The Truth About Love: The Highs, the Lows, and How You Can Make It Last Forever
Average customer rating: 5 out of 5 stars
  • Read it for the first chapter
  • very good book
  • excellent, practicall and right on
  • A Life-Changing Read
  • Is the Magic Gone from Your 'Romance'?
The Truth About Love: The Highs, the Lows, and How You Can Make It Last Forever
Dr. Patricia Love
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ASIN: 0684871882

Book Description

Don't break up before the breakthrough!

Have you ever believed that you have fallen out of love, or said "I still love him but I'm not IN LOVE anymore?" In this groundbreaking guide to the physiology and psychology of lasting love, Dr. Pat Love reveals that love has normal, predictable stages that include highs and lows, and that many couples mistake the lows for the end of love. The Truth About Love is an inspiring, practical guide that will teach you how not to break up before the breakthrough realization: You can create the true love you long for with the partner you already have.

Customer Reviews:

5 out of 5 stars Read it for the first chapter.......2007-09-04

This book gives you a good deal of information on the "infatuation" phase that I think many of us go through in meeting someone. I know that I have gone through it, and it helps in understanding where things go from there or why they end.

4 out of 5 stars very good book.......2007-03-30

I thing every body should read this book at least once every few years as a reminder... even if we think we know enough about love by now....

5 out of 5 stars excellent, practicall and right on.......2007-01-17

This book is full of good old common sense views on life and living with another especially in the context of having made a comitment to another. if your interested in the real basics behind maintaining and enjoying a comited relationship with another person, this is a great starting place.

5 out of 5 stars A Life-Changing Read.......2006-12-03

My marriage counselor recommended this book but I had already made up my mind that divorce was imminent. Then the book came in the mail and I read it in one day. It was like Dr. Love wrote about my relationship! It forced me to look in the mirror and realize that if I made changes, instead of expecting only my spouse to change, my marriage might be salvaged. It is an extremely easy and quick read, written using simple language. I cried tears of joy after realizing that hope was not at all lost. The exercises provoked thoughtful discussions with my spouse and we are both now committed to trying many of Dr. Love's suggestions. True love goes through many transitions and you must be able to adapt to the different stages (which takes work!) Buy the book - it shows you how to recognize when changes are needed and how to make them.

5 out of 5 stars Is the Magic Gone from Your 'Romance'?.......2006-11-10

Not enough pizazz in your relationship? No more thumpity-thump in your heart when it comes to 'romance'? Before you decide to dump your significant other, read this book. Both my husband and I can honestly say that the information went a long way in saving a perfectly good marriage - we just didn't know that we had one. Now we're pretty sure of it and hope to spend many more happy years together, truly in love.
Mars and Venus Together Forever: Relationship Skills for Lasting Love
Average customer rating: 3.5 out of 5 stars
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  • Wordy, but accurate
  • Close but not quite..
  • Mars And Venus Together Forever. A MUST READ book.
Mars and Venus Together Forever: Relationship Skills for Lasting Love
John Gray
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ASIN: 0060926619
Release Date: 2005-03-01

Book Description

Is it really possible to be in love forever?

New York Times bestselling author John Gray will show you how in Mars and Venus Together Forever.

This resource guide contains relationship skills that will help you and your mate sustain a lasting relationship that only grows richer with time. Mars and Venus Together Forever educates the different sexes on:

Filled with lively anecdotes, revealing exercises, and profound common sense, Mars and Venus Together Forever will help men and women explore new frontiers in their relationships, communicate effectively with each other, and discover the secret of "happily ever after."

Customer Reviews:

5 out of 5 stars Very insightful.......2005-06-04

In response to other reviewers, yes, this book does rely heavily on stereotypes of male and female behavior. If you find you don't fit the stereotypes (and of course not everyone does!), then you'll need to look for another book. But for many (most?) of us, the insights and advice in this book will be very helpful. As I read, I was constantly amazed by how much I could see myself and my husband in John Gray's descriptions. Last night I had my first opportunity to try out his techniques on how to prepare a man to listen...and it worked beautifully! A situation that would certainly have escalated into a hurtful argument was diffused into a calm, brief conversation that left both of us feeling warm and loving toward each other.

1 out of 5 stars Grrr!.......2004-11-02

Mars and Venus Together Forever is one of the most ridiculous, stupid books that I have ever had the gross misfortune to read. I probably should have expected what I got, considering that Mars and Venus on a Date left me cold, but I read this one anyway because the original Mars and Venus book had SOME interesting insights and I'm a sucker for a cheap book.

Anyone who buys into the stereotypes promoted by John Gray must be barmy. He exaggerates, overemphasises and blusters his way through the 200+ pages - probably with the best motives in his mind - but in the end the stuff he writes is uninspiring and insipid. According to him men and women are still ruled by `ancient' traditions which dictate that women are all do-gooder types who only desire to stay at home, chatting with other women and looking at flowers whilst men are all aggressive cavemen, grunting their way through their lives with zero finesse, a beer in one hand and the TV remote in the other.

I don't see how anyone, man or woman, could read this book without being annoyed. For women, the book is terribly unempowering. If you don't fit in with any of Gray's ideas about what a woman should be then you are labelled as masculine. I don't want to read a book which tells me that when I am at work I am moving towards my masculine side because being goal-oriented, competitive and efficient are male traits. It's all phooey! For men, the book is also offensive. John Gray says that men shouldn't express their feelings because it will cause a woman to lose her attraction for him. No, I don't believe that men and women are the same in all respects - there are gender differences - but in Mars and Venus these are distorted.

Overall this book is not worth your time. Underneath the waffle there may be some good points, but all of these are outweighed by the stereotypes.

JoAnne

5 out of 5 stars Wordy, but accurate.......2003-06-14

Having authored my own book on meeting and succeeding with women, "From the First Date to the Bedroom, the Single Man's Official Guide to Success with Women," I can fully appreciate John Gray's work.

Whereas my book is a light-hearted approach to dating and mating from the male perspective, I will tell you that John does a womderful job in this more serious work. It is definitely worth the time to read.

Butch Mazzuca,
Author, From the First Date to the Bedroom, the Single Man's Official Guide to Success with Women,"

1 out of 5 stars Close but not quite.........2002-05-06

Interesting book. Unfortunately it really plays on stereotypes. It does have a few valuable things to say though.

5 out of 5 stars Mars And Venus Together Forever. A MUST READ book........2001-12-02

This information is excellent in helping couples understand that things we say can be taken one way by our partner when we really mean something else. I think it will help a lot of people out there who unintentionally may be hurting a relationship while trying to communicate.
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Average customer rating: 4.5 out of 5 stars
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  • One of my favorites growing up.
  • All right overall
  • Seasons Series
  • A book full of help
Once Upon a Summer/The Winds of Autumn/Winter is Not Forever/Spring's Gentle Promise (Seasons of the Heart 1-4)
Janette Oke
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Customer Reviews:

4 out of 5 stars good series..........2007-03-06

This was a good series from Janette Oke. It isn't one of her best, but I still really enjoyed reading it. I would recommend it to anyone who is already a Janette Oke fan. For new readers I would suggest starting with her other series such as Love Comes Softly or the Canadian West series.

5 out of 5 stars One of my favorites growing up........2005-12-01

Originally my mom introduced me to this series because she thought I would enjoy it because it was from a guys perspective. Well she was right. I cant even count how many times I read through each of the books. I could always imagine being right there with him as he told his story. Eventually I was given this book collecting all four novels and again read through it over and over again. This being the only Janette Oke series I have read I cant really base it off of the other ones. But for me it was a great way to spend a rainy day or just any other time I felt like picking up a book.

3 out of 5 stars All right overall.......2002-05-14

Personally, I don't care for the way Janette Oke used the first-person style of writing, with a man as her main character. Her man just doesn't seem like a real man, mainly because he acts and thinks along the same lines as Janette's women do in her other books. Overall, it was a mistake for her to use a guy to tell the story- I think the books would have been vastly better if Janette had used a girl's perspective.
Aside from that complaint-
This story begins with the childhood of the "narrator", and goes through the boy's growing-up years on the farm. Everything is peaceful and happy. Little incidents occur here and there- his grandfather comes to live with them, he gets his first dog, etc. Finally, he becomes a man. One night he overhears the men downstairs discussing the fact that he needs to get married. He decides that yes, he should get married, so bang! he goes out and does it. Then the books tell about his married life (I liked his wife, by the way.) During his married life they go through the Depression and he winds up on a road crew far from home. All of a sudden, at the very end, everything is resolved and he gets to go home.
Generally this story is pretty good, but I've read many books by Janette Oke that are much better. Like I said, I think what messed up this series was trying to use the guy's perspective. It just isn't quite right.

5 out of 5 stars Seasons Series.......2001-08-04

I am an avid fan of Janette Oke, and have read every thing she has published. This is indeed a wonderful series, with descriptive scenes and true romance. If you haven't tried this one--give it a chance-it is a beautiful story.

5 out of 5 stars A book full of help.......2001-07-27

Ilove all of mrs okes books she has given me a new perception of life through her books and i would like to thank her for having such an amazing gift and sharing it with the world
How to Make Someone Love You Forever! In 90 Minutes or Less
Average customer rating: 4 out of 5 stars
  • Nicholas Released the Secret Me
  • Average.
  • Great insight
  • Narrow market
  • It worked for me!!!
How to Make Someone Love You Forever! In 90 Minutes or Less
Nicholas Boothman
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ASIN: 076112862X

Book Description

It's time to stop leaving love to chance. Time to stop being too shy to meet someone, wondering why a promising first date wound up going nowhere, or realizing too late that it happened with the wrong person anyway. Nicholas Boothman has a much better way.

Drawing on his expertise in Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), Boothman charts a three-step plan that will help anyone find the love of his or her life. Step one: get ready—come to know who you are through honest self-assessment, and then to know what type of person is your matched opposite—i.e., the person who completes you. Step two, the heart of the program, is working seriously on interpersonal skills—how to be charming, not alarming; flirt with confidence; synchronize body and voice to create trust and chemistry; keep enthusiasm high; even how to cast a wide social net and dress for a first meeting.

Step three is about accelerating the kind of intimacy that leads to love, by finding "Me too!" triggers and mastering the art of incidental touch. You'll learn to tap into key emotions through low-, medium-, and high-risk disclosures—and how to intensify the nonverbal signals that turn sparks into a flame. All the while you'll establish a solid romantic foundation to convert this magic 90 minutes into a lifetime of love and commitment.

Customer Reviews:

5 out of 5 stars Nicholas Released the Secret Me.......2007-08-19

I sat next to Mr. Nicholas Boothman on an airliner while on vacation this summer. We talked about many things and he gave me his card. I came here and bought this book. After reading it and walking it out in my life, I am enraptured by the various kinds of positive responses that we have. I say "we" because it's all about the other person's enjoyment of me, and my enjoyment of them! Romantic or not, my choice in the proposition. I lose my self-conciousness as we become one. I am now using Nicholas' "Science of Love" as I call it here, to find the most beautiful woman in the world, to be my "Matched Opposite"! Release your fear to find LOVE. To sum this up, I say, BUY THE BOOK NOW, READ IT, and DO IT! (;D)
Go to his web at http://www.nicholasboothman.com and find out more...

2 out of 5 stars Average........2005-11-01

This book is okay and does serve a purpose.This is a book to give you some guidelines on dating for men and women.Its all commen sense here.Nothing here that hasnt been printed in other dating type books.Has some ideas.

The author doesnt stay focused for long.He must have remembered things as he was writing.Its a distraction.

For men,if you want good books on how to meet women I recommend these:
1)"Understanding women" By Romy Miller.
2)How to pick up girls!" By Eric Weber.
3)"The pocket idiots guide to getting girls". By Lisa Altalida.
4)Booby trapped:men beware! The dirty seven sisters.(the author alse wrote a similar book for women).You can buy all these books right here.

5 out of 5 stars Great insight.......2005-08-02

After reading this book my eyes were opened to what has been in front of me all along. This book just put everything into words so that it didn't seem so confusing. Wonderful scenarios, examples and awesome information.

2 out of 5 stars Narrow market.......2005-06-10

Surely this book has taken niche marketing too far. I know that in the modern age companies have realised that limited sales to smaller markets can still be a cost-effective way of selling; a book (or any other product) doesn't always have to be a mega-seller to make it worthwhile from the seller's point of view. With the publication of this book, though, I think the publishers must realise they've hit the wall. Making a great first impression is all very well, but how many people with 90 minutes or less to live are going to care about building a lasting relationship?

5 out of 5 stars It worked for me!!!.......2005-02-04

I was 39 years old when I read this book. I had never been married, and had been single for several years. By my 40th birthday I had met the man of my dreams and was sporting a beautiful 2 carat diamond engagement ring! I used the tools in this book to find my best friend, soul mate, partner. I have never been so happy and so in love. Thank-you Nick Boothman for your book which taught me that I was always choosing the wrong man and how to choose the right one!!!
Every Man's Marriage Workbook: How to Win Your Wife's Heart...Again and Forever
Average customer rating: 5 out of 5 stars
  • Great Helpmeet!
Every Man's Marriage Workbook: How to Win Your Wife's Heart...Again and Forever
Stephen Arterburn , Fred Stoeker , and Mike Yorkey
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Release Date: 2003-02-18

Book Description

Here is the comprehensive guide men have been waiting for: the companion workbook to the best-selling book, Every Man's Marriage. Authors Stephen Arterburn and Fred Stoeker believe that every man–whether married or about to be–can meet the secret desire of his wife. The problem is, most of them aren't exactly sure what that desire is and how they can go about fulfilling it faithfully.

By using the Every Man's Marriage Workbook, individually or in a men’s group, readers can discover the common misconceptions about what it means to exercise biblical authority. They can better understand how mutual submission works. They can learn how to properly exercise their biblical role in marriage leadership. And, in the process, they can strengthen and enliven their relationship with their wife.

Every Man's Marriage Workbook guides men through serious Bible study, intense examination of your personal life, and an honest application of biblical truth. In these practical, real-life lessons–easy to use by individuals or groups in eight sessions–readers will find clear teaching, easy-to-follow Bible studies, reflection and discussion questions, real-life case studies, and practical applications.

Customer Reviews:

5 out of 5 stars Great Helpmeet!.......2003-12-04

This book is a great study guide to go along with the book of Every Woman's Desire. What can I say? It's great!
Real Love in Marriage: The Truth About Finding Genuine Happiness Now and Forever
Average customer rating: 5 out of 5 stars
  • Real Love in Marriage: The Truth About Finding Genuine Happiness Now and Forever
  • Life-changing attitude readjuster. Marriage tune up included. ;)
  • Real Love saved my husband's life
Real Love in Marriage: The Truth About Finding Genuine Happiness Now and Forever
Greg Baer
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Why do more than half of all marriages end in divorce? And why is there so much unhappiness in the marriages that survive? Finally, Greg Baer offers the solutions for a long-lasting marriage in his much anticipated follow up to Real Love

Marriages fail not because of a lack of commitment, or poor communication, or even the conflicts that occur over money, children, sex, and household duties. Marriages fail because both parties originally came together without enough of the one element—Real Love—most essential to healthy relationships. No matter how many wounds have been inflicted in a marriage, Greg Baer believes that they can be healed, giving both partners the sense of fulfillment and joy they've always wanted. With practical anecdotes and exercises throughout, Baer shows you, step by step:

* Why our spouses are not the root cause of how we feel and behave
* The truth about why we get angry with our spouses and argue with them
* How to eliminate—not just manage—anger and conflict
* How to identify what we need to change about ourselves
* Determining how you and your partner can both get what you want out of the marriage
* How you can break the cycles of expectation and disappointment
* How to prevent divorce, and how to know when it's the right option

There are no quick solutions to fixing a marriage. With Greg Baer as your guide, you can begin to heal the wounds of the past and cultivate the lifelong commitment to stay with your partner while learning how to unconditionally love him or her.

Customer Reviews:

5 out of 5 stars Real Love in Marriage: The Truth About Finding Genuine Happiness Now and Forever.......2007-05-14

This information is long over due. With the understanding of Unconditional Love marriage takes on a completely different purpose.

5 out of 5 stars Life-changing attitude readjuster. Marriage tune up included. ;).......2007-04-18

still reading it but already had my change of heart. Profound. Positive Psychology at it's best!!! Totally worth reading. Probably even over and over again. I have lots of red flags (markings) in there.

5 out of 5 stars Real Love saved my husband's life.......2006-09-30

I discovered Real Love about a year ago, and after reading Real Love, The Truth about Finding Unconditional Love and Fulfilling Relationships, I immediately ordered the marriage book and parenting book. After 15 years of marriage, and dealing with the beginnings of the teen-age years with our children, I was searching for something better. I'd already been through many of the parenting and relationship books (and programs), with some success, but when I started reading the Real Love books, I knew I'd found something different. I was incredibly intrigued by the idea that I could ELIMINATE anger from my life, and conflict from my marriage.

Fast forward to today, and while I haven't totally eliminated anger from my life, I feel transformed into a happy and more peaceful person. I realize now that I didn't even really know what happiness was before. My relationships with my children and my husband are much more joyful, genuine, and just... easier. And, during a recent medical crisis, this new way of being helped me through the stress and turmoil, made it possible for me to effectively communicate with the doctors, and enabled me to make better decisions - all of which helped save my husband's life.

Maybe that seems kind of extreme, and I sure don't want to minimize the personal effort I put into practicing these principles, but I truly believe without the knowledge of Real Love, the past few months would have happened very differently, and it's likely my husband wouldn't have survived.

The principles of Real Love are not really new principles, but are simple time-honored truths. So, I'd already come across similar ideas in other books (The Seven Habits of Highly Effective Families, The Road Less Traveled, and Love and Logic), but this was the first time I'd seen practical suggestions on how to eliminate anger (not just manage or control it). Additionally, the way the information is presented really made it easy for me to apply the ideas in my life.

Greg Baer combines a backbone of philosophical/spiritual truths with a practical, step-by-step process to improving relationships. Through the use of memorable stories like "The Wart King" he explains the principles in a way that is easy to understand and recall. He puts control squarely in each individual's court, and gives you the power and freedom to change your life. In this amazing process, your relationships naturally transform to become more genuine, more loving, and best of all, more fun.

I always prided myself on my personal integrity and character in dealing with other people. I would sometimes get angry and yell, but "only" at my husband or children, so most people saw me as a kind, helpful, responsible and cheerful person. I didn't even realize it until things started to change, but I really wasn't even happy before. I spent most of my time doing things to earn other people's love and approval. I guess I was fooled into thinking my husband and I had a good relationship because everyone else seemed to think we did. In truth, we were just living in the same house, sort of "tolerating" each other. We had learned to get along and make do with being cordial and considerate of each other's needs. We each had our own life, work, friends, and passions, and they didn't often meet. More often than not, when our lives met, it would be over a difference, with both of us needing to be "right," and resulting in anger, yelling, accusations, or at least disappointment and hurt.

Real Love in Marriage helped me see how I was being dishonest in my relationship with my husband, and how I was "running" from him. I wasn't really intimate with him (sharing my hopes, dreams, and passions), because I was afraid he wouldn't accept (love) me. So, I really felt very alone and unloved. Initially, I had visions that my husband and I would read the marriage book together, and we'd sail through our children's teen years without any disasters, and dance our way into our golden years together. I was terribly disappointed when my husband discounted Real Love as "yet another idea (obviously a stupid one)" of mine that I wanted him to buy in on.

But with the practical steps and examples in the book, I was able to take responsibility for my unhappiness, and see that much of my dissatisfaction with my husband was really just because I didn't feel loved, and that I had come to our marriage not feeling loved (it wasn't his fault!) I was trying to control him and prove myself right...I was being very selfish and not really concerned about his happiness! I attended some groups, and practiced sharing my truth with others who could accept me, even with my selfishness and imperfections. It was truly a transforming process. As I felt more loved by others, I was able to see my husband more clearly. I saw that he wasn't trying to be critical and unloving toward me, but that he was just "drowning" - Greg Baer's way of describing how people act when they don't feel loved.

Real Love in Marriage logically dispels the myth that our partners are responsible for making us happy. In addition to the exercises in each chapter, the book is filled with memorable quotes in Greg Baer's Real Love vernacular that were really helpful to me in learning to be more loving. Now, I "tell my truth" so that I stay "filled up". And when I start to get irritated, it's a sign to me that I'm getting "empty and afraid" and just need to "be seen and heard" by a "wise man or woman." When my husband is angry and attacking, I "just add water" and realize that he's just "drowning." With this awareness, I am able to love and accept him, which is just what he really needs. Before, I used to take everything personally, and I would get angry and attack back. Now that I feel more loved, I realize that all of us are pretty empty and afraid, and I stay "filled up" by being more loving and accepting of others.

Recently, our family has been through an incredibly stressful time. During a "simple" back surgery to repair a herniated disk, my husband's disk was infected by a serious bacteria. Due to complications from the multiple surgeries and drugs, he ended up in critical care with major organ systems shutting down, and totally delirious on pain medications. Five different doctors were treating him, and they couldn't understand what was happening. I was operating on practically no sleep, little food, with my husband's life on the line. I know that my knowledge and practice of Real Love made a tremendous difference in my efforts to get the doctors to work together so that better decisions could be made about his treatment.

As my husband's recovery continues, so does my work with Real Love. Real Love has turned what might have been a loss of life and a huge tragedy for our family, into an opportunity for all of us to become happier and find more love and joy in our lives together.
Love Last Forever (Love Spectrum Romance)
Average customer rating: 4.5 out of 5 stars
  • Love Lasts Forever was an enjoyable read
  • A Good Book
  • Wonderful Book
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  • A well crafted IR romance story
Love Last Forever (Love Spectrum Romance)
Dominiqua Douglas
Manufacturer: Genesis Press
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Binding: Paperback

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ASIN: 158571187X

Customer Reviews:

5 out of 5 stars Love Lasts Forever was an enjoyable read.......2007-06-22

I didn't expect to find myself enjoying it quite so much since one it was partially set 1800's my ancestors were still in slavery, and I've always had a hard time dealing with that paricular era of American history. With that said it was a very romantic read. Thor was a wonderful hero, who finds out that life isn't over when you get knocked down, and his visit to his families past opens his eyes and his heart. Willow was warm and loving and courageous, and I love seeing heroines written that way. Escapism yes as all romance novels should be with angst and misunderstanding and deep love found by two well deserving people who both fought for justice in a time when one risked life and limb but realizing both that the rights of human beings are worth fighting for and if you find love along the way with a little help from a timepiece filled with magic well it's a good book to curl up with and enjoy. Definitely well edited and well recieved by me. I'd definitely buy another of Ms. Douglas' books can't wait till she graces us again with her talent.

JohnandVan
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3 out of 5 stars A Good Book.......2007-03-24

I liked this book. Thor was a well crafted character and Willow was very likeable. The end dragged on a bit but the book was still a delightful read. We definately need more IR SCIFI books out there. This was a great addition to the bunch.

5 out of 5 stars Wonderful Book.......2007-02-25

As far as IR romances go, this is one of the best ones I have read in a very long time. The characters were very believable. Although the book was reminiscent of Octavia Butler's Kindred, it more than held it's own. I can't wait to read her next novel.

5 out of 5 stars 'Kindred' for romance fans.......2007-02-04

Great story! Ms. Douglas truly has a gem here. I've read quite a few books by this publisher, but most have been awful. This is one of the best IR stories I've read. Throw in time travel, and it's Octavia Butler's 'Kindred' with a romance twist. The stories are different, but I liken them to each other b/c of the time travel.

At first, I was confused/skeptical because while in Kindred, it was obvious that the characters were switching worlds, this book appeared to have been done as a dream. That was my only point of confusion. Other than that....EXCELLENT!

4 out of 5 stars A well crafted IR romance story.......2006-08-24

This book is definitely a keeper. It was engaging from start to finish. It was very well written and edited so was an easy read
(unlike some novels in this genre I could name).

This novel did many things right. Firstly it got the romance aspect correct between the main characters Thor and Willow. One could relate to the characters and believe that they fell in love. Also the chemistry between the two was hot. Next it skillfully wove the element of time travel. Thor travels back in time and meets Willow whom he falls in love with. Lastly the historical aspect of coming from a modern world and going back to days of slavery was treated in a credible manner. It was also interesting how one might react meeting their forebearers. Combining all the various elements together has produced a great romantic read.
Suge Knight: The Rise, Fall, and Rise of Death Row Records: The Story of Marion 'Suge' Knight, a Hard Hitting Study of One Man, One Company That Changed the Course of American Music Forever
Average customer rating: 3 out of 5 stars
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  • Literary Agent
  • Best Story in Compton...
Suge Knight: The Rise, Fall, and Rise of Death Row Records: The Story of Marion 'Suge' Knight, a Hard Hitting Study of One Man, One Company That Changed the Course of American Music Forever
Jake Brown
Manufacturer: Amber Communications Group, Inc.
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Binding: Paperback

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ASIN: 0970222475

Book Description

Author Jake Brown has woven a tale of intense drama that paved the way for some of the world’s biggest stars, including: Tupac Shakur, Dr. Dre and Snoop Dog. The Suge Knight and Death Row Story details the visionary entrepreneur’s life story, encompassing his meteoric rise to the top of the charts after partnering with Dre to found Death Row Records. It tells you where Suge intends to take Hip Hop in the new millennium and features insightful interviews with business associates, family members and artists who speak candidly about his life.

Customer Reviews:

4 out of 5 stars tight Book.......2006-09-17

Miss the days when Suge's mere pressence would put the Ether on Busters. there are alot of Sponge Bob,Corny Pickle Leaf Turkeys out here who could use a good reminder of Suge Knight. Suge Knight ran a tight ship&had hits when Death Row was going strong. His acts didn't have to be on Rap City all Ashy&desperate to be remembered. Suge Knight kept it real when he was rolling. Suge Knight ran Product never had to be pushed on VH1 Soul, what Death row put out spoke for itself.Suge left Busters hanging over the Balcony, we sure could use that Suge vibe now again.

1 out of 5 stars I HAVE NOT RECIEVED THIS PRODUCT.......2005-10-12

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3 out of 5 stars Hastily Compiled.......2005-07-19

Is more like a collection of articles on various topics on Suge ( i.e, his incarceration , relationship with 2pac , etc... ) hastily compiled into a book. rather than a 'flowing' autobiography. As well, it's pretty annoying when the author repeats a lot of stuff every few pages. Also , there is too little solid info of the guy ( e.g. too few interviews from people in Death Row or those connected with him. ) Hence, can't really get a solid picture of what the man is really like. Overall, is more like an academic ' analysis ' of Suge Knight based on few, random bits and pieces of information, rather than a solid ' story ' of the guy.

4 out of 5 stars Literary Agent.......2002-05-30

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4 out of 5 stars Best Story in Compton..........2002-05-08

This book explained points of view that I never thought I'd consider. Thank you, Jake Brown, for writing an great book. I'd recommend it to anyone and everyone!

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For Better, for Worse, Forever: 10 Steps for Building a Lasting Relationship With the Man You Love
Average customer rating: 5 out of 5 stars
  • A superb tool for taking a look behind the cover of my lover
  • A reliable method for finding a good love match
For Better, for Worse, Forever: 10 Steps for Building a Lasting Relationship With the Man You Love
Beatty Cohan , and Elliot Cohan
Manufacturer: Chandler House Press
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Binding: Hardcover

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For Better, For Worse, Forever contains a 10-step formula that teaches women how to evaluate a potential partner. Through stories, quizzes, and questions, readers learn: Who your partner really is and How to get what you really want and need in a relationship and avoid what you don't want.

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5 out of 5 stars A superb tool for taking a look behind the cover of my lover.......1999-02-14

As a woman in my mid 20's, I still find it very hard to keep a relationship and find the right man for me. When I heard that this book was coming out, I jumped at the chance to buy it hoping it was the perfect solution to my problems....and it was exactly that. The chatty tone of the book makes it fun and easy to read yet very informative. This book proves to be a great tool in assisting my search behind the cover of my lover and determining if he is Mr. Right or Mr. Wrong. I highly reccomend this book for any woman pondering marraige or starting a new relationship. This book's 5 stars are well deserved!

5 out of 5 stars A reliable method for finding a good love match.......1999-02-05

As a psychiatrist and psychotherapist who has worked extensively with relationships, I'm always on the lookout for good self-help books to recommend to my clients. This is one of the better books I've come across. Addressed to women of all ages, it offers a tested, reliable method for sizing up the strengths and weaknesses in their current relationship with their partner, early on. It provides guidelines to keep them out of bad relationships, and helps steer clear of allowing passion-filled, idealized fantasies to take over. Properly used, it may save life and sanity. After absorbing and using the lessons of this book, a woman need never settle for a man who is abusive or habitually inconsiderate. She will have a much better chance of finding someone who "clicks". In a readable and down-to-earth style, free of theories and psychobabble, the authors guide the reader in getting to know who her partner really is "deep down". They show how a woman can become adept at fostering a healthy, fulfilling relationship, and point up the risks of premature commitments. Questionnaires and checklists organize the material. Communication patterns, past relationships, negotiating, problem solving, and sexuality all receive attention. Short case vignettes from the authors' practice highlight the main points. How people may unwittingly fall into a repetition of unhealthy previous relationships becomes perfectly clear. It is also encouraging to see that when or both partners takes responsibility for personal insight and change, the relationship can grow in new directions. After reading the book I was aware of a new respect for the complexities of loving relationships. I highly recommend it.
M4M: For an Hour or Forever--The Gay Man's Guide to Finding Love Online
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    M4M: For an Hour or Forever--The Gay Man's Guide to Finding Love Online
    Jack Mauro
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    Book Description

    AND -- FOR BETTER OR WORSE -- THERE'S NO LAST CALL.

    Millions of gay men are searching for love. And the vast majority of them are now searching online. But while the Internet helps bring people together, its anonymity, lack of rules, and easy stage for false advertising often result in disappointing matches. But the right guy is out there. Chances are good that every gay man could find exactly what he's looking for online . . . if he only knew where and how to look.

    In M4M, Jack Mauro offers candid, witty advice on every aspect of the gay online-dating arena -- how to (and how not to) compose a successful profile, what kind of photo to use ("normal," naked, and everything in between), the art of instant messaging (from the basics to advanced seduction), "straight" men in gay chats, navigating the usual suspects found in seemingly every chat room, taking it offline, and much, much more.

    Whether the goal is a quick fling or a lifelong partnership, M4M gives both the frustrated online veteran and the curious newbie everything they need to know to get them away from the keyboard and into a satisfying real-life connection.

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