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2002 Gold Medallion Award winner!
With so much confusion about the role of men in our society, it's no wonder so many parents and teachers are at a loss about how to bring up boys. Our culture has vilified masculinity and, as a result, boys are suffering. Parents, teachers, and others involved in shaping the character of boys have many questions. In Bringing Up Boys, Dr. James Dobson, America's most trusted authority on family issues, tackles these questions and offers advice and encouragement based on a firm foundation of biblical principles. Bringing Up Boys--a must-read book for parents, teachers, social workers, youth leaders, counselors--anyone involved in the challenge of turning boys into good men.
The audio book is read by Wayne Shepard and punctuated by original music.
Customer Reviews:
Every mother should read.......2007-10-16
What knowledge and insight Dr. Dobson shares with us through this book. All moms should read it whether they have been blessed with girls, boys or both!
A must read for parents, grandparents, and childcare providers!.......2007-10-13
This is one of the top books ever on raising children! The solid advice, backed up by credible references makes it on of the most inspirational books to read and re-read as a parent. If everyone in the USA read this book it would be a much more solid, strong nation.
Horrid, hateful, christian right propaganda.......2007-09-26
This is the most hateful, senseless and just plain silly book I've had the displeasure to skim.
If you are a member of the christian right, agree with anything republican, regularly beat some sense into your kids. Then maybe you'll like this book. Most of it makes baseless senseless statements without a shred of evidence. Its really Dodson's opinion spouted as fact. And most of that is very much in line with the republican, conservative political propaganda.
I'm scared of the people I know who like this book and what they regularly do to their boys.
Unfortunately only the "conservatives" get away with this type of abusive behavior. Look at the priest scandal, Mark Foley, Senator Craig, Ted Haggard.
Must Read!.......2007-08-27
Dobson does a great job at explaining the inherent differences between boys and girls. I expect the book will be especially helpful for moms who grew up with all sisters and haven't been around little boys at all. The book additionally goes a long way toward dispelling so many PC myths in society about boys and masculinity.
Very disappointed.......2007-08-09
I am about to adopt 2 boys and a neighbor said that I just HAD to read this book. I have been reading a number of books that have given clear and positive advice and opinions, this book was not one of those books. I sat down with my highlighter ready to mark interesting passages and quickly realized that there were none. I feel that this book is more about the author's views on the state of the "traditional" family, feminism and homosexuality than the unique challenges of raising a boy.
Book Description
THERE'S MORE TO TEACHING YOUR KIDS ABOUT SEX THAN A NERVOUS DISCUSSION OF THE BIRDS AND THE BEES.
Our children are inundated with messages and information about sex. Everywhere they turn-in our neighborhoods, in the schools, in the media-they are bombarded with discussions, stories, jokes, mixed messages, and debate about sexuality. How can parents have a significant input amid such a din-much of which seems beyond their control?
Stan and Brenna Jones suggest that sex education is really not so much a matter of providing information as it is a matter of deliberate character formation. How our children act in this critical area will not be affected by how much information they have stored away. It won't even be primarily affected by the Bible verses they have memorized, or the warnings we give them. First and foremost, their behavior will be determined by their character. What our children do will be determined by who they are at that particular moment in time.
How and When to Tell Your Kids About Sex will help you to move beyond the "sweaty palms and lump-in-the-throat" approach to discussing sex with your kids. It will give you the tools you need for building the kind of Christian character in your kids that will enable them to stand on their own and make the right choices.
Customer Reviews:
Telling your kids about a most sensitive subject.......2006-11-23
The Jones take the issue of sex and explain why it is important to cover this with our children. As a dad with three daughters, I have to admit how difficult it is to talk to them about this, but I want to be the one who does and not the media, their friends, or ??? It's not necessarily a book you have to read, one step at a time, but the chapters are fairly well labeled, so you can feel free to skip around and read the chapters that are most pertinent to your situation. The approach they take is conservative, and they sometimes give several possibilities regarding issues that are not just black and white. Overall, I recommend all Christian parents read this and at least entertain the ideas given. Whatever method is chosen, the most important thing we can do is something rather than nothing at all.
Finally, a book that teaches sex based on the Bible!.......2002-07-15
I have been looking for help on how to raise my 2 very young children knowing that sex is wonderful when it comes at the right time. RIGHT being the operative word. I found the scriptural references to be solid in their interpretation, and their knowledge about how sex fits in earthly life to be just what we parents need. They suggest teaching children about their sexuality as early as possible so as to avoid embarrasing "talks" that come when it's too late (Most kids learn about sex in school before they learn from their parents). I especially liked their assertations that any kind of sexual activity that deviates from what God has set forth is wrong. IE: homosexuality, sex before marriage, etc. Every type of Christian, Jew or other religious person would be well advised to use this book in teaching their children how their bodies are sacred, special, and sexual.
Book Description
Elisabeth Elliot is one of the most loved and respected communicators of present-day Christianity. In this repackaged edition of The Shaping of a Christian Family, Elliot tells the story of her childhood to share valuable insights on raising godly children. She talks candidly on parental expectations, emphasizes daily Bible reading and prayer, and shows the benefits of practicing such scriptural principles as trust, discipline, courtesy, and teaching by example. Complete with eight pages of treasured Elliot family photos, The Shaping of a Christian Family is a wonderful book of ideas and inspiration for new parents, experienced parents, and all who have come to trust Elliot's wisdom.
Customer Reviews:
If you tend to struggle with Elisabeth Elliot, try this book.......2007-05-25
Even many committed Christians seem to sometimes struggle with Elisabeth Elliot, whose writings, though chock full of much truth and wisdom, often come across as rather harsh and dogmatic.
This book, however, is a refreshing look at the family in which Elliot herself was raised. It is written largely as a memoir of the simple, day-to-day life of the Howard family (Elliot's maiden name.) The author draws heavily from her mother's recorded memories, which in the beginning, seem a little disjointed. I found myself skimming the early chapters a fair bit, but the book is worth a little perseverence.
As the story of Mr. and Mrs. Howard's marriage and early family life unfolds, it is rich with precious gems of wisdom. I was touched by so many of the little vignettes of ordinary life depicted, and inspired to implement many small changes in my own family life.
All the while, Elliot is careful to portray her family as very 'real,' and emphasizes that her story is only one family's story and not some legalistic grid to follow. 'The Shaping of a Christian Family' is a beautiful tribute to her parents, whose daily commitment to faith, family and discipline is a true picture of the delayed gratification of parenting. Many families, including my own, can benefit from the Howard's example.
Meaty but not quite what I expected........2006-01-08
This book is full of some important jewels, but reaches them in a different way than I expected. It is written as a memoir by Elisabeth, including many portions of memoir by her mother as well. It is an interesting addition to the autobiographical history of many of her other works. Along the way are many reflections of the way her faith and family environment shaped her spiritual growth and the decisions she made. It is not a textbook on how to arrange one's family, nor a text on raising children. Although when I read this book the first time, this was the angle I was looking for, I'm grateful now that it was not directive, but rather illustrative of how one family who was fully devoted to Christ worked. I'm frustrated by the current Christian "literature" that implies there is a very narrow cultural way to have a "Christian family." The only narrow part should be the continuous focus on Christ! This book articulates that challenge well.
Book Description
Author William Beausay believes it is possible to turn normal boys into exceptional adults who are anything but average. Boys! encourages parents to raise sons who are truly winners in life.
In this expanded and revised edition, Beausay takes a hard look at some of the issues facing parents today, including raising boys solo, attention deficit hyperactive disorder, smart discipline, handling bullies, and much more. With down-to-earth wisdom and practical suggestions, Beausay equips parents to deal with the tough issues that their sons will encounter on their journey to manhood.
Customer Reviews:
Very Helpful Manual for Boys Only.......2004-03-22
I found this book to be helpful and insightful. After a slow start, Mr. Beausay gives practical advice in recognizing the changes that boys are going through and there inability to express how they feel at a given moment. I found the chapters directed to encouraging them most helpful. I highly recommend this work.
Very informative, Made us realize the importance of our task.......2001-06-28
This book is a "must read" for parents of boys. My mother in law bought this book for herself and for me. She has already raised 3 boys so some of this she must have known already She and my father in law raised a boy-my husband into a man that has some great qualities and is very unique in his own way. This book tells you how to treat a boy and helps a new mother and father understand the importance of their task to raise a son into a strong, but sensitive caring man. I want all my friends with boys to read this.
Book Description
What is postmodernism? Is it good or bad? Does it have anything to do with being an effective, godly parent? With sensitivity, grace, and a passion to help families experience authentic, life–changing relationships with God, Mary DeMuth describes the new way people are processing truth. She reveals effective ways for parents to communicate with today’s kids: by developing relationships, by learning along with their kids, by creating a safe haven for kids to explore their worlds, and more.
Parents will discover how to...
- communicate the gospel effectively to their own children, who may process truth in a new way
- equip their children (and themselves!) to relate successfully with others and avoid isolating themselves from those who need Christ
- lead their families even when they don’t have all the answers
This unique resource offers everyday moms and dads an engaging introduction into the postmodern world and provides the tools they need to relate to it with confidence and faith.
Customer Reviews:
Authentic Encouragement in Better Parenting.......2007-08-20
My title for this review could be a good alternate title for Mary DeMuth's latest book. This book is not about teaching our kids to be postmoderns, it is about parenting in a way that is really "real" in an age where culture actively battles us. As Christians we are called to be a peculiar people, and we need to hold to our identity in Christ. However, this doesn't mean we don't use different tools in different times.
Mary's writing style is very easy to read. She writes with lots of personal experience, stories on "how not to do it", and feedback/insight from others. It doesn't take long to read, but it takes more time to digest and put into practice what she is sharing.
This is not a book of simple "how to" with easy lists to follow. It speaks more into wider issues of the heart of the parent and the child, although there are practical points of application that are encouraged through the stories. She is not out to fix certain discipline problems or give us 7 steps to the perfect child. She brings us into a conversation on how to be Jesus to our children.
For anyone confused over the idea of "what is postmodern?", she does lead in with an introduction of what that is and why it matters as a Christian parent. I would have liked a little more detail in this area, but that may be due to me being strongly interested in philosophy and worldview issues. This is not a criticism, as it is probably plenty for the average reader.
I haven't worried about reading a lot of parenting books lately, but I am really glad I had the opportunity to read this book. It has affected my parenting (3 boys, thank you very much) already. I highly recommend it.
A great read.......2007-08-20
I recently finished reading Mary DeMuth's "Authentic Parenting in a
Postmodern Culture". I found it to be a heartfelt, well written, relevant
book with great wisdom for parents. As a mom of a teen, a tween and a
kindergartner, I was encouraged to raise my children in such a way that they will be prepared to face the culture in which we live.
I have already used several of Mary's ideas in dealing with my three. This week I had a conflict with my oldest regarding the way she treated another person. I later realized that her behavior was not too different from my own in many cases, and approached her with an apology and a goal for both of us to do better. "Authentic Parenting" reminded me to be real with my children and to avoid trying to give them the impression that I am perfect. Instead, we share the joy of seeking to be more like Christ every day.
Practical Guidance In A Confusing World.......2007-08-14
It's one of the greatest fears every Christian parent has: that their children will one day rebel, make life-damaging choices, and sway from Christ. No Christian parent can honestly claim the thought hasn't plagued them, especially in today's sensual, post-modern, and amoral world.
The problem is, many young parents are dealing with so many spiritual issues themselves, the added burden of "training a child in the way he should go" is like the proverbial straw that broke the camel's back. Today's generation of parents primarily come from an era in which their faith was dictated to them, rather than modeled, explained, taught, and passed on, so they feel a bit lost and confused themselves as they face a new generation of youth who have been primed from birth to question, test, and push the boundaries of authority.
Authentic Parenting in A Postmodern Culture, by Mary DeMuth, is an excellent devotional speaking to the issue of navigating the confusing waters of Christian parenting in a postmodern world. Don't let the "postmodern" in the title scare you off; this is a guide for finding new, relevant ways to teach unchangeable, bedrock Biblical values to our children in perhaps one of the most turbulent of all ages.
Using plain, practical language, DeMuth proposes all the same core, essential truths of the gospel we've all been taught, but along the way she highlights many different types of parenting, modeling, and relational practices that can better help parents not only pass on these values, but help root them firmly in their children's lives.
One of the highest points of the devotional is its strong emphasis on parents building a relationship with their children, and modeling the Christian walk through this, rather than browbeating lectures and force-fed Bible reading. It certainly plays to the "more is caught than taught" rule; because our children watch and model every single thing we do and say; so not only do our actions prove our instruction false if they're contrary, what better way to foster a belief in our children of a loving God that desires a relationship with them, than modeling that relationship as they grow up?
just what I needed.......2007-08-08
This is the first of Mary's books I've read, and I immediately fell in love with her transparency and engaging writing style. My daughters are six, five and one. With the older two heading off to public school in a couple weeks, I was looking for advice and encouragement about being "in the world but not of the world."
The book really resonated with me--spoke straight to my mama heart. I want my girls to engage the culture around them while being uncompromising in their love and passion for Jesus Christ. This book "hit the spot."
Thanks, Mary, for this great resource. I'll refer to it again and again!
BOOK REVIEW: "Authentic Parenting in a Postmodern Culture" by Mary E DeMuth.......2007-08-02
" You yourselves are our letter, written on our hearts, known and read by everybody. You show that you are a letter from Christ, the result of our ministry, written not with ink but with the Spirit of the living God, not on tablets of stone but on tablets of human hearts." 2 Corinthians 3:2-3
As the mother of 5 very unique individuals, I am constantly reminding myself that although parenting IS indeed a ministry that God has called me to, HE alone is the one faithfully creating and producing the results in my children's lives!
Using Paul, the writer's, analogy...our children are truly a letter from Christ himself, written by his Spirit on their hearts.
These thoughts reach the very ESSENCE of Mary DeMuth's latest parenting book, "Authentic Parenting in a Postmodern Culture". It could easily have been called Authentic Parenting in Today's Culture, as well. Unfortunately, not many Christians- myself included- have fully realized it yet, but our culture is in the midst of a huge paradigm shift in thought and principles. This cultural shift was titled at some point by "the powers that be"-- postmodernism.
Hold on now, and don't let that big "educated" sounding word scare you off! Though Mary is kind enough to give a very brief explanation and overview of just what postmodern means for those of us who really might not know, her main goal is to encourage us to be AUTHENTIC Christian parents, regardless of what society may bring.
The truth is that many of us can feel the change going on around us, but just haven't put our fingers on it yet.
In "Authentic Parenting...", Mary is sharing a vital and beautiful message that God has given to her. It came through the experiences that she, her husband, and children encountered while living in the south of France, a country where the influences of postmodernism are already the norm.
Mary shares insight that brings us to the heart of "Christ-like" parenting. She addresses the important issues of truth, honesty, community, refuge, encouragement, grace, forgiveness, purpose and selfish abandon, as we nurture our children and lead them through the example of our own journey with Christ!
"Gulp", some of you say...me included!!--but, NO that doesn't mean you have to do the impossible--be perfect Christians first!
Rather, Mary encourages us to model walking with Christ for our kids in a realistic way--we seek, we stumble, we may even fall on our faces, then we get back up again, and continue on, allowing him to write with his Spirit in our own lives along the way. She also takes the time to teach us, with tangible methods, how to prepare our kids for the future by leaving them with "three foundational truths: community, the kingdom of God, and gratitude."
Having two of our five children in the throes of their first few years of early adult life just now, my husband and I were keenly interested in what Mary had written on the subject. After reading "Authentic Parenting..." we can clearly see the importance of them being prepared for, rather than protected from, the culture they're immersed in. We came to agree with each other, that her message is crucially in order!!
It is not too late for us as parents with young adults to benefit from this book, neither is it too early for those who are freshly initiated to the world of parenting either! In fact, I think this is a fresh message for anyone seeking to have a godly influence on today's youth.
Book Description
Elisabeth Elliot, whose courage and faith have helped so many to follow Christ, is one of the most loved and respected Christian communicators of our time. In this book, she offers useful insights on the shaping of a Christian home and family.
Christian parents have a responsibility to raise their children using scriptural principles. Using examples from her own childhood, the author shows how to do that in terms of trust, discipline, courtesy, and teaching by example. Parents seeking guidance for raising godly children will appreciate Elliot's emphasis on:
€ daily Bible reading and prayer
€ clear instructions on parental expectations
€ seeking instruction in Scripture and applying these to questions asked and answers given
€ benefiting from the model of a Godly and happy home
New parents, experienced parents, and all who have come to trust Elliot's wisdom will find this book a wonderful resource of ideas and inspiration. Eight pages of black and white family photos are included.
This book was previously published by Thomas Nelson.
Customer Reviews:
This book is a blessing!.......2002-08-13
this book was such an inspiration to me as a Christian mom. i have always appreciated Elisabeth Elliot's words and admonitions in her books and tapes. this book is probably my favorite of all of her books. i still have pages of this book turned down so that i can find a favorite passage quickly!
Insights into the Blessing of a Christian home.......2000-08-16
Elisabeth Elliot's biography of the family she was raised in is a privilege to read. She includes many diary excerpts and personal letters to tell the story of her parents and grandparents, but this is more than just biography. It is the story of God's workings in the lives of a few of His faithful servants and the fruits of their labor. Elliot tells practical stories of child-rearing (such as how her mother taught Elliot's brother as a toddler the meaning of obedience), as well as practical life lessons such as waiting on God's will regarding finding a spouse and whether to be a missionary or not. It is a wonderful story told with humor and genuineness, but even more importantly, it inspires those of us who are parents towards the goal of creating a God-centered home and raising children to live their lives in integrity and moral uprightness. I read this book shortly after my first child was born, and I plan to re-read it at least every five years--there is so much that is helpful and encouraging to glean from it. Anyone who has read Elliot's other books will enjoy this tremendously, as it will help you to know her even better. There are wonderful family photos in the book, too. I highly recommend this book. All Christian parents should read it!
Wisdom and Common Sense.......2000-06-29
As a pediatrician I witness daily how lost parents are in the area of family and parenting. We are now in the second and third generation of parents who were themselves never parented. Many of them have no vision for their children beyond being healthy, happy and having a college education. For the most part the parents of today are completely unaware that there is anything of importance to be given to their children beyond their materialistic needs. Elisabeth Elliot's book gives such parents a glimpse into the past and shows what a family and parents can be. If nothing else it demonstrates how much has been lost. I encourage parents to read this book together and discuss its contents in relation to their own upbringing in addition to their own parenting. My hope is that they will take a hard look at their duty to their children and develop a well rounded vision for their family.
Excellent........1999-11-19
For those of us, who have never had the rare privilege in growing up in a godly home, this book is precious and insightful. As a father and husband, I gleaned much from this book.
Customer Reviews:
Solid, Sensible Parent Training from a Christian Perspective.......2006-09-13
Among the best materials from a Christian perspective. We use the video course (published by LifeWay) as one of our recurring parent training courses. The Atchinson's come from a Christian perspective but they draw a lot on the traditional, common sense model of parenting. For example, on the topic of integrity David tells a story of a boy fishing for bass with his dad. They catch a prize winning bass just 45 minutes before the start of the season. But the dad points out that they can't legally keep it. Understandably the boy protests, but in the end agrees and somewhat heavy hearted, they return the fish to the water, hoping they can catch him again. The boy grew up and they never caught another that big. But the boy never forgot that lesson and it went with him into manhood. How does Atchison know? Because he was the boy. Now as a successful architect that principle has guided him in business and in all of life.
The Atchinson's are themselves are the real thing. We have used the video curriculum published by LifeWay for several years and on it you can see the genuiness of David and Elaine as they interact with their own kids, who by the time of the video were young teens.
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