies such as: excessive narcissism (self-centeredness); unusual-even inappropriate-responses to associates; excessive compulsions; extreme need for control; self-defeating behaviors; and on and on. Flip through the book, land on any page and your sure to recognize a description of someone you know (perhaps even someone who stares back at you from the mirror).
The book provides a fascinating glimpse into the vagaries of human behavior, especially by people who have been conferred with organizational power. De Vries offers up many insightful examples, interesting anecdotes, some wit, and very approachable explanations of psychological concepts in lay terms, along with some self-assessment exercises (of varying usefulness).
The book is not held together by a discernible thesis; it doesn't provide you with many actionable skills. But if you'd like to know more about why you and other otherwise very bright and capable people do odd things, this book provides a delightful peek into the executive skull.
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- It's a Chilton manual so... well, you know what it's for.
- Very Helpful
- Not for all Cougars!
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Ford-Contour/Mystique/Cougar 1995-99 (Chilton's Total Car Care Repair Manual)
The Nichols/Chilton Editors
Manufacturer: Haynes Manuals, Inc.
ProductGroup: Book
Binding: Paperback
Trucks & Vans | Automotive | Nonfiction | Subjects | Books
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ASIN: 0801991056 |
Book Description
The Total Car Care series continues to lead all other do-it-yourself automotive repair manuals. This series offers do-it-yourselfers of all levels TOTAL maintenance, service and repair information in an easy-to-use format. Covers Contour, Mystique, and Cougar. Based on actual teardowns Simple step-by-step procedures for engine overhaul, chassis electrical drive train, suspension, steering and more Trouble codes Electronic engine controls
Customer Reviews:
It's a Chilton manual so... well, you know what it's for........2001-12-01
If you can't afford the Mercury factory service manuals, buy
the Chilton's guide and get some of your auto repairs done
yourself. It isn't an FSM - no Chilton's manual compares
to an FSM - but it's better on avergae than Haynes' guides and
it won't get you into deep water without ample warnings.
Very Helpful.......2000-10-31
This book offers some very helpful insights for do-it-yourself car repair. The fuse and wiring diagrams are excellent, and the steps are easy to follow. I actually think this book is a much better value than the owner's manual I got with my 97 Contour. Some of the jobs in the book are not for beginners, however, and there is no list of the tools you will need before starting each job, but generally, this is a great book.
Not for all Cougars!.......2000-06-13
Do not purchase this book if you drive a '95 thru '98 Mercury Cougar. This manual does not have information on the 3.8L V6 or the 4.6L V8. Nor does it have information on the respective car's transmissions. This book ONLY convers '99 and '00 Cougars. The book you're looking for is "JC WHITNEY - CHILTON REPAIR MANUAL FOR 83-96 THUNDERBIRD, COUGAR."
Average customer rating:
- Picture of the Ford Mondeo in the UK
- ALL FORD AND MYSTIQUE
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Ford Contour and Mercury Mystique Automotive Repair Manual 1995-1998
Mark Jacobs , and
John H. Haynes
Manufacturer: Haynes Pubns
ProductGroup: Book
Binding: Paperback
Repair | Automotive | Nonfiction | Subjects | Books | Body & Fenders | General
General | Transportation | Nonfiction | Subjects | Books
Automotive | Engineering | Professional & Technical | Subjects | Books | General | Safety Engineering | Vehicle Design & Construction
General | Engineering | Professional & Technical | Subjects | Books
ASIN: 1563922886 |
Customer Reviews:
Picture of the Ford Mondeo in the UK.......2000-01-23
Given that the Ford Mondeo is actually a Ford Contour of the UK, there was no information about the pictures that were used. In the section were they talk about changing the radio, the picture shows the climate control dials aren't the same as the Contour's, but of the Mondeo. They should have mentioned that the picture didn't match
ALL FORD AND MYSTIQUE.......1999-04-16
ITS INFORMATION TO REPAIR ALL FORD AND MYSTIQUE. NOTES PROCEDURES ETC
Books:
- The Heartless Stone: A Journey Through the World of Diamonds, Deceit, and Desire
- The Higher Power of Lucky
- The Honorable Imposter/The Captive Bride/The Indentured Heart/The Gentle Rebel/The Saintly Buccaneer (The House of Winslow 1-5)
- The Horse Whisperer
- The Hummingbird's Daughter
- The Inner Game of Work: Focus, Learning, Pleasure, and Mobility in the Workplace
- The Lady Killer (Berkley Sensation)
- The Last Temptation of Christ
- The Mysterious Benedict Society
- The Pride of Lions
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