A Step From Heaven

Book Description

When she is five, Young Ju Park and her family move from Korea to California. During the flight, they climb so far into the sky she concludes they are on their way to Heaven, that Heaven must be in America. Heaven is also where her grandfather is. When she learns the distinction, she is so disappointed she wants to go home to her grandmother. Trying to console his niece, Uncle Tim suggests that maybe America can be "a step from Heaven." Life in America, however, presents problems for Young Ju's family. Her father becomes depressed, angry, and violent. Jobs are scarce and money is even scarcer. When her brother is born, Young Ju experiences firsthand her father's sexism as he confers favored status upon the boy who will continue to carry the Park name. In a wrenching climactic scene, her father beats her mother so severely that Young Ju calls the police. Soon afterward, her father goes away and the family begins to heal.

Customer Reviews:

Heart-breakingly beautiful.......2007-08-28

What an incredible fresh new voice... I want to find An Na and urge her to write more. I felt this book broke my heart open in the most beautiful of ways... She made me think deeply about the experience of coming to the US as a young child and acclimating, along with one's parents, perhaps more quickly than one's parents, to a brand new language and culture. Her language is clean, clear, pure, beautiful, precise, sparing... this is a must read, hands down.

Between Cultures.......2007-05-31

Young Ju was born in Korea and lived the first four years of her life there. Then she and her parents move to America to start a new life. Young does not speak any English, and she has trouble understanding this new world around her. When her younger brother, Joon, is born, Young feels like she is second best. Sons are treasured. Her fahter changes the baby's diaper and talks of how great he will be when he grows up. This baby gets attention and special priveleges, and Young feels like she is ignored and unloved.

As she grows up and becomes more Americanized, Young begins to realize that her father is abusive. Their lives in the United States are a struggle, rather than the dream they had expected them to be. Young is trying to fit in with her peers in this country, while her parents expect her to follow the stricter rules of a Korean society. She is torn between two countries, and is afraid of her father. Can their lives really work out for the better here in the United States?

I found the mother in this story frustratingly weak. I understand that different cultures have different roles and expectations for women, but I was still horrified at the idea that a woman would allow her husband to abuse her and her children. I liked that this story made clear to me some of the reasons why people would come to this country from other countries. I liked reading about first impressions of the United States. The narrator tells interesting stories of her first day of school and the misunderstandings she had because she didn't speak the language.

A Step From Heaven.......2007-05-10

This award-winning book uses the growth of the character to tell the story through her eyes. The writer uses the language in the book to illustrate the young girl maturing and grasping the English language. Many children in today's educational system are from other countries, but are thrown into American society. They are faced with the struggle to preserve their culture, yet yearn to "fit into" American culture. Other children who do not have this struggle may know people like the main character or they may feel sympathetic to her hardships. The violent behavior displayed by the father is another aspect of the story that children from any culture could relate to. Abusive, alcoholic fathers and husbands are not only found in one particular race. The author does illustrate the negative affects of abusive behavior through both the victims and the perpetrator. The stereotyping in the book is minimal. There is discussion about the author's experiences in America, but they are utilized to illustrate the cultural differences, not a stereotype. The book depicts the story of one Korean immigrant and her family, but all immigrants will not live these same experiences. Readers should keep an open mind and read knowing this is the journey of only one girl. Although her story may be similar to others, not all Korean immigrants will have the same experiences. Overall, the book allows the reader to celebrate how the character overcame numerous obstacles in her life without turning her back on her culture, family, or herself. She remained true, and that is an inspiring message to send to readers.

A Step from Heaven Evaluation.......2007-05-07

A Step from Heaven is an affecting story full of personal challenges and eventual triumph. The reality of Young Ju's life can be easily related to many teenagers trying to conceal their truths to ensure popularity and acceptance among their peers. In addition to Young Ju's battle to hide the truths of her family and home lifestyle, the reader is deeply affected by the hardships that Young Ju encounters within her home. Young Ju's ability to overcome her father's abusive behaviors is uplifting, but more affecting is Young Ju's mother, Uhmma's, triumph over her role as the quiet, compliant, and abused Korean wife to a fearless, strong, independent woman. The stereotypes that An Na includes in her book are evident; however, these stereotypes provide significance to the story being told. In particular, the defined roles that An Na creates for each member of the family are necessary for the impact of Young Ju and Uhmma's triumph over their abusive father and husband. Also, the poverty the family endures in their move to America from Korea is again necessary to provide a realistic view of the hardships that many families encounter when they leave their native country for a better life in the United States. In addition, the struggling home life, multiple jobs by parents, the small, unappealing home, and the monotonous meals of rice clearly illustrate the embarrassments Young Ju feels compared to the lifestyles her friend have. An Na's A Step from Heaven realistically depicts the challenges a young girl faces while trying to find her own voice and place in this world.

Step Up To This Heavenly Novel.......2007-05-06

Na, A. (2001). A step from heaven. New York: Speak.

Synopsis: From the eyes, ears, mind and heart of Young Ju, you are carried from Korea to Mi Gook. In actuality, Mi Gook is America, which Young Ju feels is literally a step from heaven. You will experience the journey, pain, sorrows, and joys as Young Ju matures and grows into a brave, brilliant, and caring young woman. She struggles to balance her new American life with her rich cultural Korea background. Written in almost a free verse format, this story is told through the mind and experiences of Young Ju. This young girl endures many challenges in her life, but the hardest challenge of all is to stop the physical abuse that her father has brought upon the family. Can Young Ju put an end to her family's suffering?

Evaluation: Readers will clearly get the sense of how American life can prove to be challenging for immigrants. An Na presents the strong cultural clash that must be felt by any immigrant. For Young Ju, it is the clash of her rich Korean heritage with the strange new customs of America. While preparing to leave Korea, Young Ju's mother takes her to get "curly American hair". Yet, once they arrive in America, Young Ju's parents do not approve of her new American friends. While Young Ju struggles to learn the language, as she is forced to speak only Korean at home and only English at school. In her mind, words flow smoothly and naturally. When quoted, Young Ju's English is choppy and sometimes mixed up. She goes to the dictionary to find out why boys and girls "go" with each other. Written in a series of vignettes, readers are transported into Young Ju's world. Not all the events are clearly linked through out the story. However, the author's fluid language gives an accurate portrayal of immigrants struggling in America. High school level teachers can use this text with students to create an understanding and appreciation for the challenges faced by young immigrants. Readers can also feel the pain and sorrow that Young Ju must endure. Battling her father's alcoholism, abuse, unfair and sexist treatment is at times brutal. The author presents a strong heroic and triumphant young woman in the end. Young adults ages 14-18 are likely to find this story remarkable. Adults will likely enjoy this light, yet heavy hearted novel as well!

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A Gem of a Book
Strong Female Protagonist - strong writing
Courtesy of Teens Read Too
I like this pennie girl very much
Just Like Being Home Again

Penny from Heaven (Newbery Honor Book)
Jennifer Holm
Manufacturer: Random House Books for Young Readers
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Binding: Hardcover

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ASIN: 037583687X
Release Date: 2006-07-25

Book Description

It’s1953 and 11-year-old Penny dreams of a summer of butter pecan ice cream, swimming, and baseball. But nothing’s that easy in Penny’s family. For starters, she can’t go swimming because her mother’s afraid she’ll catch polio at the pool. To make matters worse, her favorite uncle is living in a car. Her Nonny cries every time her father’s name is mentioned. And the two sides of her family aren’t speaking to each other!

Inspired by Newbery Honor winner Jennifer Holm’s own Italian American family, Penny from Heaven is a shining story about the everyday and the extraordinary, about a time in America’s history, not all that long ago, when being Italian meant that you were the enemy. But most of all, it’s a story about families—about the things that tear them apart and bring them together. And Holm tells it with all the richness and the layers, the love and the laughter of a Sunday dinner at Nonny’s. So pull up a chair and enjoy the feast! Buon appetito!

Customer Reviews:

A Gem of a Book.......2007-08-20

Being a Newbery Honor book, I had to give this book a read. I definitely wasn't disappointed! This was a beautifully written coming-of-age story that children and young adults will be able to enjoy for years to come. Jennifer Holm, author of the Newbery Award winning book, Our May Amelia, is back with another lovely book about children growing up faster than they should have too, but enjoying themselves on the journey.

Penny, a half-Italian girl living with her mother and grandparents in New Jersey, longs to know more about what happened to her father. Her died when she was very young and her mother never speaks of him. The only time Penny is able to hear his name mentioned is when she is over at her Italian grandparents house, where her myriad of Aunts, Uncles, and cousins never fail to talk about her dad. Penny loves spending time in this boisterous household where food is always delicious and her best friend and cousin Frankie spends most of his time.

Unfortunately, Penny's mother doesn't get along with her in-laws and doesn't like Penny spending all of her time over there. As her mother begins dating, Penny tries to break up the dates in order to matchmake between her mother and her father's brother, Dominic. Penny, more than anything, wants her two families to love each other as she loves them. After a tragic accident that puts the use of Penny's arm in jeopardy, the true colors of her family members really begin to shine.

Set in the 1950's this book is so much more than family problems. It has exciting baseball games, friendships, and a mystery of buried treasure. The characters are incredibly real and lovable. Uncle Dominic was probably my favorite of the cast, because of his quirkiness and mystery. This is a true gem of a book.

Strong Female Protagonist - strong writing.......2007-07-06

This delightful piece of historical fiction set in New Jersey in the 1950's explores the life of "Penny" who lives with a single mother and grandparents, but who has a whole other life on Sundays with her father's family, a large Italian American one with uncles who dote on her. The mystery that threads itself through this story is that no one will talk about her father, and how and why he died. Or, why the families do not intereact, except through her.

Strong writing, a strong female protagonist, and interesting sub-plots all make for a delightful coming-of-age story, very appropriate for the upper elementary and middle school audience.

Courtesy of Teens Read Too.......2007-06-23

PENNY FROM HEAVEN, a new offering by author Jennifer L. Holm, is an excellent pick for middle grade readers. Set in the early 1950's, it tells a story of everyday life and rich Italian heritage.

Penny lives with her mother and her grandparents. At the start of the novel, she's almost twelve. Most of her time is spent hanging out in the neighborhood with her cousin and best friend, Frankie.

Bike riding would be fun, but Penny's bike was unfortunately backed over in the driveway. Going swimming in the city pool or taking in an afternoon matinee sounds like quality entertainment, but Penny's mom believes those places are breeding grounds for the dreaded polio everyone seems to be contracting. That doesn't leave much to do, but Penny and Frankie always seem to find something to get into. It might be an attempt to fix the leaky toilet that turns into a major repair job, or the secret mission to discover if great-grandma Nonny wears black underwear to match her old-fashioned black dresses.

Penny is surrounded by tons of Italian aunts and uncles, but she misses her father. His death years ago is still shrouded in mystery, one that Penny seems unable to uncover. Her mother is becoming interested in Mr. Mulligan, the milkman. Penny's attempts to pair her mother up with favorite Uncle Dominic fail miserably.

Day-to-day life is pretty predictable for Penny and her family until the unthinkable happens. After a tragic accident, Penny finds herself making plans for a very different life. Readers' emotions will be tested as Penny's story unfolds.

Jennifer L. Holm is also known for Newbery Honor book Our Only May Amelia (Harper Trophy Books) and her Boston Jane Series: An Adventure series, which is my personal favorite.

Reviewed by: Sally Kruger, aka "Readingjunky"

I like this pennie girl very much.......2007-05-24

She is a lot like alice, a girl in anothr book I like very much, only her mother died insted of her father. Pennie is very kind, and a little bit funny and a little bit sad. I like the way she thinks things over. I think I might read it again, if my sister will let me borrow it again. If I can think of something to trade. Books are like gold and chocolate around my house, people keep it for themselves. If you are thinking of buying this book, do it. You'll love it.

Just Like Being Home Again.......2007-05-05

Since both my sets of grandparents came from Italy, I'm usually wary of books that contain Italian families; they are either ga-ga over the Mafia or do not seem authentic. I was in love with Penny's wonderful Italian family immediately; I knew all these people in my own family. My dad's mother even did her cooking at a gas-converted coal stove in the basement because it was cooler in summer and she didn't want to "mess up" the nice kitchen upstairs! The food (sfogliatelles!), the homes, the loving uncles, the men torn between pleasing their mothers or their wives, the one male cousin who's always in trouble, Grandma dressed in black making homemade macaroni and homemade gravy (not "pasta" and "sauce," which are "Med-i-gone" terms!)...wow, it took me all back. Holm has the early 50s atmosphere down pat...I wished I could open a door and go back to meet all her characters, visit the Sweet Shoppe and the family butcher shop, and listen to "Dem Bums" on the radio. I also was drawn into the growing mystery about Penny's father, which exposes a chapter in history that most people have never heard of. I'm glad I decided to purchase this book; if you are Italian, this is a must have.

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feel-good funny thriller
Who would've thought?
Excellent, enthralling work - classic Koontz! - but a little repetitive
What will you find behind the door that is one door away from Heaven?
Charming story

One Door Away from Heaven
Dean Koontz
Manufacturer: Bantam
ProductGroup: Book
Binding: Hardcover

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ASIN: 0553801376
Release Date: 2001-12-26

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Dean Koontz virtually invented the cross-genre novel, and in One Door Away from Heaven he mixes an action thriller with post-X-Files alien paranoia to remarkable effect. Micky Bellsong is a young woman at a crisis point in her life, using a stay at her Aunt Geneva's to sort things out. Then the precocious and deformed Leilani Klonk walks into her life, telling stories of her stepfather and drugged-up mother, who believe aliens will beam the girl into their mothership and heal her deformities before her 10th birthday. But tales of the stepfather's vicious past, including his hand in several murders, leave Micky believing that a far more terrible fate awaits her friend. So when the parents take off with Leilani, Micky pursues.

As is typical with a Koontz novel, nothing turns out to be what it seems, and the meticulously crafted plot tightens like a noose with every turn of the page. His characters are exceptionally drawn, driving the novel forward with realism and warmth. Micky is one of his more attractive young heroines, but the real star is Leilani, a mature young girl whose plucky nature and sparkling dialogue instantly make her Koontz's most memorable creation. She embodies his belief that despite violence, pain, and suffering, there is always goodness to be found in every person and situation. Koontz has once again proven why he is one of the premier novelists of his generation. --Jonathan Weir, Amazon.co.uk

Book Description

Hailed as “America’s most popular suspense novelist” (Rolling Stone) Dean Koontz has entered a rich new phase of his writing career that is yielding his most imaginative, meaningful, and popular work yet.

At the height of his powers as a literary craftsman, he has won the acclaim of critics as well as the allegiance of millions of fans the world over, transforming the greatest fears and hopes of our time into masterworks of dazzling originality and emotional resonance.

Now, with the stunning depth and virtuosity of his storytelling, he brings to readers one of his most gripping and richly imagined novels to date—an intoxicating story of adventure and suspense, mystery and revelation, told with humor, heart, and high art.

One Door Away From Heaven

In a dusty trailer park on the far edge of the California dream, Michelina Bellsong contemplates the choices she has made. At twenty-eight, she wants to change the direction of her troubled life but can’t find her way—until a new family settles into the rental trailer next door and she meets the young girl who will lead her on a remarkable quest that will change Micky herself and everything she knows—or thinks she knows—forever.

Despite the brace she must wear on her deformed left leg, and her withered left hand, nine-year-old Leilani Klonk radiates a buoyant and indomitable spirit that inspires Micky. Beneath Leilani’s effervescence, however, Micky comes to sense a quiet desperation that the girl dares not express.

Leilani’s mother is little more than a child herself. And the girl’s stepfather, Preston Maddoc, is educated but threatening. He has moved the family from place to place as he fanatically investigates UFO sightings, striving to make contact, claiming to have had a vision that by Leilani’s tenth birthday aliens will either heal her or take her away to a better life on their world.

Slowly, ever more troubling details emerge in Leilani’s conversations with Micky. Most chilling is Micky’s discovery that Leilani had an older brother, also disabled, who vanished after Maddoc took him into the woods one night and is now “gone to the stars.”

Leilani’s tenth birthday is approaching. Micky is convinced the girl will be dead by that day. While the child-protection bureaucracy gives Micky the runaround, the Maddoc family slips away into the night. Micky sets out across America to track and find them, alone and afraid but for the first time living for something bigger than herself.

She finds herself pitted against an adversary, Preston Maddoc, as fearsome as he is cunning. The passion and disregard for danger with which Micky pursues her quest bring to her side a burned-out detective who joins her on a journey of incredible peril and startling discoveries, a journey through terrible darkness to unexpected light.

One Door Away From Heaven is an incandescent mix of suspense and humor, fear and wonder, a story of redemption and timeless wisdom that will have readers cheering. Filled with tragedy and joy, with terror and hope, it solidifies Dean Koontz’s reputation as one of the foremost storytellers of our time. This is Dean Koontz at his very best—and it doesn’t get any better than that.

Customer Reviews:

feel-good funny thriller.......2007-07-31

I've just finished this yesterday and I can agree on some of the points made by disappointed reviewers - but if they like Koontz's writing on the whole I recommend they try this book again in a year or so. I say this because five years ago I would not have paid a dime for anything that wasn't totally scary. I did get into it and enjoyed it (already passed it on to my husband and promised to two friends after that) maybe because I'm having a hard time finding a writer with a original story line any more. That said: Curtis is a hilarious, if transparent, mystery that you know will win but live on the edge reading his story. Leilani is all the goodness we wish we could find in ourselves. Yeah, she talks too smart but how else would the story get across? Micky is like watching the smart but dumb girl in a sitcom, likeable even if you don't like her. And Aunti Jen is a pistol - wish I had one like her!

Who would've thought? .......2007-07-31

Usually when you pick up a Dean Koontz, you fasten your seatbelt, and hang on for the ride that you love so much! He really packed a lot into almost 700 pages. Who would've thought, that for some this would be so significant? I never would've thought that it would strike a nerve, but it did. After actually bringing myself to care about the characters, Koontz had me hooked once again.

What would a crippled little girl, like Leilani Klonk, have in common with the girl next door, Micky Bellsong? Micky lives with her Aunt Gen, and is simply trying to find a job. Leilani lives with her mom, Old Sinsemilla, who is constantly high. Leilani also lives with a leg brace, because she is indeed deformed. But all three are broken lives, with shattered hopes and dreams, in some way or another. In another part of this country, you'll find a boy who goes by the name of Curtis Hammond. He has nothing in this life, except a dog, who will prove a faithful companion. Then you have an ex-detective, Noah. He just wants to be left alone, or so he thinks. OH YEAH! You also have a man named Preston Maddoc, Leilani's (so called) step-father. Leilani refers to him as Dr. Doom! He's a sick, twisted individual. Is Leilani's life in danger? Chances are, yes. And through the tales of adventure that Koontz will weave, Micky is on a mission.

In this day and age, who would figure that Koontz might have such an impact? I didn't. But upon reading these precious pages, I saw what he was hitting on. Folks who fought for the life of Terri Schiavo will know instantly. And Terri Schiavo wasn't even an issue in our media when this was first published! That's pretty scary. And it had a lot more meaning for me this time than just a good story. Koontz hit the nail on the head with this. The title is more than appropriate. Like it or not, this is the world we live in. Koontz just happened to have a clue this time. Or he just knew all too well and we didn't get it! Hey, like it or lump it, it happens to be stuff like this that brings me back to Dean Koontz. He has something to say. We just need to pay attention. Pay a little closer attention with this one. This isn't our Creation we're messing with. And the God who made it, loved us enough to bring us here in the first place. And He's loved us, no matter how screwed up we are, or will be from here on out. Now take a deep breath before you start this, and then you may crack that opening page. Well done, Dean Koontz!

Excellent, enthralling work - classic Koontz! - but a little repetitive.......2007-05-26

This is one of Koontz's better works. My wife and I listened to the audio version on our cross-country trek from Michigan to Las Vegas, and we were rapt by the intriguing storyline and life-like characters. The lead characters are female - a twenty-something drifter with a good heart, and a disabled little girl with intelligence beyond her years. The little girl, in particular, is memorable. On the downside, several of Koontz's crutches come into play: The little girl's stepfather is a vilified academic; a sadistic atheist (as all atheists in Koontz's books are). The girl and her mother are remarkably similar to a young Chyna Shepard and her drugged-out mom from Intensity. Koontz's novels are almost always enjoyable, but the repetition of characters, themes, and worst of all, stereotypes, is annoying and detrimental to their quality. Nevertheless, I would recommend this book to anyone interested in some entertaining light reading.

What will you find behind the door that is one door away from Heaven?.......2007-04-21

Ok, I'm going to be blunt. I honestly don't see what some of you guys' problems are. In all honesty this is probably my most favorite of Koontz's novels, and I've been reading his works now for about fourteen years, ever since I was thirteen. Sure it features yet anoter dog in a major role, but I've always liked that. I like the slightly different form it takes here. But let's get on to the story.
Michelina Bellsong is a twenty-eight-year-old woman who's come to stay with her aging aunt until she can sort out her life. But when a purky nine-year-old girl and her parents move into the trailer next to Mickey's aunt's, Mickey's life takes an unexpected turn. Leilani Clonk has a deformed hand and leg, but her spirit more than compensates. She is possessed of an often sarcastic brand of humor and an aversion to holding in what's on her mind. When she visits Mickey and her aunt for dinnner, she spins what they initially believe to be a tall tale about her serial murderer stepfather and drug-addicted mother who has chosen to name herself after a particularly potent type of Marijuana. But after observing Leilani's mother firsthand, Mickey grows concerned, particularly after hearing the story of Leilani's vanished brother, whom she believes to be buried in a lonely grave somewhere in Montana.
Meanwhile, far away from all these events, a boy flees for his life following the brutal murder of his mother. Forced by circumstance into acts of thievery, he fights desperately to survive. But this is no ordinary boy. He possesses astonishing abilities, including the ability to communicate with animals. Shortly after his escape from his mother's killers, the boy acquires a canine companion, the former pet of a brutally murdered Colorado family.
Mickey, meanwhile, embarks on a mission to find out as much as she can about Lelani's supposed serial killer stepfather. The information she discovers via computers in the local library is more alarming than even Leilani's tale had at first made it seem, and Mickey begins to realize how little time is left to the girl, particularly when she and her parents suddenly vacate the trailer and hit the road in a souped-up motor home with a Hawaiian motif.
In desperation, Mickey and her aunt enlist the aid of a burned-out former police officer and private investigator known to have a particular weakness for cases involving endangered children. Though initially reluctant to become involved in what he recognizes as a dangerous situation, both legally and physically, the detective nevertheless can't ignore the thought of a child in danger, and he hits the road in a desperate race to find Mickey before she can put herself in danger.
Meanwhile, the motherless boy finds himself rescued from a potentially dangerous situation by a pair of charming, seductive twin sisters complete with their own stylish motor home, a fascination with Extraterestrials, and, as the boy soon discovers, the ability and determination to defend themselves and their friends from any foe.
As is usually the case in Koontz's novels, all these diverse characters eventually come together, and this book is no exception. The story culminates in a violent confrontation with a villain whose evil is of amuch more disturbing nature than the average psycho. I was particularly surprised when the true nature of the motherless boy was made clear. Again, this is perhaps my most favorite of Koontz's books. It took a second read to remind me just why that was.

Charming story.......2007-02-08

But hair-raising at the same time. It's quite simple, really. If you loved E.T. you will love this book. I loved E.T. I still do. And I loved this book.

I have to sit and shake my head in wonder when I see a reviewer use the phrases "patently ridiculous" and "unbelievably disfunctional" when describing events or characters in a work of fiction. This just shows me that the person has an imagination dysfunction. Then there's the idiot who rails at Mr Koontz for being too religious and of course tying him to the right wing immediately. Seriously, people.

This book contains perhaps the most complete characters Dean Koontz has ever created, with Curtis being the most interesting. His meeting with the waitress in the diner has stuck in my mind. And the story of Leilani will curl your hair. Readers who find her story incredible do not live in the real world.

The only Dean Koontz book I've read which I enjoyed more than this one was "The Taking," but this one is almost just as good. Don't be afraid to buy it.

Don't stop what you're doing, Mr Koontz. Nobody out there is saying what you're saying and in such a manner as to make it entertaining as well. You've come a long way from "Whispers." And keep the dogs!!

Children Are from Heaven: Positive Parenting Skills for Raising Cooperative, Confident, and Compassionate Children

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Great Insights
Gave my days as a stay at home mom of 3 some peace
Helpfull, but theres a better explanation.
Good Ideas, Not Much Follow-Through
Hard to Read

Children Are from Heaven: Positive Parenting Skills for Raising Cooperative, Confident, and Compassionate Children
John Gray
Manufacturer: Harper Paperbacks
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Psychologist John Gray (he of Men Are from Mars... fame) cites a need to shift from "fear-based parenting" (a punitive and oppressive approach to child rearing) to "love-based parenting" (which accepts children's desires and negative emotions while still setting reasonable limits). With child and teen violence increasing, rampant low self-esteem, substance abuse, teen pregnancy, and attention deficit disorder, he says, "the Western free world is experiencing a crisis in parenting. Almost all parents today are questioning both the old and the new ways of parenting. Nothing seems to be working."

He suggests "Five Messages of Positive Parenting" that will facilitate such a shift:

It's okay to be different.
It's okay to make mistakes.
It's okay to express negative emotions.
It's okay to want more.
It's okay to say no, but remember mom and dad are the bosses.

Although his parenting philosophy is not necessarily revolutionary (think "positive discipline"), Gray manages to keep this parenting primer contemporary by weaving in specific challenges of new-millennium families--such as our tendency to be consumer-driven and overscheduled. "When parents learn what their children really need, they are less motivated to create money to acquire things and more motivated to create time to enjoy their family," Gray writes. "The greatest wealth for a parent today is time." --Gail Hudson

Book Description

This brilliantly original and practical system for parenting children is the brainchild of John Gray, whose Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus books and seminars have helped millions of adults communicate more effectively and lovingly with each other. Based on this idea that children respond better to positive rather than negative reinforcement, the Children Are from Heaven program concentrates on rewarding, not punishing, children and fostering their innate desire to please their parents.

Central to this approach are the five positive messages your children need to learn again and again:

It's okay to be different.
It's okay to make mistakes.
It's okay to express negative emotions.
It's okay to want more.
It's okay to say no, but remember Mom and Dad are the bosses.

Customer Reviews:

Great Insights.......2007-07-30

This author strikes to the core of positive parenting. Parents and grandparents, and anyone who works with children, should read it several times and use it as a reference.

I gave a copy to each of my adult children , all of whom are parents, and I have read it twice.

Gave my days as a stay at home mom of 3 some peace.......2007-07-25

I agree with some of the other reviews that the book was a little repetitve, but I did not mind. I have a 8, 4, & 2 yr old. They are all so different in what they need and what motivates them. This book really helped me to realize what each of them really needed to feel happy and loved. I never realized how much my oldest was NEEDING more affirmation and one on one time. He has always been the big helper and the one I could count on to help him self. In the book Dr. Gray talks about the age of when a child should still be, and feel like he is completely taken care of, and I was suprised. I may have been asking way too much of him. My son was exhibiting signs of ADHD and was eventually diagnosed. Implementing these positive messages I have been able to take him off of medication and I have such a wonderful relationship with him now that I feel will continue through out his teen years. This book reviews common, well intentioned lectures and plans that some of us parents come up with and what they may be doing- (the opposite of what you intented them for) I was most certainly guilty of it. The plans seem to really open up the kids and bring out an extra ounce of joy to their smile.
Obviously, I recommend it. Especially if your children may seem frustrated, distracted, and you think you have done everything the right way- read this book and give it another try. I hope that it will bring you this much peace. God bless.

Helpfull, but theres a better explanation........2005-08-14

This book is a great stepping stone for understanding. But considering the Occam's Razor Theory; "the simplest explanation is the best" I feel simply that understanding Maslow's Heirarchy of Needs is a better source to understanding your childrens needs, or anyones for that matter. Being that our primary purpose in life is to be successful leaders of service to others. By clearly understanding the role we are in, knowing what actions to be successful to DO, and implementing a system in the home to cover all 4 primary needs of our children, then we will automatically cover any areas of possible "temperement hinderings" in others. To achieve the above, I reccommend the Bible. The book by Hal Urban, available here at Amazon.com titled Lifes greatest lessons. 20 Things That Matter (to know the 8 things that sucessful people do). And refining revising and rennovating our habits to revolutionize the impact we have on society through this lost art called "A Family".
Confucius stated; "The strength of a nation derives from the integrity of the home" I say...Duh!!!

Good Ideas, Not Much Follow-Through.......2005-03-21

You can get the main ideas of this book by reading the back cover, the introduction, or even the table of contents. The rest of the book is very repetitive, with lots of fluff. It's unfortunate, because Gray's message about parenting is an excellent one, and very important in an age where too many parents are neglecting this important aspect.

Instead of this book, I recommend How to Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk by Faber and Mazlish. It is full of practical tips and exercises to help you communicate with your children in a way that is respectful, instructive, and helpful. It will help you build relationships with your children that will bring you all closer together, at the same time as it helps your children develop reliability, compassion, and initiative. It has transformed our family and I recommend it to everyone I know.

Hard to Read.......2005-02-14

Loved his other books but this was all over the place, hard to read, and to apply.

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Wonderful reading for children
Highly recommended!

A Handshake From Heaven
Carol Sbordon Bannon
Manufacturer: Beavers Pond Press
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Binding: Hardcover

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ASIN: 1592981534
Release Date: 2006-08-15

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A Handshake From Heaven illustrates for children how the Eucharist allows them to hold God's hand. It will teach them that receiving Communion strengthens their relationship with God, and through this Sacrament He opens the doorway into Heaven. Adults and children will find their love of the Eucharist deepening as they share this book together.

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Wonderful reading for children.......2007-05-15

I bought the book on line without ever having read it because I was looking for a book as a First Communion gift for my 8 year old son. I was so touched when I read it that I cried. The book is wonderfully illustrated but the whole concept of touching God through the Eucharist as a preliminary experience to joining God in Heaven was just beautifully done. Perhaps because I had a death in the family recently that this book touched me so much, but my son enjoyed it. I shared it with my son's teacher and she read it to the class. She liked it so much she plans to buy one and add it to their First Communion curriculum. Great Buy/Great Read!!!

Highly recommended!.......2006-10-20

A Handshake From Heaven is a children's book that explains with gorgeous pictures and easy-to-read text our connection to Jesus Christ during the acceptance of the Eucharist at our Church ceremony.

Most children have simple questions about God, Jesus Christ and the Eucharist. This book helps explain how we touch God every time we accept the Eucharist from our priest, pastor, or Eucharist minister. Michaelin Otis' beautifully drawn illustrations show how we can touch God every day by holding hands with someone we love or interacting with everything around us; including flowers, butterflies and puppies.

However, the primary message of the book is the Eucharist and how God opens the door to Heaven every time we experience the Eucharist. A well-written book that has a fantastic fit with first and second graders who are usually approaching their First Communion and need as many materials as they can get that explain the process of the Eucharist and what it really means to attend Mass and accept the body and blood of Jesus Christ.

Minimal text on each page makes this a great book for young readers to read on their own. Bannon also makes it clear that it is everyone's own choice to accept Jesus Christ and the Eucharist and the gift we are given when we experience this sacred moment.

Armchair Interviews says: Highly recommended for a young audience and even adults that are going through a Christian religious conversion.

A Butterfly for Brittany: A Children's Book About the Death of Another Child, from a Child's Point of View

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A tender book that opens the door for further discussion about death
Beautifully illustrated, captures the childs thoughts

A Butterfly for Brittany: A Children's Book About the Death of Another Child, from a Child's Point of View
Cristine Thomas
Manufacturer: Brittany's Books
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A beautifully written and illustrated childrens book of how children cope with the loss of another child to cancer. Ages 3-7 Join Megan as she helps her cousin Brittany on the day Brittany goes to heaven. Megan paints a pretty butterfly with beautiful wings, which Brittany will wear when the angels take her to heaven. An ideal book that opens the door for discussion about the death of a child.

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A tender book that opens the door for further discussion about death.......2006-07-19

A beautiful childrens picture book that touches on a subject many of us don't like to talk about, a child's death. This books is sensitive and original in its form. The message of hope, love, and faith helps the child who is reading it to understand that it is okay to feel the way they feel. This book helps to open the door for further discussion on this sensitive topic. The author approaches this subject through the eyes of a child, in language and illustrations that they can relate to. There is no other book like this that completely is focused on the child and their struggles with the death of another child.

Beautifully illustrated, captures the childs thoughts.......2006-06-07

This book helps children open up about the death of another child. The simple, yet effective way the author tells the story of Megan and how she helps her cousin Brittany on the day Brittany goes to heaven by painting butterfly wings for her to wear when the angels come, helps a child to grasp the actuality of death, and to feel that they contributed to their friend/siblings/relatives physical/spiritual journey, no matter how little a gesture. The illustrations are overflowing with emotion. This is the ideal book for anyone who knows a child that is grieving the loss of another child.

205 Questions Children Ask About God, Heaven and Angels: With Answers for Busy Parents from the Bible

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Biblically supported and wonderfully simple...
Doesn't attempt to give real answers

205 Questions Children Ask About God, Heaven and Angels: With Answers for Busy Parents from the Bible
David R. Veerman
Manufacturer: Testament
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Binding: Hardcover

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What does God want us to do? Why did God take Grandpa to heaven? What is evil? In this wonderful collection for curious little people--part of a series with over 500,000 copies sold--you will find straightforward, biblically-based answers to over two hundred actual questions children asked about God and His heavenly kingdom. Amusing illustrations imagine a child's view of how things might be, and then a concise and loving answer follows, along with a key scripture verse. This helpful guide for parents can eventually become a reference book for children to call their own--one that will reinforce the beliefs of their faith as they grow in it.

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Biblically supported and wonderfully simple..........2007-05-08

I respectfully disagree with the previous reviewer. A life of faith means living according to God's word. To be a Christian means to accept Christ as the one True Savior. The Bible is God's word, and we need know nothing more or nothing less than is in it. Those seeking a more academic bent will not be satisfied with this book because it adheres strictly to Scripture in giving its answer. God Himself tells us to seek Him as children, and the answers given in this book respectfully and beautifully follow that mandate. Things of faith simply can't (and shouldn't) fall into academic frameworks, aside from learning Bible history or the particulars of the events and/or people presented in it.

The previous reviewer mentioned that many of the answers seemed to stem from the same idea: "God is infallible." Therein lies the answer. God IS infallible, and thus should be trusted even beyond our human capacity to trust. I believe it is incredibly important for children to know this, above all, if they are to live lives rich in faith. Believing in God means completely trusting that His word is the ONLY word. This book does a beautiful job of reminding children (and adults, too!) that God is constant, faithful, and unchanging, and so is His word.

Doesn't attempt to give real answers.......2003-12-30

This book won't suffice to answer the questions of a truly inquisitive, curious child. It's full of circular reasoning. One of the questions is essentially "How do we know that what the Bible says is true?" The answer, of course, is that it is God's Word. Q.E.D. And how do we know it's God's Word? Bible citations. Another quibble: It neatly skips around the issue of nonbelievers going to hell by saying that only Christians will go to heaven, so wouldn't it be a good idea to tell all your friends and neighbors about Jesus now?--implying, but not willing to put it down on paper, that your kid's Jewish best friend or agnostic Aunt Martha are headed for eternal hellfire. You'll be in trouble if your kid takes the conversation in that direction and you're relying on this book to help you "explain" things!

The essential answer to *all* the questions in this book is "because God is infallible." That's fine for some people, but, as I said, it won't satisfy a child for whom these questions are more than idle curiosity. I don't expect such a book to give scientific or non-Christian answers, but I didn't see much discussion of *faith* at all. That, to me, would have been a much better answer to many of these questions, and would be of such greater value to a developing child than, essentially, "because I said so." Who needs a book to tell them how to give that answer?

Note: Catholics will want to stay away from this book--it is of an evangelical cast and I noticed at least one question/answer which contradicts Catholic doctrine.

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Poetic Vision of Renewed Jewish Secularism

Like Amos and Zohar, Jews will read it centuries from now.

From Jerusalem to the Edge of Heaven: Meditations on the Soul of Israel
Ari Elon
Manufacturer: Jewish Publication Society of America
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Binding: Hardcover

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ASIN: 0827605250

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Poetic Vision of Renewed Jewish Secularism.......2002-12-16

Ari Elon advocates a kind of Jewish pluralism, where being Jewish includes a cultural and ethical heritage but does not necessarily mean accepting rabbinic Judaism as a religion. He celebrates the Torah, and particularly the aggadic portions of the Babylonian Talmud, as a source of creativity and inspiration for secular and religious alike and hopes, through his teaching, to bring it to a wider audience. In Elon's view, only free-thinking Jews, grounded in but not controlled by their traditions, can have the creativity to be their own gods, to find uniquely Jewish solutions to the problems that beset Israel and Jewish culture more generally.

"From Jerusalem to the Edge of Heaven" is not so much an attempt to persuade anyone that Elon is correct, as it is an attempt to persuade that such a thing is possible and to provide a vision of what a free-thinking Jewish creativity might look like. The beginning and end of the book are a pastiche of autobiographical sketches, speeches given by Elon while teaching Talmud to secular Israelis, and Elon's imaginative diary of reserve duty in Gaza. These sections (some of which are more successful than others) provide context for the book's longest section, an extended fantasia, based on Talmudic stories, on what it means to live a life of learning and creativity. This seems to me an utterly original and mostly convincing understanding of the sages of the Talmud, with modern implications that are only hinted at in Elon's brief book.

Elon assumes some basic familiarity with Zionist leaders and ideas and with Talmudic aggadah, but he is writing for educated lay people, not scholars. His argument is mostly easy to follow, although I found it repetitive in a few spots. The style is poetic and idiosyncratic, but easy to read once you get into it. Recommended to anyone with an interest in secular alternatives that preserve tradition without becoming enslaved by it.

Like Amos and Zohar, Jews will read it centuries from now........1997-03-18

The book takes the form of dream-like midrash, mostly on the Talmud,but also on Elon's experience in the Israeli army AND in the Israeli peace movement. Call it mystical realism. Such a book appears only once every few hundred years, in a generation of deep Jewish upheaval, like the mystical Zohar and the Prophet Amos. Jews will be reading it hundreds of years from no

Fire from Heaven: Deceiving the Enemy (Left Behind: The Kids)

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Enlightening!
Left Behind 16 is way ahead of the times
Left Behind >The Kids < #16, Fire from Heaven
The Surprises Aren't Stopping!!!
Adult Reads Kids Series

Fire from Heaven: Deceiving the Enemy (Left Behind: The Kids)
Jerry B. Jenkins , Tim F. LaHaye , and Chris Fabry
Manufacturer: Tyndale House Publishers
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Binding: Mass Market Paperback

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ASIN: 0842342974

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With millions of copies sold, Left Behind: The Kids series is a favorite of kids age 10-14. The series follows teens that were "left behind," who have nothing left but their newfound faith in Jesus Christ. Determined to stand up for God no matter the cost, they are tested at every turn. Books #15 and #16 have background plots from the fourth book in the adult series, Soul Harvest.

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Enlightening!.......2004-01-01

This book is very enlightening and will teach you more about Christianity, God, and what is to come. Believe me, you do not want to be here...this series will tell you all about what is to come in a fictional way. It is a book that all preteens and teenagers should read. If you are 10-14, than I will say that this is a MUST read. I can relate to the characters sometimes. It is a very good book and a very good series! The rapture is not fictitious. It is going to happen. In fact, the moon the moon will turn as blood and all but a third of the sun will be darkened before God comes back for his chosen people. Do not be afraid of this judgment or of the Rapture. If you are a Christian, then you will surely not be here when the rapture happens. This book can tell you more than I can. You will learn more than you did know about the end times! That is a guarantee! I have learned A LOT more about the end times from these books! I have really enjoyed these books! Buy this book and all the others in the series and anything you can get your hands on to learn about the Rapture, the Tribulation, and the Great Tribulation. This is definitely a subject that you should have knowledge of. Take it from me-the Tribulation is NOT going to be fun. Please buy this book and tell others about it. You might also want to visit www.leftbehind.com.

Left Behind 16 is way ahead of the times.......2003-09-30

This book is great. The thing I like most about Left Behind 16 is that it is so full of action. I'm surprised at many things that happen in this book. There are chases, escapes, and mysteries. One character that I can relate to is Judd Thompson; he is like me in a lot of ways. He's kind of bull-headed like me and he does some things without thinking. The most interesting part about this book is that it's about the end of the world and lots of strange things are happening. One is the government doesn't have very many religious freedoms and these kids are hiding from the government, which brings a lot of action packed events. There are also struggles within the group, which may remind you of your own family's struggles, but the kids try to get along. Tensions are always high in this book, that's for sure.

Left Behind >The Kids < #16, Fire from Heaven.......2001-11-19

"Threatened by a huge meteor, John must make a life-threatening decision aboard the Global Community ship Peacekeeper One. With the danger increasing, the kids near Chicago must assume new identites. Judd and Vicki ae at odds over the group's next move. Will the kids stay together?"
If you thought that the other books in this series were great, this one is a must have. It gets you on edge until the end, and leaves you craving for book 17, Terror in the Stadium. ^^ This is a great book.

The Surprises Aren't Stopping!!!.......2001-10-22

I've been reading Left Behind: The Kids series since the very first one came out and my grandmother bought it for me. Each book goes into more detail and depth about the 4 kids left behind after the Rapture of God. Book #16 has left me unable to wait for more. Not knowing if the 3 children left from the original Young Tribe Force will make it through another day alive. If you haven't read The Left Behind series you should start know and get caught up by the time book #17 comes out because you also will be wanting more. If I keep telling you anymore about the book I will definitely spoil the adventures the Young Tribe Force faces in book #16

The most amazing part of the book is how is keeps you on edge till the end, and still keeps you craving for more. This series of books has shown me why my decision in Christ will save me from the terrible and adventurous situations many people will experience after being Left Behind. Vicki, Judd, and Lionel learn more than ever in book #16 and must keep their heads on straight for the many dangerous situations they are going to have thrown at them. These books are truly uplifting and exciting and ready for any reader to open up and join in on the adventure. The adventures of these kids' lives are only at the second turning part and they are forced to make many life changing choices. Left Behind: The Kids #16 will never let you forget it, so purchase it today and join the fun!

Adult Reads Kids Series.......2001-05-31

Book number 14 keeps you on the edge of you seat. I could not put it down until I was done. These kids are more knowledgeable than most adults are about the Bible and how to use the Bible to resolve the problems that they get into. I have read the series as a companion to the main series. It gives insight of how kids react to desperate situations. It gives a difference perspective on the events that are unfolding in the main series and how they interact with the major characters. I recommend these books to anyone that like to read and gain an insight into their own personal relationship with their religious beliefs. Where are numbers 15-100? I'm ready.

Between Heaven and Earth: Bird Tales from Around the World

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Delightful and Diverse Bird Tales from Afar

Between Heaven and Earth: Bird Tales from Around the World
Howard Norman
Manufacturer: Gulliver Books
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ASIN: 0152019820

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For centuries birds and their magnificent ability to fly have inspired tales of mischief, mystery, and enchantment. In a collection that is as beautiful as it is timeless, award-winning author Howard Norman and Caldecott medalists Leo and Diane Dillon offer five bird stories from around the world--including one about an elusive bird that sings like a warthog and another about a much loved quail dying of thirst.

This glorious collaboration is the perfect gift for any family library, a book that children and parents alike will treasure.

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Delightful and Diverse Bird Tales from Afar.......2004-10-03

One bird tale each from the diverse countries of Australia, Norway, Sri Lanka, Zimbabwe, and China is retold in this lovely collection. All of them are beautifully illustrated by Caldecott medalists Leo and Diane Dillon. The stylized art work has the feel of stain glass, with heavy outlines framing various shaped colored pieces and their complimentary shades and tones. Many of the pictures are full page size enhancing the effect of these highly ornate visuals. In all cases the illustrations match the action and mood of the story and help to reveal the personalities of the characters involved.

A wide range of human feelings and attributes are portrayed in these stories. In "The Disobedient Pelican Daughter," a story from Sri Lanka, we encounter the curious, bold and disobedient daughter of Goolayyahlee pelican. In the Norwegian tale "The Troll and the Scarf Made of Crows" we meet clever Olav who outwits the mischievous troll by using his knowledge of the habits of the familiar crows. "The Beautiful Quail" is a melancholy tale which takes place during a time of extreme drought in Sri Lanka. In a moving show of sympathy other creatures, recognizing that a world without quail would be keenly lacking, forsake their own needs to come to the aid of beautiful quail as she tries to lay her eggs under duress. "The Bird Who Sang Like a Warthog" comes from the African country of Matabeleland. Kumala, a good man, but a braggart and prone to jealousy, and Sibanda, a blind man with much insight are the main characters. Sibanda has a remarkable gift of being able to identify animals, especially birds, by their voices. Kumala is jealous, so much so that he tricks Sibanda and lies to him. The taunting cries of the birds-"liar, liar, liar...." drive Kumala insane. Kumala's recovery process and his wonderful symbolic gesture of atonement bring the story full circle as he rejoins his village. The last tale in the book, "The Swan-Scholar's Great Secret" is set in China at the foot of the Dragon Gorge Mountain. It tells the secret of the swan-ancestors of the people in the village of P'o-lo, and the unending love of family.

How the book came into being is an interesting story. Participants from eleven countries talking together at the International Folklore Workshop in 1989 and 1990 at the University of Maryland in College Park spoke of their profound homesickness for their birth countries. Folk stories were shared first in their native tongue and then in English and a decision was made to craft a book. A three and a half page afterword in the collection discusses how the idea progressed to reality and shows how deeply the participants felt during the process.

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