How to Handle Difficult Parents: A Teacher's Survival Guide
Average customer rating: 4.5 out of 5 stars
  • I want this author as my supervisor
  • Very helpful
  • Parent-Teacher Association as it really is
  • This is a great book for new teachers.....
  • Illuminating for both new teachers and veterans, alike
How to Handle Difficult Parents: A Teacher's Survival Guide
Suzanne Capek Tingley
Manufacturer: Cottonwood Press, Inc.
ProductGroup: Book
Binding: Paperback

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ASIN: 1877673722

Book Description

Be it "Pinocchio's Mom," who thinks her child never lies, the "Caped Crusader," who will stop at nothing to have a book eliminated from the curriculum, or the "Helicopter Mom," who hovers and swoops in to protect her child from disappointment, this humorous handbook helps educators deal with impossible parents. Each chapter features a hilarious caricature that illuminates common parent anxieties followed by specific, practical methods for addressing the problem. Easily implemented advice on face-to-face confrontations helps teachers approach each conflict with the confidence to get their point across and the composure to keep their professional principles intact.

Customer Reviews:

5 out of 5 stars I want this author as my supervisor.......2007-09-08

This delightful book has such useful analysis and ideas in it. It is easy reading, and the author's suggestions are easy to take.

Tingley is an educator who became an administrator, and she knows her problem parents. She first gives vignettes with the teacher saying what we would REALLY like to say. Then she rewinds the interaction, showing us much more effective things to say.

I appreciate Tingley's compassion for both us teachers and the parents. School has just started again this fall, and I am off to a MUCH better start with a girl in my home room whose "hovering" mom was ready to slug me last year.

5 out of 5 stars Very helpful.......2007-09-03

I found this book to be a really humorous way to help guide interactions with parents on a daily basis. I will absolutely be using advice from this book to help me with conferences this school year.

5 out of 5 stars Parent-Teacher Association as it really is.......2007-07-10

Tingley gives an excellent overview of how educational objectives have evolved from instilling self-esteem to achieving high scores on standardized tests and what a problem that has created in dealing with today's parents. She acknowledges the frustrations teachers feel and frequently complain about, then skillfully uses humor along with sound advice to get beyond the griping and deal with the problems unreasonable parents can present. The book would be very helpful as a basis for role playing sessions for teachers-in-training in order to master the skills of being in control, getting parents on their side and most importantly, handling themselves as professionals. Even veteran teachers could benefit from reflecting on the amusing, yet accurate parent stereotypes Tingley has captured through her years of experience.

5 out of 5 stars This is a great book for new teachers............2007-06-01

I bought this book for my daughter who is in her first year of teaching. When it arrived, I took a peek at the text, and probably read 1/2 the book before I even gave it too her! It is very easy, informative, reading. The former teacher who authored the book, has succinctly catergorized "parent types" and how each can be handled by the teacher when necessary. This survival guide's advice is excellent, and the points it makes are easily remembered by the reader. I think this will save my daughter lots of trial and error in her new career....(she really could have used it this year, with 29 students, and 58 parents to contend with!)

5 out of 5 stars Illuminating for both new teachers and veterans, alike.......2007-06-01

As a veteran teacher-librarian, I can say that I have probably met most of the types of parents that Suzanne Tingley highlights in her book. As a parent, I can say that I may have had tendencies toward a few of the actions described. What is remarkable about this book is the down to earth advice for teachers, young and old, in how to diffuse and handle situations that will most definitely occur in the school setting at one time or another. The different scenarios illustrated by the presence of Caped Crusaders, Helicopter Moms, or Uncivil Libertarians are ones in which we have all had a part. Mrs. Tingley has clearly thought about how differently those scenarios could be played out so that a teacher can maintain his or her principles while allowing the parent to retain his or her dignity as the problem is resolved. She does this with humor, but also with a great deal of insight and intelligence. In order for schools to be effective in educating students, teachers and parents must communicate reasonably and civily with each other. This book opens the door to such communication. I am glad the book was recommended to me and I recommend it to all teachers who seek well-reasoned advice or reinforcement in validating responses to difficult situations and parents.
Wrightslaw: From Emotions to Advocacy: The Special Education Survival Guide
Average customer rating: 4.5 out of 5 stars
  • A MUST read for all parents of children w/ a disability
  • Simply The Best!!!!!
  • If Read No Other Book, Read This One
  • Liked this one for sure.
  • From Emotions to Advocacy
Wrightslaw: From Emotions to Advocacy: The Special Education Survival Guide
Peter W. D. Wright , and Pamela Darr Wright
Manufacturer: Harbor House Law Press, Inc.
ProductGroup: Book
Binding: Paperback

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ASIN: 1892320096

Product Description

Wrightslaw: From Emotions to Advocacy, second edition will teach you how to plan, prepare, organize and get quality special education services. In this comprehensive, easy-to-read book, you will learn your childs disability and educational needs, how to create a simple method for organizing your childs file and devising a master plan for your childs special education. You will understand parent-school conflict, how to create paper trails and effective letter writing. This book includes dozens of worksheets, forms and sample letters that you can tailor to your needs. Whether you are new to special education or an experienced advocate this book will provide a clear roadmap to effective advocacy for your child. You will use this book again and again.

Customer Reviews:

5 out of 5 stars A MUST read for all parents of children w/ a disability.......2007-06-27

I wish I had read this 2 years ago!! This is a great resource for any and all parents who are fighting the special education maze. It gives great advice and practical strategies on how to approach team meeting and not let them railroad you. They also provide great tips on creating your own file on your child and how to effectively write letters. This is a must have for any parent with a child in special education.

5 out of 5 stars Simply The Best!!!!!.......2007-06-12

This book is easy to read, use and understand. It's compassionate, supportive and a must have for any parent dealing with the system.

5 out of 5 stars If Read No Other Book, Read This One.......2007-04-10

This book is by far the best I've read regarding Special Education law and how to successfully advocate for your child within the school system. It shows you how to level the playing field and become an equal and effective member of the IEP team. The commentary provided by the authors is invaluable and something you'd probably pay top dollar for if you had to hire your own attorney. We as parents can be effective advocates. "From Emotions to Advocacy" is the one tool in your box you can't do without.

5 out of 5 stars Liked this one for sure. .......2007-04-10

I didnt know anything about my rights for my daughter. Parents to play an active role in their childrens rights. This book will give you all you need and a lot more. If you need somewhere to start this is it.

5 out of 5 stars From Emotions to Advocacy.......2007-03-28

I've been involved in advocating for my special needs son for 14 years and this is the BEST book I've ever read on the subject. A real "how-to." I just walked away from an IEP meeting with MORE than I asked for and it all happened in less than an hour. I was SO prepared. In particular, the chapter on the Rule of Adverse Assumptions helped me prepare. Thanks to this book, I had the confidence and the information that allowed me to effectively go to bat for our son. I'm using FETA in a parent training class I'm conducting now and it's SO helpful. From Emotions to Advocacy is a real treasure and should be the bible for every parent of a special needs child.
The Survival Guide for Parents of Gifted Kids: How to Understand, Live and Stick up for your Gifted Child
Average customer rating: 4.5 out of 5 stars
  • Excellent resource for families and schools
  • Book's title is misleading
  • Seattle Mom
  • Happy I bought this book
  • Survival Guide
The Survival Guide for Parents of Gifted Kids: How to Understand, Live and Stick up for your Gifted Child
Sally Y. Walker
Manufacturer: Free Spirit Publishing, Inc.
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ASIN: 1575421119

Book Description

What does it mean to be "gifted"? What's good—and not so good—about being identified as gifted? How can parents make sure that their gifted children get the learning opportunities they need? And how can parents cope with the unique challenges gifted kids present?

Every parent of a gifted child has question like these. Since 1991, when we published the original edition of this guide, parents have looked here for answers. Now revised and updated with information about current research and legislation, new examples, new resources (including Web sites), and more, it's the first place to turn for facts, insights, strategies, and sound advice.

You'll learn what giftedness is (and isn't), what makes gifted kids so special, how kids are identified as gifted, and why some kids fall through the cracks during the identification process. You'll discover encouraging practical tips for living with your gifted child—and handling the endless questions, high energy, and too-smart mouth that often go along with giftedness. You'll find out how to keep from raising a "nerd," how to prevent perfectionism, and when to get help. And you'll learn how to advocate for your child's education at school and in your state.

Friendly, inviting, and fun to read, THE SURVIVAL GUIDE FOR PARENTS OF GIFTED KIDS is for any parent who has ever wondered.

Customer Reviews:

5 out of 5 stars Excellent resource for families and schools.......2007-05-22

There are many books on the topic of gifted and talented children as it relates to their education and needs. However, I found this book addressed the gifted child from many different aspects. It touched upon their academic and social-emotional needs. It provides parents with great insight into these children in terms of how they think, characteristics that are common and the dangers of mis-diagnosing gifted children with disorders such as ADHD. It is easy to read straight through but is also set up in such a way that a particular section of interest can stand alone. I had purchased this book for my own use and then purchased 7 more to present to our local Board of Education. Our district did not have a program for gifted and talented children on the elementary level. With this book in conjunction with other research a small group of parents and myself presented an entire packet to our Board of Ed. to make a case for this much needed program. We were successful. The program was added to our district's curriculum for next year. This book helped greatly to help us navigate and advocate for our children. Much recommended.

3 out of 5 stars Book's title is misleading.......2007-03-08

This book deals quite extensively with how to help your child if the school he/she goes to offers no gifted program or a pull-out program.

I didn't really find that any of the issues I deal with in my school district (which has gifted classes) or with my son (who seems to have some attention issues specifically related to his giftedness) were answered.

It does list other resources... Maybe those will be helpful.

5 out of 5 stars Seattle Mom.......2007-01-23

Would recommend this book to teachers, coaches, anyone working with children. Helps to recognize giftedness in children, understand and deal with them.

Having a gifted child, the book hit buttons on every page.

5 out of 5 stars Happy I bought this book.......2007-01-18

If you have been told that your child is gifted and you want to know what the gist of it is and want to start with reading one book before investing in every book out there, this is the book for you. I had a long list of books to order but decided to try just one first and it happened to be this one and I am so glad that it was. It gives a great general view of what to expect, what to do, and what to feel. It mentioned something that I felt when my daughters teacher told me that she "may grow up to discover the cure for cancer", and that is the guilt! Instead of feeling only proud, which I do, I felt as tho maybe the teacher thought I wasn't a good enough parent for such a smart child and that having such an ignorant parent could ruin her intellect! I felt a bit ashamed and thanks to this book I no longer do. I don't like and don't read self-help books and did not expect to read this book cover to cover, if at all, but it turned out to be a great asset and comfort to me.

5 out of 5 stars Survival Guide.......2007-01-17

This book is great. I have read many books on gifted children and this one is one of the best. Gifted kids are challenging and when you discover your child it gifted you think "now what". This book is very helpful.
The New Dad's Survival Guide: Man-to-Man Advice for First-Time Fathers
Average customer rating: 4.5 out of 5 stars
  • Worth the read... For the real dad to be... (moms to be can read too...)
  • Girls like it too.
  • Perfect For Dads to Be
  • FANTASTIC HELPER FOR DADS
  • Good satire and short on the new-age stuff. Perfect for guys.
The New Dad's Survival Guide: Man-to-Man Advice for First-Time Fathers
Scott Mactavish
Manufacturer: Little, Brown and Company
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ASIN: 0316159956

Customer Reviews:

5 out of 5 stars Worth the read... For the real dad to be... (moms to be can read too...).......2007-08-27

Firstly, ignore the TWO, yes TWO, negative reviews... There is always the couple of folks who "just don't get it." I picked this up a Baby's r US and thumbed through it while waiting to go on the "baby shower registration" escapade... I enjoyed the book so much, I bought it from Amazon.com. (only one copy at the store and it was beat up.)
The author talks writes in lingo that is not meant for the "wimpy" guy or the guy is so full of himself that he honestly believes that his stuff don't stink. This is written for the Football/Hockey watchin', beer drinkin', pool playin', laugh out loud kind of guy. The survival tips listed, both before and after the birth, were actually covered in our hospital's childbirth class... Reinforced actually, as I had already read them all here... This isn't an owners manual for your NFU (new family unit), but will show you some great (and some not so) things about to come your way.

5 out of 5 stars Girls like it too........2007-06-25

Guys aren't the only ones that like potty humor. I got this at my baby shower and read it out loud. We all laughed like hell, and there wasn't a drop of wine in the house! DH liked it too, BTW. ;-}

5 out of 5 stars Perfect For Dads to Be.......2007-03-19

I bought this for my husband. It is the first baby related material that I have seen him read willingly. He chuckles out loud and actually starts conversations with me about the material. Good info, put into words that a guy can relate too. The humor takes away some of that aprehension that a lot of new dads face.

5 out of 5 stars FANTASTIC HELPER FOR DADS.......2007-02-20

I've gone through a number of these types of books and this one is by far the best one out there. The author keeps it light, at the same time conveying what's really important to the new dad with honesty and a brutal sense of humor. It makes the new dad feel like he has some company in this new and alien experience of having kids. After reading it, I recommended it to all my buddies whoare in the same boat. It truly takes the edge off of first time fatherhood. Nice job!

5 out of 5 stars Good satire and short on the new-age stuff. Perfect for guys........2007-02-15

I got started late on the whole fatherhood thing. I retired from the USAF at 39 and had my first daughter shortly thereafter. I got this book and a few others from my girlfriend and this one is my kind of read. Nothing wrong with new-age books, but they just aren't for me. The humor is spot-on and clearly a jab at military lingo, which deserves jabbing. This is definitely not for the stiff-neck Frank Burns-types. Also, the definitions in the back are excellent. I knew nothing (and I mean nothing) about babies and now I've got a whole new vocabulary. One warning..if you're extra sensitive, don't buy it!
Yes, Your Parents Are Crazy!: A Teen Survival Guide
Average customer rating: 4.5 out of 5 stars
  • Geared more towards parents than teens
  • GET THIS BOOK FOR YOUR TEEN(S)!!!!
  • A first-rate help for teens and parents alike
Yes, Your Parents Are Crazy!: A Teen Survival Guide
Michael J. Bradley
Manufacturer: Harbor Press, Inc.
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Binding: Paperback

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ASIN: 093619748X

Book Description

In this new companion book to Yes, Your Teen Is Crazy!, teen psychologist Michael Bradley turns the tables, talking to teens about parents--why adults behave the way they do, how to handle their parents and other adults in life's confusing and difficult situations.

Customer Reviews:

4 out of 5 stars Geared more towards parents than teens.......2005-08-06

My son saw my copy of "Yes, Your Teen is Crazy" (which was an excellent book by the same author.) I thought this book would be geared more towards teens--as I planned on giving it to my son to read--to understand why parents act the way they do. However, it was not written for a teenager. It was very similar to the "...Teen is Crazy" book.

5 out of 5 stars GET THIS BOOK FOR YOUR TEEN(S)!!!!.......2005-02-16

I'm just about finished with this as well as Yes, Your Teen Is Crazy. Both great books. I wish I had had this one growing up, it would have helped me a lot to not feel so alone and to learn about being true to myself in terms of discovering my own identity. I highly recommend this book for ANY teen. Doc Mike talks in today's teen lanquage about their world now and how to face its many, many challenges. Just can't say enough.

5 out of 5 stars A first-rate help for teens and parents alike.......2004-10-30

In Yes, Your Parents Are Crazy!: A Teen Survival Guide, psychologist Michael Bradley draws upon his more than thirty years of experience and expertise to write this amazing sequel to his earlier book, Yes, Your Teen Is Crazy! Humorous cartoons add a lighthearted touch to the very solid advice, which has earned The National Parenting Center's Seal of Approval. Chapters deal with all sorts of issues touching aupon day-to-day life of parents and teens, from blended families to religion, internet issues, school attendance, abuse, and much more. Written in down-to-earth terms intended for and accessible to any teenager, In Yes, Your Parents Are Crazy! is a first-rate help for teens and parents alike.
The Co-Parenting Survival Guide: Letting Go of Conflict after a Difficult Divorce
Average customer rating: 5 out of 5 stars
  • A bit simplistic but a good help
  • A BOOK TO BE AVAILABLE ON DISPLAY IN EVERY LIBRARY
  • The book I wish I had written
  • 5 gift copies (and counting)
  • Trust this author with your children
The Co-Parenting Survival Guide: Letting Go of Conflict after a Difficult Divorce
Elizabeth Thayer Ph.D. , and Jeffrey Zimmerman Ph.D.
Manufacturer: New Harbinger Publications
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ASIN: 1572242450

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This book helps parents in the aftermath of divorce learn to sustain a healthy co-parenting relationship. “Conflict and Parenting” explores parental conflict and its effects on children, conflict resolution, and the importance of forging a co-parenting relationship. “Co-Parenting Guidelines” offers specifics for solving day-to-day problems, disciplining, and handling conflict during transitional times and special events.

Customer Reviews:

4 out of 5 stars A bit simplistic but a good help.......2007-04-25

The book was a bit simplistic, much of the same information was covered in the New Hampshire Mandatory co parenting class. But it was still some very good advice.

Nothing ground breaking here but it's a good collection of what you probably should know.

5 out of 5 stars A BOOK TO BE AVAILABLE ON DISPLAY IN EVERY LIBRARY.......2007-01-09

THE BOOK: THE CO-PARENTING SURVIVAL GUIDE: LETTING GO OF CONFLICT AFTER A DIFFICULT DIVORCE...
BY ELIZABETH THAYER, PH.D.
IN THIS ERA OF SPOILED BRATS (THE PARENTS), THIS BOOK WILL HELP WITH THE CONFLICTS OF TODAY!! WE ARE NOT LOOKING AT THE REAL MEANING OF TWO PEOPLE MAKING THE COMMITTMENT OF MARRIAGE!!! SOCIETY HAS PROGRESSED TO THE SIZE OF THE WEDDING, THE DREAM OF THE PERFECT WEDDING, NOT THE COMMITTMENT OF REALLY LOVING THE PERSON YOUR MARRYING. CONSEQUENTLY, PEOPLE MARRY AND HAVE CHILDREN, THEN WHEN THE STRAIN OF MAKING A MARRIAGE WORK BECOMES TOO HARD......THEN DIVORCE IS INEVITALBLE. THEN THE GAMES.... BEGIN, ONE OR BOTH PARENTS DECIDE THAT THEIR FORMER PARTNER IS NOT WHO THEY WANT THEIR CHILDREN AROUND.....SO, POISION THE CHILDREN'S MINDS AGAINST THE OTHER PARENT. THIS BOOK HELPS BOTH PARTIES REALIZE HOW TO WORK WITH THEIR OWN CONSCIENCE....AS WELL AS HELP MAKE THE CHILDREN AS COMFORTABLE WITH THE SITUATION (WHICH MUST BE FIRST IN THE PARENTS MINDS). DRAGING EACHOTHER THROUGH THE COURTS IS NOT THE ANSWER, COURTS JUST DEAL WITH WHICH SIDE AS MORE LEVERAGE, EVEN THE PSYCHOLOGISTS JUST PLAY WITH THE SITUATIONS. WE NEED MORE BOOKS LIKE THIS, AGAIN DISPLAYED IN EVERY LIBRARY IN THE UNITED STATES.

5 out of 5 stars The book I wish I had written.......2006-01-09

I am a play therapist, author of "The Successful Divorce, In The Eyes of the Child" course and have taught parenting divorced for nine years. This is the book that says it all. The authors teach in clear logical manner how to co parent your children. They are sensitive to the pain both parents and children feel post divorce and teach how to proceed in parenting. I frequently use sections of their book in teaching to remind parents that they must still work together enough to meet children's needs. This is a concise book, no long drawn out narratives or tales of others pain... just the facts and how to avoid the pitfalls. I and the children of divorce, owe these authors a huge thank you. Their new book is also great,

5 out of 5 stars 5 gift copies (and counting).......2005-08-04

when i divorced two years ago, reasonably contentiously and with a four year old daughter, the best advice i got was to read this book. i did, with highlighter in hand, and found it absolutely invaluable. i continue to this day to consider it absolutely invaluable! such that, i just ordered a gift copy for my brother and his new wife, to help them with my niece and her co-parent. that gift brings the total i've purchased for others up to five. its an unfortunate reality that there will probably be more in the future, but the book helps immensely and so there will be gifts.

5 out of 5 stars Trust this author with your children.......2005-04-13

I went through a high-conflict divorce in Connecticut in 2004, complete with restraining orders, police, and the whole 9 yards. As I saw the divorce approaching, I researched a great deal of divorce/parenting literature on my own, hoping to find a framework of something my (soon-to-be) ex and I could agree to work with, and I found this book. I read it and gave a copy to my ex. I also found an divorce/custody attorney who would focus on our children's interests, and his very first recommendation was to get this book and see Dr. Thayer in her practice jointly with my ex.
I'm grateful I had the expertise of Dr. Thayer to help me let go of conflicts I had with my ex. The guiding principle of the book and her joint practice (which is called The Peace Program) is to transform a personal, contentious relationship with an ex into a business-like relationship focused on the children's welfare. In a high-conflict divorce, this is a very difficult objective -- conflict can be blinding and all-consuming -- but it is possible, and the energy is of course better spent on the children. The book outlines suggestions to facilitate parenting business, such as a weekly parenting phone call (a business call) and a dozen Golden Parenting Rules. In the end, after the parents extinguish their fighting, the children get their parents back, and a good deal of their childhood back, because the parents choose to work together as co-parents. Through the 18 months I've been using this book, I find myself living in various chapters of it, depending on the evolution of my divorce. As the children get older, new issues arise, and the book remains on the top shelf of my bookshelf, where my most useful books reside.
The Ups and Downs of Raising a Bipolar Child: A Survival Guide for Parents
Average customer rating: 5 out of 5 stars
  • A Child Psychiatrist's Review
  • A sympathetic voice
  • This is the besk book in the whole, wide world!
  • One of the best books on Early Onset Bipolar Disorder
The Ups and Downs of Raising a Bipolar Child: A Survival Guide for Parents
Judith Lederman
Manufacturer: Fireside
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HELP IS HERE

Bipolar disorder has recently been identified as one of the most misunderstood and underdiagnosed conditions affecting children -- and it is dramatically on the rise. The Ups and Downs of Raising a Bipolar Child gives parents the sound advice and expert information they need to cope with this challenging diagnosis, and shows how to provide essential care and support for a bipolar child as well as for the rest of the family.

Customer Reviews:

5 out of 5 stars A Child Psychiatrist's Review.......2005-12-29

This book is a godsend for clinicians, bipolar children, and their families. It includes every important experience, concern, quest, and resource I have ever come across in my practice full of many bipolar children and their families.
The book is written in a compassionate style and knowing vantage point that only the author-mother of a bipolar child could achieve. The brief but pointed notes from the psychiatrist at the end of each chapter provide added expertise in an artful and humble way which I think parents can really appreciate. By so placing these comments, the message is clear: we psychiatrists often learn more from our patients than they do from us. Occasionally, we have something relevant to add.
I found each chapter not only incredibly true to life, but extremely informative. Especially useful are the web sites, names of organizations and support groups, and other recources which are usually obtainable only by laboriously researching a vast number of widely varying and often unrelated sources.
To top it all off, the last chapter discusses guardianships, trusts, and other methods of financially protecting bipolar children. These issues are seldom brought up in timely fashion, if at all, by clinicians. Further, families are often totally unaware of the options, and have no guidelines for even posing the necessary questions.
Since reading this book, I have recommended it to every parent of a bipolar child who has walked into my office. For some parents, reading this book has provided a diagnostic revelation, and hope for a future which had seemed hopelessly bleak.
The seal of authenticity offered by the author-parent, as well as by the testimony of the parents who responded to her surveys is the most convincing "selling point" of this book for parents who are otherwise tired of hearing quasi-expert opinions from professionals, family, and friends.
I have also recommended this book to my colleagues, most of whom treat only adult patients. I hope after reading this book, that they will listen with a different ear to their adult patients who describe the particular trials of parenting their children. Perhaps, rather than buying and reinforcing many a parent's guilt ridden self report that their own inconsistent parenting is the identifiable problem, informed clinicians will ask the probing questions which may uncover the real issues, and bring more undiagnosed bipolar children into much needed treatment.
Many thanks for this honest, wonderfully researched, and beautifully readable book.

5 out of 5 stars A sympathetic voice.......2005-09-06

I thought I was alone in dealing with my daughter's situation. Absolutely no one in my community understood what I was going through, and blamed me for her behavior. I feel more in control, now that I've read this book. The author shares stories from others who have endured experiences similar to my own. She describes the physical condition behind Biopolar disorder in laymen's terms. Then, she gives practical sugggestions for dealing with the situation. The book is a quick-read--something you will appreciate if you need to help yourself FAST.

5 out of 5 stars This is the besk book in the whole, wide world!.......2004-03-10

This book is extremely informative and helpful. I love the "notes from the couch" sections at the end of each chapter. No really good books had been written for parents before this. Thanks and conragulations to the authors (ESPCIALLY DR. CANDIDA FINK).

5 out of 5 stars One of the best books on Early Onset Bipolar Disorder.......2004-02-12

This is a must for any parent with a child with Early Onset Bipolar Disorder. I very rarely highlight a book but this one now has many pink markings and I have told my husband he must read this. There are very few books on Early Onset Bipolar Disorder and this is one of three that I strongly encourage you to read.
Many believe that BP stands for bad parenting, this book dispels this myth. If any child in your family has Early Onset Bipolar Disorder I would suggest reading this book and passing it onto all the family members!!
Potty Time for One, Two or Three! A Parent's Survival Guide for Potty Training One Child, Twins, or Triplets
Average customer rating: 5 out of 5 stars
  • Thank you so very much!
  • Terrific book from another mom of triplets plus newborn
  • Triple stars from this triplet mom!
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Potty Time for One, Two or Three! A Parent's Survival Guide for Potty Training One Child, Twins, or Triplets
Maria S. McCarthy
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ASIN: 0975584421

Book Description

This book has what you need! Quick guidelines, a suggested toolkit for getting started, cleanup tips, motivation tips, and caregiver tips, all to help you survive the toilet training process. This guide has straightforward, real life steps and examples from a Mom who potty trained her triplets at 2.5 years old, while caring for and nursing an infant.

This guide is for the parents or caregivers trying to potty train one, two, or three children at a time. I do not have real life experience on quads or more, but this guide might help! This is a quick and practical guide without a lot of theory or psychology.

Customer Reviews:

5 out of 5 stars Thank you so very much!.......2006-02-17

When I began looking for advice on training my son, I purchased a book that stated I could do it in one day. After reading this book, I decided that, although the theory behind the book was somewhat acceptable, some of the apparent mind sets were contrary to the way that my husband and I decided to raise our child. I have never been ashamed of my child because he was in diapers- he is two and half! I do not have multiple children, but this book helped me realize that my instincts (sp) are correct for my son. We chose this caring and loving method for helping our son. This experience was not filled with anxiety or fear for either of us! Thank you again!

5 out of 5 stars Terrific book from another mom of triplets plus newborn.......2006-01-27

Maria's advice is fantastic and to the point. As a mother of triplets (just 2 years old) and a newborn, facing potty training is scary. Maria's book showed me it is possible and gave me choices as to how I might approach it. I loved the schedule of her day at the end of the book. It seemed so similar to my own day! I'm now feeling up to the challenge thanks to simple, no nonsense advice.

I also have Maria's book about 101 Indoor Activities for Toddlers and Preschoolers. We are going to be making the Purple People Eater soon!

Maria, Thanks for taking the time to document things that worked for you!

5 out of 5 stars Triple stars from this triplet mom!.......2005-09-05

This book is awesome! It's very easy to read, easy to follow, etc. Has great, practical tips to talk you thru the whole nightmare of potty training multiples. It helped me see that potty training is a relaxed process and not something I needed to stress over. I have 2 done and one more to go... thanks to the author!

5 out of 5 stars Product review.......2005-01-04

This book is terrific. It's full of practical and creative ways to deal with potty training. I had a difficult experience with my first child - I wish this guide was available then.
The Single Mother's Survival Guide
Average customer rating: 4 out of 5 stars
  • Single parents, if ya need a lift today, read this!
  • It's a nice gift that will encourage single moms
  • Survival: Just What I Need Around Here!
  • I loved the book.....
  • Awesome!!
The Single Mother's Survival Guide
Patrice Karst
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Single moms haven't had many books to turn to in times of distress. Most parenting guides either moralize to her or ignore her altogether. Patrice Karst has righted that wrong with The Single Mother's Survival Guide. The book is obviously designed to console--and fast--the poor mom who has once again dragged the baby into the bathroom with her because she literally cannot get a moment alone. Flip open to any page and you'll find earthy bits of inspiration, with a consistently (but not sickeningly) positive slant on childcare, dating, and other facts of single-mom life. Karst never loses her tenacious hold on the realities of parenting: on her list of "Reasons to Be Happy About Being a Single Mom," the first one is "because it's happening." It's a treat to read a book so completely on the side of the mom. Karst rants against busybodies and smug marrieds: "The next person who says to you, 'Well, when you learn to be perfectly content and happy with yourself and aren't looking for a relationship--then you'll find one,' slap them for me, will ya?" So the advice isn't exactly revolutionary: love the kids, take a bath, ask for help. Still, this volume makes a fine companion piece (just ignore the workbook at the back) to the bible of single-parenting, Anne Lamott's Operating Instructions: A Journal of My Son's First Year. --Claire Dederer

Book Description

In this engaging journey of self-discovery, Patrice Karst, a single mother, shares her practical yet witty advice with single moms everywhere. She covers a wide range of topics that concern the modern woman struggling without a mate, showing how it's possible not only to survive but to triumph. The book features dozens of quick "survival checklists" on topics such as dealing with exhaustion and reasons to be happy about being a single mom. Karst's "Ten Commandments for Single Mothers" begins with "Thou shalt not be afraid to ask for help from anyone at any time (because the offers sure as hell won't come in by themselves)." The Single Mother's Survival Guide also includes wisdom and inspiration for the single mother, touching on goals and dreams, affirmations, and gratitude.

Customer Reviews:

5 out of 5 stars Single parents, if ya need a lift today, read this!.......2007-09-07

This funny yet realistic book helped me deal with some tough issues and brought a smile to my face. It's the kind of thing you need to read when looking at parenthood alone.

4 out of 5 stars It's a nice gift that will encourage single moms.......2007-08-26

The Single Mom's Survival guide is a comfort book that offers encouragement and tidbits of advice for women who are single mothers. If you know of a single mom who could use a little inspiration or if you are a single mom in need of inspiration, this little book makes a nice gift.

Cassandra Mack, author of "The Single Mom's Little Book of Wisdom: 42 Tidbits of Wisdom To Help You Survive, Succeed and Stay Strong," and host of The No More Drama Hour of Power

4 out of 5 stars Survival: Just What I Need Around Here!.......2007-03-26

I loved the title of this short book, which is why I bought it. Most days I need a "survival guide" around here --- raising two boys on my own. Patrice Kurst writes well and there's useful information in this little book. I wish she had written a few more chapters, but I'm grateful for the wise insight these pages hold. There's light for your journey here!

Barbara Sheldon, M.S.W.
I also highly recommend: Raising Great Kids on Your Own: A Guide and Companion for Every Single Parent

5 out of 5 stars I loved the book............2007-03-05

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5 out of 5 stars Awesome!!.......2006-03-09

Whenever I am feeling overwhelmed or dissapointed about the situation I am in, I simply pickup this book and regain my center, my focus and my goals for my life. It makes me laugh, reminds me once again that I CAN DO this, and that look at all he is missing out on!!! I have the best job in the world, I am her MOM and I am doing on my own!!!
What in the World Do You Do When Your Parents Divorce?: A Survival Guide for Kids (Laugh & Learn (Free Spirit Publishing))
Average customer rating: 4 out of 5 stars
  • Good teaching tool
What in the World Do You Do When Your Parents Divorce?: A Survival Guide for Kids (Laugh & Learn (Free Spirit Publishing))
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This companion to the Juggling Act parent's book is specially aimed at kids ages 7-12. It explains divorce, new living arrangements, and other basics to help children understand what's happening in their lives. With honesty and simplicity, the authors help kids realize that divorce isn't their fault, strong emotions are okay, and families can survive difficult changes. Written to and for kids, this book is also recommended for parents, educators, counselors, and youth workers.

Customer Reviews:

4 out of 5 stars Good teaching tool .......2007-09-23

I use this book as a tool for providing small group counseling for elementary students. It helps kids understand that they did not cause the divorce so they can't fix it. It helps begin discussions about feelings and concerns they may have about two houses, two families, two sets of rules and other changes that happen as a result of a divorce.

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