Sex Is Not the Problem (Lust Is): Sexual Purity in a Lust-Saturated World
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  • A Book to Help our Children Live a Sexually Pure Life
  • Surprising...
  • Great book for men and women of God...
  • This is not just your ordinary lust book
  • Same book as "Not Even a Hint"
Sex Is Not the Problem (Lust Is): Sexual Purity in a Lust-Saturated World
Joshua Harris
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ASIN: 1590525191
Release Date: 2005-07-28

Book Description

Lust isn't just a guy problem — it's a human problem. And unless we honestly confront it, lust will destroy our relationships and our lives. Joshua Harris, author of the runaway bestseller I Kissed Dating Goodbye, calls a generation bombarded with images of sexual sin back to the freedom and joy of holiness. This "PG-rated" book — straightforward without being graphic — speaks to those entrenched in lust or just flirting with temptation. Honestly sharing his own struggles, Harris exposes lust's tactics and helps readers create a personal plan for fighting back. Men and women will find hope in God's grace and learn the secrets to lasting change.

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Neither sex nor sexuality is our enemy. We need to rescue our sexuality from lust so we can experience it as God intended.

Bestselling author Joshua Harris shows you how lust deceives you. Specific and honest without being graphic, this book—for both men and women—will guide you in creating a custom plan for fighting lust and celebrating purity.

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“For your joy and Christ’s honor, I commend this book to you. It is realistic, practical, and hope-giving.”

John Piper, pastor of Bethlehem Baptist Church , Minneapolis

“A beautiful blend of grace and truth. Joshua Harris raises high standards of holiness while carefully avoiding legalism. I highly recommend it.”

Randy Alcorn , bestselling author of The Treasure Principle and The Purity Principle

“I am very encouraged that my longtime friend Josh Harris has written a book about lust. May God use this book to keep many from allowing their minds to become ‘the devil’s playground.’”

Rebecca St. James, singer/songwriter

Story Behind the Book

“I was preparing a message on lust when I realized that the book I wanted to consult hadn’t been written. That book would make it clear that only Jesus Christ can free us from the hopeless treadmill of shame and guilt that so many well-intentioned people end up on. It would instill a love for holiness and a hatred for sin without dragging the reader’s imagination through the gutter. And it would be for both men and women, because I’ve learned that lust isn’t just a guy problem—it’s a human problem.”

— Joshua Harris

Customer Reviews:

5 out of 5 stars A Book to Help our Children Live a Sexually Pure Life.......2007-09-08

Joshua Harris has written an excellent book on how to help our children lead a sexually pure life. Mr. Harris explains in part one of his book how our inborn lust is the source of our problems with sexual sin, and in part two he lists steps and disciplines to take to overcome our inborn desire to sin.

Part one lays out the problem with lust. Lust is an in-born part of every person to some degree, but is especially problematic in males. Undisciplined lust leads to all sorts of sexual impurity, deviancy, and sin. Mr. Harris explains that purely in the human realm, it is almost impossible to overcome sexual lust and sin. Yet, with a life devoted to the Lord and his will for our lives to be pure and free of sexual sin, Mr. Harris uses Bible scripture verses to show how sexual temptation can be overcome and disciplined with the result a life pleasing to God. He uses examples from his own struggles to reign in lust and also recounts other people's storys as abject lessons for us all to learn from. I could relate to the struggles, as lust is common to us all.

Part two then details how a person devoted to the Lord and determined to live a sexually pure life can achieve this goal. The emphasis is on having a relationshp with the Lord, and how this relationship and willingness to please the Lord can lead us to sacrifice our sexual lust on our personal altar in an act of worship. Therefore, the relationship with the Lord is paramount in overcoming sexual sin. For if there is no real relationship or a sense that the Lord is alive and active in the lives of people, then there will be little or no motivation to give up our lustful desires. Giving up our sexual lust is a sacrifice we do to please our King. With this basis, Mr. Harris then cites scripture to show how lust can be overcome through specific disciplines. He urges the reader to determine in what areas of sex is there a specific temptation to sin. He then urges the reader though various diciplines how to enact a plan to avoid tempation though avoidance of the triggers that lead to sexual sin.

The controversial subject of masturbation is discussed, and whether it is a sinful behavior or one that is allowed on a limited basis. I learned that masturbation is the end result of allowing sexual temptation to gain a foothold in our minds and how when overcome with lust, we indulge that lust with masturbation. Masturbation is an act of idol worship, with the idol being the sexual object or fantasy we hold in our minds. Therefore, masturbation is not the real problem; it is symptomatic of a mind that is consumed by sexual lust. Mr. Harris also deals with the issue of whether masturbation can ever be justified in the life of a devoted Christian.

Since print, television, movie, and internet media are profound sources of potential temptation and lust, Mr. Harris devotes a chapter to learing how to develop filters in our minds that automatically kick in and not allow us to welcome or engage the sexual media images. He devotes a chapter to tips on overcoming internet pornography addiction, as this is a tremedous source of temptation for both males and females.

Finally, Mr. Harris explains how with the power of the Holy Spirit indwelling in our hearts and minds, we can fall on the power of the Spirit to help us though times of temptation and bring final victory in this area of life.

I purchased this book for my sons to read, as I want them to be free of sexual sin in their lives. My father never taught me these lessons and disciplines and I want to be proactive in my son's lives to help them deal with the problem of lust.

This is an excellent resource for the Christian believer who wants to help himself and his children lead lives of sexual purtity. Sexual temtpations affect us all, and when indulged in can bring a life into complete destruction and ruin. Sexual sin is perhaps the greatest struggle that men will have in their lives, and this book will give specific strategies to win the battle over sexual lust.

Finally, this is not a book for the unbeliever. First, there is no relationship with God, thus no motivation to overcome the urge to sexual sin. Secondly, the unbeliever may see no need to resist lust, as he does not yet realize that undisciplined sexual lust will lead to problems, both immediate and long-term. When the unbeliever becomes ensnared in the problems of sexual lust, perhaps then he or she will seek the Lord as a solution to his problems. Then this book would be of great value.

Jim Konedog Koenig

4 out of 5 stars Surprising..........2007-08-16

I found myself surprisingly enjoying this book. Timing in which I read books probably should be given into account as well though. I read it as I have been struggling with the expectations of myself in terms of sexuality as someone who is training to be an ordained minister. I don't know if I would recommend it to everyone, because I think that our humanity and sexuality is a gift from God. I don't like how sexuality is demonized within the realm of Chrisitanity sometimes, that is why I give this book four stars instead of five. However I would recommend it to people do want to change after having a history of being sexually active outside of marriage. I think that Harris takes a very strong Christ against culture approach in this book, which is not for everybody. Honestly, frequently these kinds of books make me angry but the way Harris framed this argument was really helpful to me at this point in time as I am considering what it might truly take for me to lead a life of chastity. The only other argument I think I really found convicing on this topic would be Richard Foster's in his chapter on chastity in Celebration of Disciplines.

5 out of 5 stars Great book for men and women of God..........2007-07-26

My brother recommended this book to me when we were on a trip. I read through it in no time because of the helpful information inside it that applies to godly men AND women's lifestyles in the 21st century.

Mr. Harris stresses on the facts of necessity of accountability and the understand of the grace of God to be freed from the lust in our society today.

He tries to refrain from going into detail on the stories about other peoples experiences in their problem(s), which makes this book much easier to read if you have a wondering thought process that gets you into trouble.

I enjoyed this book tremendously and it has opened my eyes in more ways to keep pure for Christ.

5 out of 5 stars This is not just your ordinary lust book.......2007-05-19

This book targets sin issues from the core and why they are bad. I would recommend this to any follower of Christ.

3 out of 5 stars Same book as "Not Even a Hint" .......2007-03-10

I think Joshua Harris did a great job with his "Not Even a Hint" book, which is why I turned to this one for further insight... However I found (upon reading the first page!) that it's pretty much the same exact book as "Not Even a Hint" so although this book is probably great, since "Not Even a Hint" was great, don't bother with this one if you've read the other. Compare the tables of content online if you don't believe me!
I'm Not in the Mood: What Every Woman Should Know About Improving Her Libido
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I'm Not in the Mood: What Every Woman Should Know About Improving Her Libido
Judith Reichman
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"Libido maintenance is complicated," admits Judith Reichman, M.D., the frank "hormone maven" you've seen on PBS, The Today Show, and Oprah!. Few physicians are able to help or are comfortable helping women whose dwindling sexual urge interferes with sexual pleasure, intimacy, and expression of affection. I'm Not in the Mood examines the medical reasons for the loss of libido as women age. Reichman concludes that although estrogen replacement makes sexual activity more comfortable and pleasurable, it has no effect on sexual desire, whereas testosterone does. "From an ovarian point of view, many of us are testosterone-deprived, if not downright deficient," asserts Reichman. Testosterone deficiency can result in diminished desire and arousability, insensitivity of the clitoris and nipples, and difficulty reaching orgasm. She discusses the "good news" about and "dark side" of taking testosterone.

Reichman wisely avoids blaming testosterone deficiency for every sexual woe, however. She describes "Seven Sexual Saboteurs": psychological concerns, couple trouble, medications, disease, surgery, pain, and a partner with erectile difficulties. For each, she explains the problem and her recommended solution. She discusses (and, generally, dismisses) other products that are used or advertised as libido enhancers and gives advice about how to talk to your partner and to a sex therapist. --Joan Price

Book Description

The "hormone of desire," testosterone, acts on the brain to stimulate sexual interest, sensitivity to sexual stimulation, and orgasmic ability in both sexes. The amount of testosterone circulating in a woman's blood declines by about 50 percent between her twenties and fifties. The most common complaint associated with this decline is a seemingly unexplainable decrease or loss of sexual desire and enjoyment.

In I'm Not in the Mood, Dr. Reichman reveals the effectiveness of small doses of testosterone in reviving sexual desire and pleasure for women. Questions answered and topics discussed include:

The "hormone of desire," testosterone, acts on the brain to stimulate sexual interest, sensitivity to sexual stimulation, and orgasmic ability in both sexes. The amount of testosterone circulating in a woman's blood declines by about 50 percent between her twenties and fifties. The most common complaint associated with this decline is a seemingly unexplainable decrease or loss of sexual desire and enjoyment.

In I'm Not in the Mood, Dr. Reichman reveals the effectiveness of small doses of testosterone in reviving sexual desire and pleasure for women. Questions answered and topics discussed include:

Customer Reviews:

3 out of 5 stars Menopausal? This one's for you!.......2007-01-19

This book really focuses on organic desire problems, mainly loss of libido due to hormone fluctations. It really pushes the use of testosterone to increase libido, and other remedies and procedures that are largely geared towards much older women (usually through menopause). THIS IS NOT A HELPFUL BOOK FOR WOMEN UNDER 40.

4 out of 5 stars Looking for Answers?.......2006-05-12

A straight-forward explanation of causes for loss of sexual desire in women. It offers psychological (body image, depression, stress, relationship issues), physical, and drug/medical reasons. For these it suggests the best treatment depending on the cause, plus has a section on how to talk with your partner about the problem.
Useful to know the likely causes and gives a starting point for changing things.

5 out of 5 stars Man as the cause of a woman's decreased libido?.......2005-03-11

There's a surprise category in this book. But, first, what's best about the book.

I recommend the book to most of my female patients because it gives an excellent description of all of the causes of a woman's decreased libido. Reading this book gives a good framework for talking with the physician and for taking responsibility for improved health.

Perhaps she underestimates the power of testosterone. No matter what else goes on, if that hormone is low, a woman will struggle with her libido. If you're considering changing the way you replace your horomones and want more details about the personal experiences of someone before and after proper hormone replacement, read Suzane Summer's latest book.

The surprise category is this: Men can be the cause of a woman's decreased libido. The way Dr. Reichman explains it: if the man has ejaculation and quits before the woman is satisfied, then the woman experiences frustration and loses desire for sex. Replacing the hormones of a few thousand women has taught me that this problem is much more common than most men know (the woman does love her husband and so doesn't want to tell him). Dr. Reichman tries to address this problem by writing a few pages about impotence in males.

Here's the problem, most men will not seek treatment from a physician (only about 30% of men with erectile dysfunction...impotence or premature ejaculation...will see a physician). So, I often find Dr. Reichman's category to be a real one: men do contribute to the decreased libido of a woman when they don't understand how to provide prolonged love making for the woman who needs it to achieve orgasm.

Dr. Reichman doesn't expand on the problem of men as the cause of decreased libido, but another common problem in my practice is that the woman comes to see me with decreased libido, then after I treat her the husband can't keep up with her. So, she goes from decreased libido, to improved libido, to frustration and decreased libido again. Because my women patients usually can't convince their husbands to come see me, I wrote a 15-day course for men: Anytime...for as Long as You Want: Strength, Genius, Libido, and Erection by Integrative Sex Transmutation.

Now, I ask my women patients to read Dr. Reichman's book. Then when the woman improves her libido (with the book and my hormone therapy), I give the woman the book Anytime...for as Long as You Want (which comes with an audio CD) to help her convince her husband to seek help in keeping up with her new libido.

Read both of these books and don't give up. Just a few months ago, I had a 65-year-old patient brag to me that she had her first orgasm just a few weeks after starting therapy as descirbed in this book. Her husband of many years only smiled.

--Charles Runels, MD
Author of "Anytime for as Long as You Want: Strength, Genius, Libido, & Erection by Integrative Sex Transmutation (A 15-Day Course for Men to Improve Sex and Life)"

2 out of 5 stars Not for the 20-something female.......2004-12-31

As a 28 year old mom with a 14 month old son and mild depression, I thought I'd buy this book. However, when I read the book, it told me nothing I didn't already know. I wish she could have written a chapter that reaches women in their 20s having these issues. I literally ear-marked 3 pages, which were the only three pages out of the whole book that applied to me. Moreso for women in their 30s-60s.

5 out of 5 stars A good start for client and clinician discussion.......2002-07-10

I have used this book in my clinical practice as a Women's Health Nurse Practitioner for the past couple of years to treat Female Diminished Libido. I loan my copy out to my patients who don't want to purchase this book and have had tremendous success with my patients. I have my client read the book over a couple of weeks while waiting for lab results to come back and then we discuss her lab results and what she discovered in the book. The book has had the beneficial effect that most of my patients are able to honestly reveal if there is marital discord that may not have been admitted to in the first appointment. Opening up the way for a sex therapist or marriage counselor has been another positive benefit of this book. I find that many of my patients were reluctant to consider counseling in the first appointment, but were willing to include counseling as part of the treatment plan of their decreased libido. So many women learn about the female body and functions for the first time while reading this book. Every patient has been very happy with this book and no longer felt alone with this problem. They were able to realize that other women have suffered with this same problem and that, most of the time, there is positive results with hormones, exercise, honest communication with their spouse, counseling and/or treatment for depression. I plan to continue to use this book in my treatment of Diminished Female Libido.
Sex Is Not the Problem (Lust Is) - A Study Guide for Men
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    Joshua Harris , and Brian Smith
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    Release Date: 2005-12-15

    Book Description

    Celebrate Purity

    Overcoming lust is a process that requires diligent focus and accountability from others, and these in-depth guides help establish both. They’re designed for a variety of settings, from one-on-one accountability partnerships to Sunday school classes. Sex Is Not the Problem (Lust Is) made the statement that lust is a human problem (not just a guy problem) and that Jesus can free anyone from its power. Going further, these gender-specific study guides feature questions and discussion starters that directly address the temptations unique to men and women. These resources are a must-have for anyone challenged to defeat lust and celebrate purity in their lives.

    Experience Victory Along the Journey to Holiness

    Based on his bestselling message in Sex Is Not the Problem (Lust Is), Joshua Harris offers a companion study guide specifically designed to address the issues men face. Versatile in nature, this study guide can be used in one-on-one accountability or in a church group setting.



    “ Joshua Harris has done it again. Sex Is Not the Problem (Lust Is) contains the undiluted biblical truth on a vital topic, served up with honesty and humility.”

    —C. J. Mahaney

    Author of The Cross Centered Life





    Sidebar:

    Each of the ten small-group sessions includes: Easy Review: A quick chapter summary makes review simple. Discussion Questions: Questions that serve as icebreakers, and then lead to deeper discussion and personal application. Accountability Follow-Up: Questions to help check each other’s progress in a truthful and caring setting. Meditate and Memorize: Key Scriptures that will help men gain victory over lust. Custom-Tailored Action Plan: Men will be led in a step-by-step formulation of an Action Plan, uniquely tailored to combat their specific battles.

    Story Behind the Book

    “I was preparing a message on lust when I realized that the book I wanted to consult hadn’t been written. That book would make it clear that only Jesus Christ can free us from the hopeless treadmill of shame and guilt that so many well-intentioned people end up on. It would instill a love for holiness and a hatred for sin without dragging the reader’s imagination through the gutter. And it would be for both men and women, because I’ve learned that lust isn’t just a guy problem—it’s a human problem.”

    —Joshua Harris
    Sex Is Not the Problem (Lust Is) - A Study Guide for Women
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      Joshua Harris , Shannon Harris , and Brian Smith
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      “Sex Is Not the Problem (Lust Is) offers help and hope—not just for those who are dealing with sexual lust, but for anyone besieged by temptation of any kind.”

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      Each of the ten small-group sessions includes: Easy Review: A quick chapter summary makes review simple. Discussion Questions: Questions that serve as icebreakers, and then lead to deeper discussion and personal application. Accountability Follow-Up: Questions to help check each other’s progress in a truthful and caring setting. Meditate and Memorize: Key Scriptures that will help women gain victory over lust. Custom-Tailored Action Plan: Women will be led in a step-by-step formulation of an Action Plan, uniquely tailored to combat their specific battles.

      Story Behind the Book

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      Ready or Not?: A Girl's Guide to Making Her Own Decisions about Dating, Love, and Sex
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      Tina Radziszewicz
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      Sex.

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      Well, look no further!

      This essential guide tells you everything you need to know about your body, his body, what boys say (and what they really mean), virginity, dating, contraception, STDs, pregnancy—and more.

      Taking a relationship further is a huge step and it’s essential to know all the facts before making any decisions. Packed with friendly advice, quizzes, and practical information, this book is your ultimate guide to making the best choice for you!

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      5 out of 5 stars Courtesy of Teens Read Too.......2006-12-24

      For adolescent girls, making decisions about sex and sexuality is a challenge. Making smart decisions is even harder, especially when influences come from so many different directions--peers, media, and advertising. READY OR NOT? is a book that can help all girls who are contemplating their sexuality, whether it be the actual physical activity of having sex or simply dealing with changes in their body.

      The book is broken down into three main parts, with several chapters and subcategories in each.

      Part One: Your Body and You contains chapters on Puberty, Periods, Here's Looking at You, and Body Q & A.

      Part Two: Emotions and You includes chapters entitled The Dating Game, Sexuality, Attitudes Toward Sex, and Emotions Q & A.

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      READY OR NOT? is not intended as the end-all of teen sexuality. What it is, though, is a great guide for teen girls to use, in conjunction with their parents, to discuss sexual matters. The book also includes a Resources and Contacts section and an index to use for quick referencing when you want to read about a particular issue. Overall, READY OR NOT? is a very helpful, and well put-together, guide for teen girls dealing with sexuality and its aftereffects and consequences.

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        3. Exorcising Your Ex: How to Get Rid of the Demons of Relationships Past Exorcising Your Ex: How to Get Rid of the Demons of Relationships Past
        4. I Used to Miss Him...But My Aim Is Improving: Not Your Ordinary Breakup Survival Guide I Used to Miss Him...But My Aim Is Improving: Not Your Ordinary Breakup Survival Guide
        5. How to Heal a Broken Heart in 30 Days: A Day-by-Day Guide to Saying Good-bye and Getting On With Your Life How to Heal a Broken Heart in 30 Days: A Day-by-Day Guide to Saying Good-bye and Getting On With Your Life

        ASIN: 0738210900

        Book Description

        Laugh-out-loud funny, It's Not Me, It's You reminds dumpers and dumpees everywhere that just because the relationship was a disaster doesn't mean the breakup can't be a smashing success.

        Authors Anna Jane Grossman and Flint Wainess offer witty wisdom and time-tested tips on how to weather the breakup storm: whether to do it; how to do it; what to wear; and what to do after it's over.

        Customer Reviews:

        5 out of 5 stars Fresh Voice in a Stale Genre.......2006-09-20

        I went thru a really tuff breakup and I had so many questions, but mostly WHY ME and HOW DARE HE? This book was really great in making me feel like the the pain of relationships is common, expected and that I am not the only one going thru these tons of negative feelings that pop up when you feel rejected and left behind. Relationships fail, thats life and this is a great book that shouts truth and gives you a good laugh when you need it most. You may not want to hear everthing the authors write about but there is so much truth in their words. Its a fresh take on all the other other books that make you feel that all love works, sometimes love isn't really love and they address that. Good Show!!!!

        1 out of 5 stars Yuck.......2006-09-17

        I recently bought this book along with 4 others about break-ups. The positive reviews make me think I would get a good laugh out of it. It's TERRIBLE. The entire book is about how much relationships suck, what a waste of time they are, and how they are doomed from before they start. There was nothing remotely helpful or funny about this book. I actually found myself skipping entire pages because it was so negative. The last thing I needed while going through this break up was a book promoting bitterness. If you weren't depressed before you read this, you will be before you finish it (if you can finish it.) Look elsewhere if you want to actually get any benefit. "It's Called a Break-Up Because It's Broken" by Behrendt & Ruotola-Behrendt has been a good one for me. It's a little silly, but mixed with the occasional cheesy nick-name are valid points and a real plan for healing.

        5 out of 5 stars great comic relief.......2006-07-12

        I am going through a tough separation and this book has been fantastic in helping me laugh through the pain and heartbreak. (Sometimes out loud and in public) Despite the overall message that we are all doomed to fail in love and relationships, I still adore this book- it appeals to the sarcastic side of me. A must read for everyone *even if you think you are happily attached.*

        5 out of 5 stars Hilarious!.......2006-03-17

        This book made me laugh out loud. I just couldn't put it down. It's a great gift to share.

        5 out of 5 stars Send this to your ex!.......2006-03-12

        What a great book!! At first I thought it would be just a fun read, but it is so full of absolute truths!! It is a must read for anyone who has just broken up, and makes a great gift for the dumper. Don't ever let her think she has the upper hand!!
        Taboo or Not Taboo: Sexuality and Family in the Hebrew Bible
        Average customer rating: 3 out of 5 stars
        • Taboo or not Taboo
        • I don't think this is worth your time.
        • Positive & negative aspects of family life in ancient Israel
        Taboo or Not Taboo: Sexuality and Family in the Hebrew Bible
        Ilona N. Rashkow
        Manufacturer: Augsburg Fortress Publishers
        ProductGroup: Book
        Binding: Paperback

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        ASIN: 0800630858

        Book Description

        In a changing society, Christians and Jews have looked to the Bible to find values and models. But the Hebrew Bible does not offer a single model for family behavior or relationships. This volume explores the positive and negative aspects of family life in ancient Israel as portrayed in the Bible. Rashkow examines the relationships between husbands and wives, parents and children, and siblings, looking at the variety of conflicts that emerged: incest, rape, abuse, murder, and hatred.

        Ultimately, Rashkow's analysis provides a reflection on family, which is given texture and depth through her use of psychoanalysis and literary theory. This text traces the influence of the biblical images on later Western literature and society and provides comparative discussions of other ancient Near Eastern literatures. Also useful as a textbook for courses in Hebrew Bible, feminist studies, and psychological interpretations of the Bible.

        Customer Reviews:

        2 out of 5 stars Taboo or not Taboo.......2007-02-03

        After reading and sometimes rereading Ms. Rashkow's arguments on the Hebrew Bible and sexuality within the family, I can not help but come to the conclusion that I was only reading her oppinion. At many points within her argument it was very subjective and seemed as if it was not well supported and it left a lot of questions unanswered.
        She did, however, write the text in a very easy to read manner; she incoperated interesting analogies and easy to understand examples to try and help support her view points.

        2 out of 5 stars I don't think this is worth your time........2003-04-18

        I have a B.A. in religion and am currently pursuing a M.A. in counsoling psychology.

        Ms. Rashkow uses psychoanalytic method to discuss sexuality in the Hebrew Bible. I'm not a fan of the psychoanalytic school because I think interpretation of symbols is almost always very subjective, and is very rarely presented that way.

        This book is no exception. Ms. Rashkow makes several assertions that don't make sense to me (not uncommon), but does not continue on to defend these assertions in a sensical manner (that is a bit uncommon).

        On the plus side, the historical information presented is often very interesting, and is difficult to find elsewhere. And Ms. Rashkow is at time quite funny and does a good job of not taking herself or her sunject matter to seriously.

        Bottom line; I learned a lot about Ms. Rashkow's subjective psychoanalytic interpretations of the hebrew bible, and less than I would have like about the facts of human sexuality from that time period.

        Dissapointing.

        5 out of 5 stars Positive & negative aspects of family life in ancient Israel.......2001-02-14

        The Hebrew Bible offers diverse models for family behavior and relationships. Taboo Or Not Taboo: Sexuality And Family In The Hebrew Bible explores the positive and negative aspects of family life in ancient Israel, particularly the relationships between husbands and wives, parents and children, as well as siblings. Professor of Judaic Studies, Women's Studies, and Comparative Literature at the State University of new York, Stony Brook, Ilona Rashkow surveys the variety of conflicts that emerge in the familial Biblical accounts, including rape, incest, abuse, hatred, and murder. Her cogent, scholarly analysis provides a reflection on family, which given texture and depth through her use of psychoanalysis and literary theory result in fascinating, informative, thought-provoking, and occasionally controversial reading.
        You Are Not Alone: A Psychological Approach To The Cause And Treatment Of Mental Emotional Problems Relating To: Alcoholism, Exhibitionsm, Fetishism, Frigidy, Homosexuality, Impotence, Etc....
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          You Are Not Alone: A Psychological Approach To The Cause And Treatment Of Mental Emotional Problems Relating To: Alcoholism, Exhibitionsm, Fetishism, Frigidy, Homosexuality, Impotence, Etc....
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          Binding: Hardcover
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